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Deshawn, 53

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About Me

+ years now. Originally from the NYC metro area. Sinatra 2 Bob Marley & older R&R. Very family oriented individual and am a 1 woman man. I do believe great communication is the foundation for a long lasting successful relationship. Great cook, usually from scratch, almost everyday, Financially and emotionally very stable. Very independent and am not looking to play games, life is too short and one's time is too valuable. Looking for a partner, you know,,,,,, I've got your back, please watch mine. It would be nice if someone also had interests of their own and interests we could share together. If you enjoy traveling that's a big plus, D.C. NYC, Fl, Caribbean, Europe, a quiet cabin on a lake with a row boat, as long as you're with the right person anywhere can be alot of fun. I also enjoy live baseball games, movies, some T.V.,,, Law and order, etc. Really prefer small quaint privately owned restaurants *** larger chains. Please ladies,, no drama queens!!!!!, Would`nt it be great just to have a enjoyable and exciting relationship??? Yes, they can co-exist together as long as the chemistry is right. Must be a great kisser and like affection!!!!! If any of this makes sense please contact me and good luck to all. Thanks Matthew. First date should be somewhere that you can hear yourself think and speak. Could be a casual drink, coffee or a bite to eat.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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