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Mel, 51

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Hi there...I am so sorry for all you well intentioned men out there. But I have to say this with hopes of boys that just look at the pictures. I am not interested in talking dirty, doing the wild thing on the first meet or seeing a person that looks different from what you've shown online. I don't mean to sound harsh but come on guys it's not a pair of shoes I'm buying I won't change my mind! Right off the hop I'd like to say that if your looking for a one night stand or if your a serial dater kindly move on. I'm a lady with spunk, love life with alot of energy. Life is to short and there is so much to explore on many fronts. I own my home so needless to say there is always something to do and I always have a project on the go. I'm not afraid to use a hammer or any other tool that makes a home a nicer place to live. After all it is an investment so why not help it to grow. You can also find me in Home Depot with a ball cap and ponytail, business attire or an evening gown. I have always been a people person so shy I am not. I'm happy with my exterior appearance but truly believe that true beauty is inside and I work hard at both. Life is a classroom and there's always room for growth. I truly believe that I have alot of great qualities to bring to the table and won't settle so I trust my *** find me a gentleman that can bring the same. Don't get me wrong I want a man in my life for all the positive aspects of a relationship but don't need a man. My son has just completed his BA at Guelph University (hence the reason I bought my home in Guelph) but is working now and recently got his own apartment, car and I'm very proud of the man that he has become. Now it's my time :) As far as location is concerned I'm flexible within the Southern Ont. area. I haven't yet decided if I want to sell my home or rent it. This is a university town and could utilize it as a good investment. Part of my decision will depend on who I'm with and where we're heading in yrs. to come. I know what I want and the direction I'd like to go in the future and I'd like to do this with a best friend, confidant and lover. A man with a sense of humour is a must, independant, intelligent, kind spirit and basically on the same page looking for similar goals in life.I try to reply to all even if your not my type I'll be polite and honest. Please don't take it personally different strokes for different folks. Your gal is just around the corner be patient. She's there :) We can both decide after all it's a meet and greet. Please be honest with your pictures and have them current. I mean you will eventually meet so starting off with a lie is just not a good start. First impressions are important.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mello

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    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-31

    Hi! My name is Mello. I am never married other caucasian woman with kids from Millbrook, Alabama, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Ami

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Clarifications: I am not sure if I am exactly thin. (weigh 127ish, depending on my potato chip consumption) The photos are recent and not altered in any way, so decide for yourself. Also, I am ***cm tall. One kid lives with me, the oldest visits.Usually, people assume I am in my 30s or 40s, attitude, energy, interests, etc. wise.I can be glamorous (or edgy) and I can be goofy. When it's a good tune, I dance all around the house. I am a rock star in my car. I really enjoy other people. I have lived urban, small city, rural. All are great. I am stable and dependable, yet spontaneous and able to take risks. I am passionate and enthusiastic about my work. Actually, that's true about all my interests! Really though, I do know how to relax too. (can't get enough of the beach)My perspective on things is often irreverent or unconventional, but never mean. I tell it the way I see it. I make a lot of people laugh but I am a terrible joke- I am looking for love and fun and companionship -- I am not looking to rescue you in any way; I am not looking for a provider or a protector or a toy boy. However, if you are the one for me, I will turn cartwheels for you! (former cheerleader, can you tell?)My kids ***and ***are my number one priority, without a doubt! They are amazing. Weird and wonderful. And so much fun. I am a lucky mom and I know it. This past weekend I watched my son be 'trainer' for a Major Atom AA hockey team.. Awwww. (jsyk, his tie was ugly-- but he was very handsome. and so serious. So proud I could pop!)My interests are learning and doing. Everything from fitness to psychology. Cultural events to creative arts. Reading to dining out. Marketing/business to home renos. The list goes on and on.... My goals in life are to learn a lot, do a lot, achieve a lot of my dreams, love a lot, laugh a lot....... :) I am sure we can find interests in common.I see an ongoing back and forth conversation bubbling over with energy, ideas, laughter and passion for life, often while doing things or going places! maybe hiking, going to an estate auction, painting a room, attending a concert or play, hanging out with family or friends, exploring a new location, etc. I am not willing to settle. I want a lot, but I have a lot to give! (apparently, my fave phrase today is 'a lot')And YOU? You're uniquely you! I look forward to learning about you, your ideas, interests, etc.Actually, we do need to share some of the same traits and attitudes toward life (this list is not in any order):ethical, reliable, responsible, thoughtful, trustworthy, affectionate, considerate, kindenthusiastic and energetichave got your life together, capable, financially stablenot one of those people whose lives are always full of drama physically fit, look good in your clothes.....mostly good-humoured, play well with others, friendly, prefer people to screensquite talkative, yet listen wellappreciate and respect different people, opinions and viewpoints prioritize your kids (it shows in your actions, not just your words)younger than your years and always will be able to be a team playersmart (always learning)agree that education isn't always found in schoolnot sarcastic or mean, you don't believe in revengecan laugh at yourselfable to accept (and give) love and support freely willing to let a relationship take its course (I am looking for love and like/friendship and chemistry all in one)know the value of simple things (and enjoy the finer things too)not totally obsessed by one aspect (sport, hobby, business, etc) of your life (unless it's your kids)you like hugging (like you like breathing)believe love is a joyful verb, as well as a wonderful experienceglad to be alive every daytry to see the bright side in experiences and learn from them (kinda hokey, but kinda important)It's not about public image or competitive achievement checklists.FYI, I don't like non-readers, facial hair (except eyebrows!), couch potatoes, motorcycles, homebodies, complainers, hunting, or fishing (unless we don't catch anything). Also, I don't believe the world is worse now than in the past.)bookstore (lots of ideas for conversation there, I would think)flea market?sports event?maybe we could arrange to observe each other (at a gym or somewhere) for a while to see if we like what we see?? (just thinking out loud here.... and 'observe' sounds less creepy than 'spying')what's your idea?

  • Kimiko

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Well hello to all seekers out there,I'm a lover of people and find myself to be very social however, I'm not a partier. When it's a family gathering or a good cause, I'm told I can be the life of the party. I have a great sense of humor and I'm very light -hearted most of the time. I will not laugh at you but I will laugh with you. I'm a lover, not a fighter. lol I am currently raising two grandchildren. They are 6 and 12 now so they will be with me a few more years. They are such a joy to have in my life, and so I'd welcome any other children that may be a part of your life. I believe in the philosophy, "our time, their time [kids] and my time". I believe individuality is important for growth. I am not a religious person, by that I mean I do not attend a church. I have found my church to be in nature. I am looking for my soul mate whom I believe is someone that will compliment me. I am not looking for perfection, just an open heart.I am looking for a man who see's all the small things along the way, because at the end of the day it's all the small things that really are the big things. I love romance therefore, I'm looking for someone with a passionate soul for life.Be advised that if we were to go fishing, I don't mind putting my own worm on but I really can't do the leaches. LOL. Let's do rain sometimes and how about sneaking away on the weekends.It would be nice if you enjoyed cooking, we could share the kitchen. I like to ride my stationary bike and swim a couple of times of week, love the hot tub, but you won't find me in the gym.I also love to walk.I am looking for someone who will be my best friend and confidante in all things.I hope that you can make me laugh till I cry, and when I cry you can hold me till I can laugh again.Writing has always been a passion of mine. I have aspirations of writing a book. I am very grateful for all of the hardships I've endured and the lessons that I've learned. I believe that these are what have built my character and strengths. When I am feeling low (which is not often), music is my drug of choice. I love country, easy listening, gospel and the 60's 70's. For the record, I'm always singing. I am looking for a man who is not afraid to show his soft side. An affectionate man is sexy.I am so looking forward to this journey. I really do believe that the man I am looking for is also looking for me! (Every pot has a lid)I am not interested in a playmate type situation, so please do not message me for that. Thank you so much for taking the time to read my profile. A nice walk on the boardwalk and if it goes well a nice bite to eat somewhere. or if you're feeling a little competitive i'd give you a good run for your money on the mini putt , lol.

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