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Jefferey, 55
United States, Wisconsin, Whitewater

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About Me

I've discovered that I am attracted to people who are passionate about their lives, their life's work, and their future. I enjoy seeing someone in my season of life really excited about what they do, who they are and who they want to be. I have a heart for service, and I pursue that interest through my church, along with like-minded Christians. Faith in God is very important to me. I don't feel a need to impose my beliefs on other people, but I am not afraid to admit I am a follower of Christ.I also enjoy stimulating, intelligent conversation with lots of laughter. Not super cerebral, quantum-physics intelligent ... I just enjoy being around smart people who want to make a difference, who can laugh at themselves, and will occasionally laugh at my dry humor. I consider myself to be fair-minded, interested in what other people think and believe (even if I don't agree with them), and capable of engaging in balanced relationships.If you're still reading, there's a good chance we share the viewpoint that one must know who they are and what they want for their life before trying to be in a lifelong, intimate relationship. So what do I want in a woman as a potential mate? Well, I want someone who has failed enough to know what success looks like, and succeeded enough to know that fulfilling relationships are more about commitment, give-and-take, and balance than sheer luck or fate. Someone who is smart, funny, capable of spontaneity, self-confident. Someone who takes care of herself, physically, emotionally and spiritually. Someone who is fair-minded, passionate about her beliefs, hopeful about the future, and ready to find someone who will love them completely and unconditionally.Wow that's pretty heady stuff, so here's the light stuff. I like rock, folk, and alternative music, psychological thrillers, and Thai food. In my day job, I am a software consultant with my own business. I like beaches, mountains and places I've never been before. I have a beautiful daughter who is a sophomore in high school. I've been in the south most of my adult life. I enjoy tennis, cycling (road), community theatre, museums, and the symphony. If you're STILL reading, you are either in a trance-like state or interested enough to know more (either of which I can handle). You'll find me to be very approachable and extremely easy to talk to, so just hello and let's get to know each other. My pictures are current, by the way ... Coffee or dinner over light conversation. If there's a spark, we'll know ...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Classical Middle Eastern Spanish Thai Shooting Sports Snowboarding
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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60

    I'm putting out a bulletin to get everyone's help. Despite having participated in Search and Rescue for a number of years, I've lost my smile. I have some leads that give me hope that it may soon be found, including a vague description. She appears to be between 40 and 55 years old, but may appear younger than her age. She's at least 5'7" (I am 6'), not a bbw, but doesn't live at the gym either. She has high-maintenance looks with down-to-earth values, attitude, and personality. She loves rock & roll, jazz, and blues and may be found at concerts. I have conflicting reports that she's either a brunette, redhead, or blonde. She's intelligent with her own career and not dependent on someone to support her. If this person can be found, I can offer a reward of lifetime devotion, long, slow kisses that last for days, midnight massages, a partner that loves to cook and doesn't mind sharing in the household chores, someone to wash your back, a shoulder to lean on, and someone who will hold you at night. If you think you may have found my smile, please e-mail me as I really need it to be myself. Thanks. Coffee or Thursday night dinner or drinks or a walk on the beach or anywhere we can spend some time getting to know each other and decide whether we want a second date.

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  • Van from Whitewater | Man | 54 years old | Libra
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    Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 51-61

    Hi there and thanks for taking a look....I am in search of a very loyal loving partner that I could call my lover and my best friend. I love anything to do with water, especially the river, lakes and warm Caribbean water to snorkel in and I would love to learn how to surf some day. I also like the beach, the moutains, camping, golfing, fishing, the Theater, sporting events (especially Charger games) and just about anything else. I’ll try anything except sky diving and swimming with sharks. I like fine wines and I like a great beer. I truely appreciate great cooking and love to barbecue. My favorite food is sushi. I like women that are low maintenance, easy going and have a great sense of humor. I enjoy working out and eating healthy. I would like to get into cycling hiking and any other active sport. I give a great massage and know how to treat a lady. If I sound like someone that you might be interested in send me a note and let’s talk. If not thanks for taking a look. Meeting somewhere quiet for coffee or drinks. If there is a spark we would plan our next date together.

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    Man. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 52-62

    I’m a very enthusiastic, spiritually focused, self- motivated, emotionally mature, confident man. I am looking for someone who wants to share her interests and explore new adventures. Is pleasing to MY eyes and peaceful to my soul. Focuses on "Counting ones Blessings" and hates Drama.I've learned that all things we do in life require a degree of compromise. Many forget this and never work at it. I enjoy pleasing others - pleasing my mate. I’m passionate about doing the right things and not doing the wrong things - speaking from the heart. I'm a happy type of person who believes in making the most out of life despite the setbacks life sometimes throws my way. There just isn't enough time for regrets and sorrow. One of my favorate sayings: "It is what it is - deal with it."We all face things beyond our control - stormy weather, lost luggage, bad service, others bad behavor, spilt milk, etc. I believe we all have problems and issues but it's how we deal with them that determines the type of person we are.I've found that as many people get older they become more "set in thier ways". More rules, more intolerance, more impatience, - less forgiving, less spontaneous, less fun, less flexable,& don't make the most of the moment. I personally fight these feelings every day. I refuse to knowingly let them become part of me. Still a Work in progress.I love to learn, share, explore and experience God’s handiwork.I like style, adventure, good food, tasty wine and great conversation. I’ve traveled to many places, yet the list of places I would love to visit is still growing. A somewhat romantic at heart and a sucker for a handout. What ever works for both. The place is not important.I believe the people your with and enjoying will make the moment special, not the place. If she wishes, I would let the other person choose the place, time, and location.

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