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Jefferey, 55
United States, Wisconsin, Whitewater

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About Me

I've discovered that I am attracted to people who are passionate about their lives, their life's work, and their future. I enjoy seeing someone in my season of life really excited about what they do, who they are and who they want to be. I have a heart for service, and I pursue that interest through my church, along with like-minded Christians. Faith in God is very important to me. I don't feel a need to impose my beliefs on other people, but I am not afraid to admit I am a follower of Christ.I also enjoy stimulating, intelligent conversation with lots of laughter. Not super cerebral, quantum-physics intelligent ... I just enjoy being around smart people who want to make a difference, who can laugh at themselves, and will occasionally laugh at my dry humor. I consider myself to be fair-minded, interested in what other people think and believe (even if I don't agree with them), and capable of engaging in balanced relationships.If you're still reading, there's a good chance we share the viewpoint that one must know who they are and what they want for their life before trying to be in a lifelong, intimate relationship. So what do I want in a woman as a potential mate? Well, I want someone who has failed enough to know what success looks like, and succeeded enough to know that fulfilling relationships are more about commitment, give-and-take, and balance than sheer luck or fate. Someone who is smart, funny, capable of spontaneity, self-confident. Someone who takes care of herself, physically, emotionally and spiritually. Someone who is fair-minded, passionate about her beliefs, hopeful about the future, and ready to find someone who will love them completely and unconditionally.Wow that's pretty heady stuff, so here's the light stuff. I like rock, folk, and alternative music, psychological thrillers, and Thai food. In my day job, I am a software consultant with my own business. I like beaches, mountains and places I've never been before. I have a beautiful daughter who is a sophomore in high school. I've been in the south most of my adult life. I enjoy tennis, cycling (road), community theatre, museums, and the symphony. If you're STILL reading, you are either in a trance-like state or interested enough to know more (either of which I can handle). You'll find me to be very approachable and extremely easy to talk to, so just hello and let's get to know each other. My pictures are current, by the way ... Coffee or dinner over light conversation. If there's a spark, we'll know ...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Classical Middle Eastern Spanish Thai Shooting Sports Snowboarding
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