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Elena, 43

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Does this EVER get ANY easier? I am a Mom .... raising 2 daughters that take up a lot of my time.. I work, and travel from time to time for my job. In the past, dating was not very easy for me, however when I do have free time... I like to have plans to spend with that SPECIAL "ONE".I want to be VERY upfront and say that if you are on this site, to "prowl" and "score" I am NOT INTERESTED. IF you are NOT looking for an eventual SERIOUS LTR. Please do not waste either of our time. I HONESTLY want to spend the free time I have with someone who is looking towards the future. If you are still in LOVE with your ex... Married.... Newly Separated..... or just a Gigilo...I am not interested. I am in my 40's and KNOW what clicks for me and what does not. I prefer men that are over 5 foot 9, , call it "shallow";something" I won't compromise on. I do not like to be taller than the MAN I am with. Hey, honesty.....is FOREMOST!Some things that I have to be HONEST and put out there : I do not want to come across as negative.. but can we just be real and get to what we REALLY like and want, and don't?1: If you are not really interested in a committed future, however YOU have that in your profile, the only thing that says about you is that from the START you are DISHONEST..and that does not work for me.. A "relationship" can not begin when based on dishonesty.2: IF YOU SAY you are a NON SMOKER... I sure hope that you ARE... and BELIEVE me I will know and SMOKING is a DEAL BREAKER for me. I am a VERY honest person and that is a quality I take seriously. I will ALWAYS be honest....3: I am VERY attracted to a man with a great smile..it is the FIRST thing that I notice.... a SMILE says soo much about a person's inner soul.. IF you are not smiling in ANY of your photos, chances are you are not very happy and I like to surround myself with Happy People. So if I do not respond to your message if your pix looks like a nasty mug shot with a DEAD BLOODY animal or you are pointing a 12 gauge at me ... hmmm I will not be responding. I don't mean to sound harsh, but a SMILE is KEY! 4: I can RESPECT the profiles w/out photos because of your job etc.. HOWEVER... YOU MUST *** PHOTO or I WILL NOT RESPOND... If you think about it .... it is PRETTY CREEPY "messaging" a Person with NO FACE... and I WON't make an exception.... 5: Also , please spell check your profile and your messages..... or have someone do it for you....6: I am very interested in finding out a little bit about you .... BEFORE ANY numbers are exchanged..I DO NOT GIVE OUT MY NUMBER ... My daughters also "play on" or use my phone because I do not believe that a 10 year old "needs" a cell phone. I do not just hand out my number to have texts and photos sent to my phone.. call me OL' fashioned... HOWEVER, I feel that we have lost the intrique of the "courting or dating" stage.. I have an IM and there is a "chat" feature on this... and AT FIRST that is how I would like to communicate. ..they gave us the tools... let's USE them.... and take it from there... PLEASE DO NOT ask me to send you "THOSE PIX".... you don't even KNOW me..... ALL of these things WILL follow ... natural progression .. IF it is "right"...VERY VERY IMPORTANTI AM COMPLETELY SET ON THE "WANTS" that I have indicated... the WHAT I AM INTERESTED IN... WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR.... I am not on this site to collect profiles and spend hours reading through messages from men that do NOT match my criteria AT ALL... I know what kind of man SPARKS my interest.... and what kind INTERESTS me to find out more about. NOT to come across as "Shallow" but, if I say 5' 9" and you are 4' 11" I probably won't respond... I appreciate the compliments .. I honestly do.... But PLEASE can we be HONEST... we ALL know as grown adults WHAT makes us "tick" and what doesn't... that is just an example.... it goes for ALL my other preferences as well. THAT is why they ASk..... :)Now Guys, as many of the other "ladies" on this site may appreciate or LIKE a photo of you HALF NAKED "PUMPING IRON" at the GYM in the mirror or taking pix of yourself in a bathroom with a urinal in the background ...or ALL of your pix are only of your half naked body.....there are many , INCLUDING ME that think that is a BIT CREEPY... leave something to our imagination...AS FOR ME....I am fun , and witty, and like to do just about anything...at least once. I enjoy time with friends and I always make an effort to make people smile.. I am Passionate, and Fun and Honest. I like to put on my heels and go out to dinner or put my hair in a baseball cap and go to a Hockey game or other sporting event. I am attracted to TALLER Men (over 5 foot 9) because I have a CLOSET of shoes that I love to wear when I am not playing Mom's Taxi or in my cleats on the softball field.. I like to look my best when going out with My "man".. That may sound "shallow" but it is a "chemistry thing with me... If I tower over you when I have my jeans and heels on, I just can't feel the "chemistry" everyone has their "thing".I get messaged a LOT "WHY ARE YOU SINGLE"? Well.... I'm single simply because I have raised my girls alone, and they are and have been my focus.. I am not one of these women that puts their children second just to go on dates.. I honestly in 5 years have only been on 6 dates from this site. I love to smile and laugh, cook and garden. I like to spend time with friends and go out every so often.. I coach girls softball, and try to be as active in the kids school activities as my work schedule allows. I will ALWAYS give 110%......... ALWAYS... I think that meeting in a PUBLIC place is #1 MOST IMPORTANT...:) Maybe for a Drink somewhere to see if there is that "spark" then if we choose move onto to app's or dinner, or movie.. Then if there is that "CHEMISTRY" let the adventure begin! ohhh and IF your profile says NON SMOKER! PLEASEEEEEE make sure YOU are a TRUE NON SMOKER... because as GREAT as you are.. I can NOT/ will NOT date a SMOKER.. So PLEASE DON't LIE! that is an *** ender..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Carole

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    . I enjoy almost anything outside, going to the beach or outdoor festivals. I enjoy cooking and going out to eat of course, trying new places whenever possible. Music wise I enjoy, southern rock, old rock n roll, blues, anything but opera and rap, lol.. I have no children but love kids and am willing to be with someone who has kids if we have that connection. I also enjoy hot rods, car shows,pow wows, any outdoor festivals but especially the Renn Faire...I love animals and all the beauty that nature has to offer...... I was married for 5yrs and have been divorced now for 3yrs and am ready to find that person who completes me and makes me a better person. That person who looks at me like I am the one he cant live without. I am honest to a fault which sometimes gets me in trouble and am looking for someone who is honest right back. Oh yea, and tattoos and a Harley are a def plus, lolOh yea..and one more thing, you cant be allergic to cats, because my kitties arent going anywhere, lolIf you have any questions just ask Hmmm..Could be alot of things for a first date. But if the weather is nice. A nice first date could be getting together and going on a nice bike ride, getting lunch somewhere and kicking back somewhere outside and getting to know each other. I am pretty easy to please. Laughter and good conversation is def something that makes for a second date.

  • Veronica

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am looking to date.. not looking for a hookup or fwb.. FYI I am not Barbie, you MUST like curves.. I have curves..lots of them... I'm looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with.I like to try new things, I'm easy going and like to go with the flow. Playing pool, dancing, karaoke, Motor Booty Affair, bowling, hockey games.. Looking to keep people that are uplifting in my life and cleaning out the people that try to push everyone down. No time for drama. I'm Scorpio so I'm very passionate, quick tempered, quick to get over it. Loyal through and through, my friends are friends for life no matter how much we screw up. I'm looking for some fun and exciting friends and exciting times. *I am not* looking for casual sex/fling. I do however have my little quirks just like everyone does. You can tune in and find me on WMPG 90.9 Starting at 6:30am every Saturday with "Anything Goes'Send me a note and I will tell you more about me. Qualities I find intriguing; someone that can laugh at themselves, do stupid silly things, laugh at life. Someone who isn't afraid to be true to themselves....*Want to get my attention, bring me coffee just the way I like it. Send a text to let me know you're thinking of me*"I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not."-Kurt Cobain.“Love comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed, to those who still love even though they've been hurt before.”"The worst crime is faking it." Kurt Cobain"Though the sun is gone, I have a light." Kurt Cobain"Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are." Kurt Cobain"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when their right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together."—;Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring." ~;I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not."-Kurt Cobain.“The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.”"You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before and she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect, you aren't either,and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more then she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when shes not there." - Bob Marley"A Wise Girl... Kisses but doesn't love. Listens but doesn't Believe. And leaves before she is Left."-“If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were.” Richard Bach"The worst crime is faking it." Kurt Cobain"Thought the sun is gone, I have a light." Kurt Cobain"Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are." Kurt Cobain"Dogs never bite me. Just humans.";I am not interested in money. I just want to be wonderful.";I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when their right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together."—;Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring." —;Take time to enjoy life, remember every detail, you get this one shot, one chance, there are no do overs. Learn from what you do, remember to smile. Give yourself and love freely" ~ ErinDlynn Hmmm. My first date depends on the person I am meeting and how we connect. Coffee or tea always works. Also love a good French Onion Soup, which of course is detrimental to having good breath on a date. Going to the movies would be a great second or third date.I'm looking for someone that can make me laugh, that can be themselves around me. Someone that isn't afraid of looking like a fool. Someone that doesn't mind that I'm crazy-sexy-cool,silly, spastic, or that sometimes I speak gibberish.

  • Eula

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    So here it is. I am looking for the ONE!!!! I am not looking for the perfect man. I am looking for the one that is perfect to me. The connection is important and there is no changing that. I am looking for a Caucasian/European Man. Attractive and funny of course and out going. I am a social butterfly and I LOVE it!!!! When I see you...Butterflies in the stomach. When you kiss me....weak in the knees. I am self employed and work a lot of hours which makes it difficult to meet someone special considering I am not into the bar scene. I have tried this site before and to be honest I am very apprehensive to try it again. There are some spooky people here. I will get into greater length later if I decide to stay here. I will not chat without a picture. Oh Ya! And I am a princess!! I think the first date should be something simple just to see if the chemistry is there. More of a meeting. Then we can go a plan a first date. I would however be interested in hearing from you what you think would be a good first date.

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