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Jefferey, 55

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I've discovered that I am attracted to people who are passionate about their lives, their life's work, and their future. I enjoy seeing someone in my season of life really excited about what they do, who they are and who they want to be. I have a heart for service, and I pursue that interest through my church, along with like-minded Christians. Faith in God is very important to me. I don't feel a need to impose my beliefs on other people, but I am not afraid to admit I am a follower of Christ.I also enjoy stimulating, intelligent conversation with lots of laughter. Not super cerebral, quantum-physics intelligent ... I just enjoy being around smart people who want to make a difference, who can laugh at themselves, and will occasionally laugh at my dry humor. I consider myself to be fair-minded, interested in what other people think and believe (even if I don't agree with them), and capable of engaging in balanced relationships.If you're still reading, there's a good chance we share the viewpoint that one must know who they are and what they want for their life before trying to be in a lifelong, intimate relationship. So what do I want in a woman as a potential mate? Well, I want someone who has failed enough to know what success looks like, and succeeded enough to know that fulfilling relationships are more about commitment, give-and-take, and balance than sheer luck or fate. Someone who is smart, funny, capable of spontaneity, self-confident. Someone who takes care of herself, physically, emotionally and spiritually. Someone who is fair-minded, passionate about her beliefs, hopeful about the future, and ready to find someone who will love them completely and unconditionally.Wow that's pretty heady stuff, so here's the light stuff. I like rock, folk, and alternative music, psychological thrillers, and Thai food. In my day job, I am a software consultant with my own business. I like beaches, mountains and places I've never been before. I have a beautiful daughter who is a sophomore in high school. I've been in the south most of my adult life. I enjoy tennis, cycling (road), community theatre, museums, and the symphony. If you're STILL reading, you are either in a trance-like state or interested enough to know more (either of which I can handle). You'll find me to be very approachable and extremely easy to talk to, so just hello and let's get to know each other. My pictures are current, by the way ... Coffee or dinner over light conversation. If there's a spark, we'll know ...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Garrett

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60

    Short and sweet (well I'm not short, I am sweet though - I meant the info here, but then it ended up to be more than I thought I would put here) LOL I'm a laid back, easy going kind of guy, take people as they are, respect others and require respect!I'm a good person, I know how to treat a woman like a lady, I'm looking for that real connection, that lasts. I am looking to make a friend, that would eventually turn into a "long term relationship", a woman that has similar interests and some of her own, that would enhance both our lives and broaden my horizons so to speak, to new fun. :})If you want honesty and integrity, look no further, I'm not hiding anything. :}- & have family there. I was married for 21 yrs and gave it my all, took care of her & the kids & she left the three of us.I put my wants a side (a Harley too) for them, I figured that's how it should be. :})I'm an honest guy, you can ask me anything, it's the truth!I like to have fun and want someone to share it with. I really would rather not sit at home, I'm not a couch potato, unless you want to cuddle or more :})I love to cook, shoot pool, fish , darts, movies, parks, the ocean/water, cars, motorcycles (I plan on buying one soon).I give great massages, would love someone to give massages back too. Full body massage with hot oil if that's what you like too. Spending time with you would be first on my list. Not smothering, you know what I mean.:}) I know how to cook and love doing it for you! Maybe not cook all the time, you can cook too I'll let you! lol ;})I come from a big family of 8 siblings and have a twin sister. I've been told I'm a great kisser too. :})~ Ladies, I'm not a player, a liar or a cheat, if I was any of that I wouldn't have put up my pics. I'm a nice guy, not perfect, not a pretty boy, not arrogant or Mr. Stud, just me. :})>Relationships have to be contributed to (worked at) by both sides, not try to fit it into one person's schedule and if it don't work, don't just give up and walk away, try to work it out first. I'm here because I don't think the bar scene is the answer to happiness, living life and having fun! :})>Update: A lot of you women say you want a nice guy, but when you meet one you don't want that. If you want a bad boy then say it and you'll get the guy's you want. That's not me.I know how to treat a woman very special, I'm only looking for ONE woman to be with. I'm up for dating and see how we match and if it doesn't work, you can tell me, (preferably in person), then we can be friends if you'd like. I won't hold a grudge if we're not compatible, I'm old enough and smart enough to know it happens, we're all adults here, well most of us. :})> I'm a nice guy all the time and even nicer with that special person :})Definition of a nice guy = He will not text or e-mail nasty messages to you even after you lied to him or sent him a line of BS about meeting someone or hooking back up with your Ex. After you talked every day for a week and made him think you liked him and tell him you like someone else and went on a date with someone & gonna see if it's gonna work, you can do what you want that's your prerogative. But don't waste his time all week when he could have been talking to someone who is actually interested. That's a good way to make him feel like he's not worth a crap and show how insensitive you are! But he is thankful he didn't actually get to meet you or date you and you waste more of his time!The kicker is your back on-line looking and chatting on meetville and he can see you cause when you e-mail someone here, they can go to their inbox and see your on-line every-time after that! lol (Confirmed Lie!) Just tell him the truth, a nice guy won't send nasty messages and be glad it didn't work! ;})I'm sorry I had to write this, cause for some of you women who are really looking for a real relationship and not playing! This discourages me from talking to many women and I know many men act like they do because this has happened to them too and then there are those that are just *** I won't even say it. It happens to women too I know. I hope the person see's this too, maybe they might get a clue, hey I hurt someone's feelings or did someone wrong, maybe I should do it differently, like the truth!I know most of you ladies love to layout on the beach, I like the beach too, for fishing.But I hope you don't mind if I bring my fishing pole? I don't care much for laying in the sun, but I would surely watch you while you do! ;})Oh yah and apply lotion liberally at your beck and call!***That really gets me!I can't start my bucket list without you, your number one on my list!I want to get off this site as much as you do, give me a chance I will win your heart!!! ;})P.S. I've built homes from the ground up, every part of the homes and very good at remodeling too, I draw them now, steel buildings & steel structures too.If you need a handy man, I'm your guy. (hint hint).I recently went Kayaking on Weeki Wachi river, we had a blast, hope you will go with me next time??? ;})Three things I will not compromise on:Jesus is Lord of all!Women that put status as - Other Religion, Non-Religious or don't believe in God - I will not dateI will not celebrate Halloween!God Bless you all in your search!Tim ;}) We would go to a nice (casual) resturant on the beach, a little live music, some drinks, I might even get up and dance? Sunset and a romantic walk on the beach. I know you've heard it before, but I really like sunsets they're awesome, after the sun goes down is the best part, with the right person we can sit stare at the stars or better yet into each other's eyes. ;})Unless you really like to fish, then we can go fishing. You can learn a lot about someone when your fishing. No punn intended. :}) Maybe a nice picnic? :})Did I mention I'm a good listener too. Ask me anything you'd like to know.

  • Stacey

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    Man. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 50-60

    To describe myself I will tell you what others have said of me. One woman said "You are so smart and athletic and good looking that women should be lining up to go out with you." Enough of quoting my Mom. The following are some statements that women not related to me have made.Not bad looking---"He's not bad looking if you don't get too close and kind of squint your eyes a bit and make them watery and blurry and use your imagination."Not very detestable---"He's less detestable than a guy I heard about on the internet."Women swoon---"He has a strong presence. I sometimes swoon when I am in the same room as him. It's not quite that bad after he's had his annual shower."Well groomed---"He's better groomed than, say, a boy who has been lost in the woods for a week."Athletic---"I would guestimate he may possibly have better basketball skills than ten percent of 2nd graders who have never touched a basketball before."In describing myself with the words of others, I guess I can say I'm not bad looking, not detestable, have a strong presence, well groomed, and athletic. A good first date is when we are just getting to know each other. And if there is a good connection we can decide where to go from there.

  • Ned

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    Man. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 52-62

    My favorite thing at this part of my life is riding my Harley! Riding with friends, hanging out with them, where ever we maybe!Wood working when its below 30* outside. Laugh often, have manners, and will grin like a possum!The keys to a lasting relationship are honesty, self-knowledge, appreciation of a partner's desires and needs, respect, and kindness. I want to share myself, my humor, my hopes, my faith, and my time with a good friend and possible lover. I'm both sensual and romantic, and I look forward to being with someone who can appreciate that.FAVORITE THINGS (Things that make me Smile :***I can't take credit for this addition, stole it from a friend!-worker A "love you";Thank you" A beach when no one is there and you sit and get lost in your thoughts and finally.... Just knowing you have so much to be thankful for and happy about....you feel blessed!!!

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