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Jacobina, 54

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About Me

Please don't let my pictures scare you. Me in my work clothes, ugh. Realized that the pleats in my shirt make it look like my boobs are down to my waist ... they're not :) I really need to get some better pictures!I'm an old-fashioned girl who is unpretentious and honest. I enjoy the quiet life, long walks, pleasurable meals, and good conversation (with lots of eye contact). Oh god, I am now finding myself zooming past profiles that say 'old-fashioned', 'honest', 'caring'. So cliched. Please tell me I'm not that damned boring!I love good old rock and roll music and bluejeans, but also clean up pretty good. I'm not very graceful or confident on the dance floor, but I can sit on a chair and rock 'til dawn. I was married for a long time, and am enjoying my freedom, but would like to find a companion at the same stage of life ... old enough to know who you are and what you want, but not too old to act like a kid now and then. I don't miss being married, but I do miss the companionship and intimacy. Be careful, I have a bit of a wild child alter-ego ... love motorcycles, tasteful tattoos and earrings, and wouldn't mind experiencing the other side of 'the tracks'. Guess I would like to find out what I missed by getting married at 20, LOL.Haven't done much in the last few years, but I love to travel, especially Europe and Caribbean cruises. Ahhh ... cruising. The ultimate in decadence!I have two adult children, and three beautiful grandchildren that I love spending time with, and would hope that my companion would enjoy sharing this with me. I am warm, sensitive and honest (and sometimes a little too trusting!), but also sensual and naughty. And oh ya, very important, I have a great, and sometimes wicked sense of humor, and love to laugh my ass off!As my days on this site go by, I keep adding or changing things in my profile. I've read some really clever profiles on here, and realize that mine is lacking, but I'm usually on here in the middle of the night, when I'm mostly brain-dead and too tired to think of anything witty. There's a lot more to me than what is written here.This is my first experience with a dating site, so please be gentle :) I have not dated since my divorce, so my idea of a first date would probably be a coffee at Tim Hortons (or whips and chains ...) I know that sounds a little cheesy, but I enjoy the informality of a cafe (or porn shop ...) where it's easy to have a conversation and make eye-contact. This dating game is new to me, and I'm a little nervous, so I need to be comfortable during the initial introductions. After that, well, let's just say .....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Anjelica

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Hi guys!.. I'm an independent, openly affectionate, fun lovin' mother of an awesome 24 year old son...with a love for MUSIC, ANIMALS/nature & comedy. I enjoy workin' out a couple times a week. Tryin' to tone up...lose some weight and live a healthier, happier lifestyle. (Already payin' off!) It would be nice to interact with like-minded individuals. I like to fish...and YES...I bait my own hook! I have a HUGE lovin' heart, a sharp mind (above average)...admittedly suffers from occasional "blond moments". HUSH! It’s part o'me charm. *Giggle* I'm animated with a WARPED sense of humor...a bit of a smahtazz...but ONLY in fun. I'm outspoken in a matter of fact, logical kind of way. I'm a very open, effective communicator...and would appreciate the same. I avoid drama...I'll walk away from an argument. Sort of tomboy/jeans & T shirt type... I'm pretty laid back for the most part...easy to get along with...with an occasional playful hyper streak that can get me into trouble if I get the giggles. (I could very well be the ONLY volunteer parent in history to be put in "time out" in my son's kindergarten class. LOL) Sort of a loner/homebody at times...but I do like to get out and do things. Very easy to please...not materialistic...jus' wanna love and be loved. I enjoy anything sensual…LOVE to kiss, or anything that provokes laughter or deep thought. I also enjoy sharin' new interests and ideas. And might I add...that I have an inner "rocker child" jus' itchin' to get out! \m/O^O\m/My son is the MOST important thing in my life...that goes without sayin'...but right now...I am focusin' on my level of happiness for a change. He's doin' his own thing back in SC...and though I HAVE dated since I left my ex...I've never brought a man into our home. I don’t believe in paradin’ men/women around children…so I’ve put a lot of my own needs on the back burner to be a GOOD, committed single mom. Now that I have raised my son I feel like I can finally "exhale"...so to speak. I'm tryin' to broaden my circle of friends...and maybe let someone special into my life. I'm not in a big hurry...things should develop naturally over time.At the risk of interjecting negativity...I'll not meet anyone without a recent photo (C'mon y'all...we were all hot back in high school! LOL)...one taken within the past couple of years will suffice. Nor will I meet anyone I've not spoken with on the phone. Once weboth reach a certain level of comfort...we can meet on a "no promises/no expectations" basis and see where it leads. (No players or "one night stands"...self respect thing y'know.) If we make a mutual connection...and it goes there...I'd love to explore a romantic, long-term relationship. If it blossoms into something deep and meaningful...wonderful! (But please don't lead me to believe that we share somethin' more...if we don't.) If not, then we can enjoy interactin' as friends...a win/win situation...agreed? *Smile*If ya think you'd like to get to know me...send me a message. But PLEASE...approach me with RESPECT...cuz ya get whutcha give...y'know? Later!"It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages." ~ Friedrich Nietzsche (19th-Century German Philosopher) I'm flexible...kinda "go with the flow" kinda gal. We can meet...talk...see if we click...then let mutual interests and spontaneity dictate the rest of the day/evenin'. I'll even pay for my portion...howzat? ;-)

  • Jason

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I'm a loving and caring woman who would love to find someone special to share all that life brings. I am very family and friends oriented and I love to have a good time whether at home or out. Enjoying the small things in life is what counts to making each day great. Some place nice to meet and talk about eachother over dinner or coffee.

  • Verda

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Discovering who I am and what make me happy.......I am a caring, kind, easy going and a great cook. I am a classy lady, yet not high maintenance. I am looking for someone of the same likeness who strives to make life exciting and fun. Coffee and Conversation, followed by a walk a long walk............Weather it be downtown, along the beach, along a nature trail.............Making plans for another date!!!

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