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Al, 53

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About Me

Success in any relationship for me is about being present, for honesty, sincerity, and actualization of wishes. It's good to have an idea of where we want to go but when we are in step with ourself we are already there. The temptation at first glance is to give away ourselves in order to meet our needs, and when we look at anything, honoring necessities is always top of the list because it is living in the real world. And any measure of any aim is willingness to commit to it, because with commitment all the rules change. So how do we remain flexible, true to ourself, open to new ideas, sustain meaning, comfort, love from the heart, growth, security, freedom? Balance is essential, yes? Letting go continuously in intelligent ways, yes? Growing with shared experiences? My parents were married for 60 something years and they were able to transform negative experiences into mostly positive, though not always easy to do, over time they knew they could trust the process. Yet here I am at 53, here,now, looking for a beginning, for some organic benevolence that I trust is possible. It is the third relationship composed between two individuals and everything they bring with them that defines where we can go. Through the possible being possible the impossible becomes possible. Now forget all of this. Becoming acquainted in a casual atmosphere where we can see, hear, smell, each other for the right thing in the right place at the right time. This like most things should be discussed.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60

    Hi, I like snow skiing, boating, and traveling. I love beach bars and vacations with no plans. Just go with it.

  • Courtney

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    Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 51-61

    I am an easy going person,pretty flexible, I like trying different things. I enjoy spending time with my kids and family. I have 3 kids, 2 live with me part time. A girl 18,and a boy 12. They come first in my life.I love them very much and spend as much time with them as i can.I like sitting around the fire outdoors.I enjoy going to the mountains.I enjoy riding my motorcycle. I like cookouts and going out to eat also.I listen to country music. I am not a player,I don't use people, I am a one woman man. I have never cheated on anyone.I would like to find a nice attractive woman/NON SMOKER/ that has the same values.I would like to date someone and get to know them to see if we have anything in common. For a first date i would like to take you out to eat and talk and just get to know one another.And hopefully plan our next date.

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    Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59

    So, yes I am a romantic at heart, and looking to find a woman to share it with. music: best of 70s 80s and 90s no rap. coffee, drinks, dinner, or comedy club.

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