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Al, 53

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About Me

Success in any relationship for me is about being present, for honesty, sincerity, and actualization of wishes. It's good to have an idea of where we want to go but when we are in step with ourself we are already there. The temptation at first glance is to give away ourselves in order to meet our needs, and when we look at anything, honoring necessities is always top of the list because it is living in the real world. And any measure of any aim is willingness to commit to it, because with commitment all the rules change. So how do we remain flexible, true to ourself, open to new ideas, sustain meaning, comfort, love from the heart, growth, security, freedom? Balance is essential, yes? Letting go continuously in intelligent ways, yes? Growing with shared experiences? My parents were married for 60 something years and they were able to transform negative experiences into mostly positive, though not always easy to do, over time they knew they could trust the process. Yet here I am at 53, here,now, looking for a beginning, for some organic benevolence that I trust is possible. It is the third relationship composed between two individuals and everything they bring with them that defines where we can go. Through the possible being possible the impossible becomes possible. Now forget all of this. Becoming acquainted in a casual atmosphere where we can see, hear, smell, each other for the right thing in the right place at the right time. This like most things should be discussed.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60

    I am a genuine, straight forward, positive,funny, dependable, and don't take myself too seriously, also very laid backThere is a lot I like I....I am always amazed about the world around us and love to explore and learn something new every daySo 1st time we meet if the attraction is there we take if from that point...if not there is no sense in continuingI enjoy all types of music love the 70's classicsI am very young at heart and live each day to its bestYI hope to find someone who is positive, independent, adventurous, active, open mindedHard to meet someone online in eastern CT it seems but if you live over 1 hour away it probably wont work. If you are fresh out of a relationship (week to a couple of months) or still in one I really don't want to be a part of that....everyone needs time to figure things out and I cant wrap myself into something like that. I have met many women who are a week separated or just divorced, still living with their ex.....I understand some people want to meet someone quickly but those initial rebound things usually don't last Pretty informal 1st date possibly dinner in a nice quiet place

  • Gabriel

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    Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59

    I am am easy going fun guy. I like spending time in the outdoors cycling, hiking, camping, skiing, etc. Looking for someone that likes to go out and have a nice dinner meet for a beer or just relax watching a movie with a glass of wine or beer. Looking for someone that enjoys life but doesn't take everything to serious. Someone that likes to laugh and have fun. Feel free to ask me anything you would like to know about me. Let's meet for coffee or a drink and see how things go from there. Meet for coffee or a drink and see how things go from there.

  • Rocket

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    Man. 56 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 27-55

    Looking to meet someone to enjoy my free time with and see where it goes from there. If your interested shoot me a text.. I'm not an upgraded member.. so I can't chat on here... feel free to text me at ***three two o three ***

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