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Joel, 53
United States, Pennsylvania, Sunbury

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About Me

I always ask myself: "If I were BLIND and I could not see her beauty, would I still like/love her" So maybe that's a reason why I'm still single! :-) ........... Everyone should have a dream. My "Dream" is to be in love with and be loved by my "Best Friend". Living on the oceanfront, you will find me on the beach, going for a run, or just enjoying the views. I'm starting to practice YOGA, I'm not good and look really foolish at it. I also maintain a beach home on Kauai and stay there often, hang out and just play like a teenager. I will not try to impress you with possessions, or with what I can have. Actually a person should be measured by what they GIVE! Not what they Have! "The true rich are NOT the ones that have the most!.. the richest are the ones that need! the least!.." I can be your best friend, the one you first run too just to share both good and bad news with. I can know the REAL you and you can tell me your innermost secrets. I can then be your cheerleader and confidant. I am out here for LOVE... and I want to be LOVED! I am sometimes crazy, sometimes smart, mostly fun, and occasionally grumpy. I can be very spontaneous and even naughty! The Real measure of a MAN is what's between his Ears, Your Heart! can see so much more of what is right for YOU! than your Eyes! One should not need to measure something that is very "Large or Small" it is, what it is at a glance. If you're focusing on his age, height, weight, or physical attractiveness, you may not be a good match with me. I love making others laugh, or smile, if I can't do that, I'll just laugh with myself! When you smile and laugh, the people around you feel better about life and You! Since it is more fulfilling to Give than Receive, this is a passion of mine. My Parents were Italian (Sicilian), so I speak Italian/Sicilian as a second language. I'm easy going, I don't mind it if you have children with you, (most do). I married very young and my two children are now adults and they married very young themselves. The woman for me would have to have Brains, because Beauty fades, but Brains and Personality last For a Lifetime! You know, the Gift Inside, NOT the Wrapping. If you have gotten this far! Congratulations! we may be a match! Just Give me a try I think I will surprise you. How about this: I have two beach cruiser bikes here.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Fishing English Thai Turkish Action Family & Kids War
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