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About Me

Hello :) I'm a single mom of an awesome 19-year-old daughter. I am a writer by profession and passion. I'm a full- As a features writer, I cover the "good news," entertainment, dining out, people and events. I've interviewed many celebrities and, in short, love my job. I've also published three fiction books, a series, geared towards pre-teens and teen-agers. My hope is to someday share those books with the world and become the next JK Rowling :) I enjoy all kinds of music and love going out to see it live. My soft spot is and always will be for hard driving, mind freeing rock! But I also like dance and country, and even some classical. I love to watch movies, but my favorite genre is Horror! If it's scary, I like it. Love old black and whites, all the way up to new films with crazy special effects. I also like comedies, but really don't enjoy mushy-gushy girlie flicks.I LOVE Halloween and it's my favorite day of the year. I have more Halloween decor than Christmas and very much get "into" the spirit of things. Speaking of spirits, I'm also a member of a paranormal investigation team. Yes, I'm a ghost hunter.Hope to talk to you soon! UPDATE: Please realize that meeting on a site such as this has no guarantees of love and happily ever after. If you meet someone, talk and decide to take the next step, as in meeting out in public for a date, PLEASE understand that it is a chance you are both taking. It may work out, it may not.I just encountered a PSYCHO and nearly had to call police. I don't ever want to feel like that again. Therefore, if you are looking for love at first sight and if you don't get that you are going to freak out and threaten my job and Life, Please don't even look at my profile. Thank you. That being said...A great first date would be meeting at an upscale bar and having a few drinks and even more laughs. I'm not picky and definitely not high maintenance, but would love to share some laughs with a wonderful man.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marci

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am def a pretty versatile person...I like to try just about anything. I keep pretty active and work out daily. I enjoy going to concerts, amusement parks,zoos, movies, dinner and shows. I also really like staying home and hanging out as well with take out and a movie or working around the house. The summer is a nice time to go to the beach or do a little boating as well.I like to go for walks and do anything that is outside! I love animals and would hope my mate would as well.Im big into music and like most types but my favorite is probably alternative. I can send a pic but just dont have it posted because I am kind of private. Does any of this sound like you? First dates can be tough. Both people can be a little nervous in those first few moments. I think getting a quick cup of coffee or a drink is ideal. This way there is less pressure. Then if we hit it off and want to continue we could get something to eat or go for a walk or something.

  • Bianca

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi! I am an adventurous, passionate, loyal woman looking meet someone caring, compassionate and sincere.I am always interested in learning new things about life, watch alot of documentaries as opposed to TV. I meditate, exercise regularly, eat healthy and am interested in learning more about Buddhism. I believe in God but question much about the religious views I was taught growing up. :)I read a ton! Love laying on the beach with a good book!I will write more later...any questions, please feel free to ask!*Updated ***I am a kind-hearted free spirit. I have many acquaintances, but a small close circle of true friends. I been told I am loyal to a fault to those close to me. I am ready to settle down and preferably somewhere warm. (If not atleast somewhere interesting!)And of course with someone who is ready to be partners on this journey. Experiences are best if shared right? ; I want to have fun, explore, and have a partner to share the adventures of life.I am open to meeting new people and friends, but ultimately looking for a monogamous relationship. My other half/best friend is my long term goal here. At this point in my life I am not interested in any friends with benefits, hook ups or any similar immature BS along those lines nor do I need a sugar daddy to take care of me. I am not looking to be anyone's third, so if you're married or in a committed relationship, please don't bother contacting me.Whew! That all said...**I'd like to be someone's someone special! The person you can't wait to tell your news to, good or bad. I'm easy going, seldom if ever get upset with anyone, try to practice love and compassion towards all beings each & every day.As much as I fought for my independence and career in 20's, things change as you grow and learn about life. I can't wait to meet someone with similar views on life, etc., to truly share life with and make some wonderful memories!Doing my best to be a better me than yesterday , not as good as tomorrow & happy. Trying each day to be grateful, compassionate and loving to everyone. I get some kind of exercise in daily, it helps clear my head.My life is simple, but good! I don't NEED a partner, rather-I chose, to WANT one at this point in my life. I also CHOSE to be monogamous.I don't date much, but its not for lack of opportunity. I truly want to meet someone who has similar beliefs, interests and inspires me to be the best I can be!I believe I'm good at always seeing the bright side of things, trying to stay positive! I've been told I'm a great cook, masseuse and even girlfriend. It used to make me giggle to hear from many I used to date, that I was "the one who set the bar". I don't want to set any more bars, I want to BE the bar. *If you actually read all that and are still interested- Coffee? Walk on the beach? Motorcycle ride?????

  • Tasha

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Just looking for a good man who isnt into playing games. Tired of all the game players, liars and cheaters. Do not want or need BS games or someone who is superficial. Need a man who is honest, funny, and caring. No one is perfect so I take the bad with the good but like I said I don't want to deal with a game player. If ur in it for the real deal and good men really do exist then feel free to leave me a message..f Will figure it out together

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