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About Me

I'm a genuinely kind person - I look for the best in everybody and in every situation. I'm also smart and witty. I love bantering and laughing and engaging in philosophical or spiritual discussions. I appreciate honesty and humor. I've raised 4 children of my own and have one beautiful 17 year-old daughter still with me, but she is often doing her own thing. Because I have spent my adult years raising children, I am looking for a man who wants to focus on spending some special adult time with me. Children can be a real joy and add a lot of life to the environment, but I'd want to know there was at least a ***parenting schedule. I really value special time as it is the best gift anyone could give. I am healthy and like to do anything new and adventurous. Given, I have gained weight since divorce but all photos here are fairly current if not brand new, except for the one pic of me wearing the black Bebe tank top in ***my personal motivation to get back into shape). I enjoy traveling, both locally and abroad. I am fascinated with sociology and psychology and immersion in other cultures. My BA is in Rhetoric and Communication so I'm easy to converse with, and you'll find that I am more interested in talking about you than me. I always need to be learning to stay stimulated. I am searching for a man who is genuinely kind at heart, compassionate toward others, open-minded, and goal-oriented.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Political views

    Some other viewpoint

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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