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Al, 53
United States, Arizona, Litchfield Park

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About Me

Success in any relationship for me is about being present, for honesty, sincerity, and actualization of wishes. It's good to have an idea of where we want to go but when we are in step with ourself we are already there. The temptation at first glance is to give away ourselves in order to meet our needs, and when we look at anything, honoring necessities is always top of the list because it is living in the real world. And any measure of any aim is willingness to commit to it, because with commitment all the rules change. So how do we remain flexible, true to ourself, open to new ideas, sustain meaning, comfort, love from the heart, growth, security, freedom? Balance is essential, yes? Letting go continuously in intelligent ways, yes? Growing with shared experiences? My parents were married for 60 something years and they were able to transform negative experiences into mostly positive, though not always easy to do, over time they knew they could trust the process. Yet here I am at 53, here,now, looking for a beginning, for some organic benevolence that I trust is possible. It is the third relationship composed between two individuals and everything they bring with them that defines where we can go. Through the possible being possible the impossible becomes possible. Now forget all of this. Becoming acquainted in a casual atmosphere where we can see, hear, smell, each other for the right thing in the right place at the right time. This like most things should be discussed.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reading Canadian Chinese Adult Adventure Sport
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    Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 48-58

    Love to go for a ride on my motorcycle with the wind on my face and feel of the open road. Looking for someone to ride on my backseat or just hang out and watch a movie cuddled on the couch. Looking for someone to share the ride with and the adventure of new beginings and new expierences. I enjoy all music but my favorite are slowjams and the blues. I have been a mobile DJ for the past ( clearing my throat sound ) let's just say a very long time. Besides my love of the open road music is my vice. I also enjoy cooking and trying new ideas be it in the kitchen or in life live for the moment because it might all be gone tomorrow. First date: If on a nice warm day a nice long ride in the country side winding through the trees just enjoying the fresh air and all the natural beauty that most take for granted. Stopping along the way to enjoy each others company. No time limits no known distanation just riding and seeing where we end up.First date: If at night or a not so nice day then a nice dinner some small conversation getting to know each other a little better a movie be it at home or at the theater.

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