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Cara, 54

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About Me

Hi,First of all, Thanks for stopping by. Let's get this smoking thing out on the table. I quit backslid and at this point seem to be on the way to winning the battle to set them down for good. (a work in progress)There are tons of things I enjoy. I don't have to be the best at something to have fun doing it. I like to play......a lot. From volleyball to tic tac toe :). I also enjoy peace, quiet and a mindless evening of sitcoms or movies. I have a fairly quick, sometimes sarcastic, wit. I try to make the best of what ever task I have to do. I am so not afraid of acting silly and have been known to do so on several occasions. I like to think of myself as having a thick skin, but when it comes down to it I will cry at the drop of a hat. Oh well....I work at a local gym. I enjoy my gym job because of the relationships I get to build, a staff that is like a second family to me and the people I get to help. I have 3 grown kids. Different as night and day. Love the stuffins out of all 3.I like most kinds of music, I grew up with Pink Floyd etc..... so I'm pretty much all over the map, If you can throw a little hip into it I'm all about it. I do enjoy being outdoors when it's not ***and humid. Hiking, back of a bike, concert, community theatre, sports bar, I'll even go fishing every now and then, I stink at golf but enjoy playing (at it), darts, swimming, cold beer warm night, Baily's on a cold one. Travel seeing new things. Attending sporting events. For some reason I really like hockey, (go figure) I am at a point in my life where I am getting to be a little better at expressing myself........ ..; :(. I am about living my life to the fullest . If it won't get me killed or thrown in jail I'm all in! I have spent a lot of years tending to other peoples needs and am ready to tend to my ownThat being said things are always so much better if you have someone to share them with..... I love to be cared for and return the favor. Snuggle, hand holding, open my door for me, Have my heart. Consideration & Caring.. I am one of the most caring, compassionate smart asses you will ever meet.I'm looking for someone who is comfortable in his own skin. Easy going and quick witted. Someone adventurous enough to try something new. While not being opposed to a night of just relaxing together. Having a tuff time findin current pics this sight will accept. The ones posted are just a couple of years old. Stay tuned. I finally found one that is current. If you are very observant you will notice my hair color changes with the seasons, my mood, or just because. It's just hair :) I have started to write this five times five different ways. The main thing I keep coming back to is meeting somewhere for a drink or coffee where we can hear each other and exchange our stories, then we see where the it goes.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Itzel

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    About me... Also I love to hang out with my best girlfriends and play ball with my best canine friend, Mocha. Basically, I have learned to relish the simple things in life and want to share good times and laughs with someone like-minded and easy-going like me!!! About you: DEFINATELY NEED TO BE A NONSMOKER with a good sense of humor (I especially love dry & witty humor) and no game playing, drama or excess baggage!!! Good communication is a must as is honesty, trust, respect, & eventually becoming exclusive if it's a match! I'm wiling to date someone older than myself as long as they act young at heart. I did list as my intent as "dating but nothing serious". I just want to make it clear that I'm open to it becoming something more serious but it's not the end of the world for me if I don't find that right person. I'd rather be alone than with the wrong person. I was in a LTR with a person who did me wrong & don't ever want to have that be the case again so I'm just going to be more discerning with who I give my heart to, that's all. I really do want to find my other half eventually, don't we all!!!! I have a lot to offer to the right person & love the companionship that comes with being in a fulfilling, loving & commited relationship. I love the intimacy that 2 people who are right for each other can share. From the smallest touch of affection to the passionate side of things!! My ideal first date isn't about where we go or what we're doing. It's about having that chemistry and comfort with each other from the very beginning when you are with the right person that matters!

  • Briony

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am honest, caring, kind and forgiving. I believe that you should be yourself everyone else is taken.God is first and foremost in my life.And I'm looking for the same in a partner someone who isn't just a fan of Jesus but a follower. My faith is very important to me. I am very spiritual, I pray several times a day, and I believe you need to guard your thoughts because what you think about you bring about. I am a very active, loving and caring person. I am also very affectionate, giving and kind. I hope to meet someone who is the same. I'm looking for someone who wants to focus on one person, not juggling so many that they can't be 100% emotionally available. I'm not into head games or drama and I don't need someone to complete me or to make me happy or to give me a life...I have a life and I am happy with my self and with what the Lord has blessed me with. I love walks, We could go for a nice walk hand in hand I would rather be walking on the beach with the one I love than watching TV. We would cherish every moment that we have together because I have learned through loss how short life really is and how we need to cherish every moment that we have with those we choose to love. And yes I believe love is a choice.We would be kind to one another and not sweat the small stuff because I believe that forgiveness is one of the hardest most powerful choices that we can make to change our life and free us from our past. True forgiveness as in letting go...not letting go for the moment then bringing all the offenses back up everytime that you have a disagreement that's not forgiveness that's keeping score. Life is too short to carry around all that baggage filled with every offense that has ever been committed against you let it go. Honesty and trust are very important to me and Trust is probably the most important ingredient in building an intimate relationship between a man and a woman. Actions speak louder than words. If you are a narcissist, negative, carry a long list, hard to please, a perfectionist or have a controlling personality move on by... please... I'm only interested in a true partnership because to me the best things in life aren't things. That being said I have a huge heart, love socializing, I love to boat and I love to travel & meet new people.I love to camp, and have a place year round where I leave my camper.I love to fish and I have my own tackle box. I am very outgoing and make friends easily. I love anything outdoors. Oh I'm a huge animal lover and I have dogs so if your not it's a dealbreaker for me. I am very grateful, positive and independant and I look for someone who I can bless daily. I have a daughter and granddaughter who live about 2 hours away. I don't get to see her much but my granddaughter is the light of my life. I believe that God has a plan for my life and things happen for a reason. I choose to live in the moment because yesterday is gone and tommorrow isnt here so all we really have is right now this very momment. I think the only things you regret in life are the risks that you don't take...so here I am...looking for someone that I can't live without and I won't settle for anything less. Are you the one? I hope so because I really want to get off of here. Update: I now live the RV life full time. I love it! I'm a little old school here as I believe a man should have a plan...

  • Johnie

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Thanks for "visiting"! Here's a *** me: My 12 and 13 year old consume much of my time so, although I love to travel, extensive world journeys are probably not on the radar for a few years.... if you have kids, though, all the better...my dream is to have a bustling house for every holiday with great smells coming from the kitchen and lots of little fingerprints on the holiday tables. Ultimately I am looking for a best friend that can share my days and nights, who can accept me for all my kooky imperfections. I am past (thankfully!) the stage where I need a man to complete me or validate me...I love my alone time but miss having a man to share my heart with. I am not clingy and would prefer you not to be either! That doesn't mean I wouldn't like to spend lots of time cuddling with someone, should I fall in love! I am far from perfect and am not looking for someone perfect. It's about finding someone you love to be with enough to choose to accept all of their imperfections. I want to find someone to love me for who I am rather than be discontent with who I'm not....and vice versa!! I enjoy simple pleasures...dinner and movies...walks in small towns...puttering in antique shops...Pumpkin Spice Lattes with a crossword puzzle... Looking forward to traveling again someday...have always been fascinated by different cultures. And I LOVE dogs--have a Basset Hound and an Olde English Bulldogge who is a sweetheart! We also have a bearded dragon, hamster, fish.....and I believe we are soon adding a frog.... One of my "hobbies" is helping to transport rescued dogs from shelters to either their foster homes or forever homes. NOTHING feels better than helping save the lives of shelter dogs!! Turn offs: smoking, shallow/superficial people, impatience, arrogance, people who only talk about themselves... Turn ons: good listener, quirky sense of humor, animal lover, just plain "real"! I want to: take up photography, travel to Europe, run an animal sanctuary, make a difference. LOVE this saying (Dala'i Lama) : If you think you are too small to make a difference, try sleeping in a room with a mosquito!! Soooo...If you think we'd click, say hi! Coffee...and you?

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