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About Me

Hello :) I'm a single mom of an awesome 19-year-old daughter. I am a writer by profession and passion. I'm a full- As a features writer, I cover the "good news," entertainment, dining out, people and events. I've interviewed many celebrities and, in short, love my job. I've also published three fiction books, a series, geared towards pre-teens and teen-agers. My hope is to someday share those books with the world and become the next JK Rowling :) I enjoy all kinds of music and love going out to see it live. My soft spot is and always will be for hard driving, mind freeing rock! But I also like dance and country, and even some classical. I love to watch movies, but my favorite genre is Horror! If it's scary, I like it. Love old black and whites, all the way up to new films with crazy special effects. I also like comedies, but really don't enjoy mushy-gushy girlie flicks.I LOVE Halloween and it's my favorite day of the year. I have more Halloween decor than Christmas and very much get "into" the spirit of things. Speaking of spirits, I'm also a member of a paranormal investigation team. Yes, I'm a ghost hunter.Hope to talk to you soon! UPDATE: Please realize that meeting on a site such as this has no guarantees of love and happily ever after. If you meet someone, talk and decide to take the next step, as in meeting out in public for a date, PLEASE understand that it is a chance you are both taking. It may work out, it may not.I just encountered a PSYCHO and nearly had to call police. I don't ever want to feel like that again. Therefore, if you are looking for love at first sight and if you don't get that you are going to freak out and threaten my job and Life, Please don't even look at my profile. Thank you. That being said...A great first date would be meeting at an upscale bar and having a few drinks and even more laughs. I'm not picky and definitely not high maintenance, but would love to share some laughs with a wonderful man.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lenora

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a happy person with three great kids, (my hearts). Divorced for several years and have had a relationship since. I get along well with my exes and have very little remorse. I enjoy being able to look at myself in the mirror and be proud that I try to be better every day at every role I hold in life. Sooo not perfect and not trying, just trying to be the best me and find someone that fits. To describe me..Easy going at home, funny and laid back. At work am very professional.I care about how I look, but not obsessed. I wear makeup on dates, but not afraid to go to the store without any. I am comfortable in my own skin and do not need to inform anyone of my achievements. Humbleness is a quality I find very attractive. I do not care how much money you make, as long as you pay your bills and take care of your kids if there are any involved. When a man *** and calls me "babe" or "princess" it is a turn off for me. I do not date anyone in their sixties or twenties. I am a romantic at heart and love small, kind gestures. (opening doors, etc..) Honesty is huge..I am so easy to figure out because I don't play games. If I need something from my partner, I tell them and do not make them guess. In a relationship I tend to prefer the men take the lead, but will make plans at drop of a hat. I am very old fashioned gal that was raised by strict Catholics. Was a little wild child in hight school( bless my parents heart's). but got serious during higher education. I have a great family and am very close with them, but are scattered throughout the states, save for a sister nearby. God is a very important part of my life and I go to church weekly. Anyone I dated I would need them to have a relationship with Him as well or we would never be a match. He has helped me through all my hardships and I am so in awe of Him. If you are not a Christian I do not think it could work out with you, but wish everyone luck in their search for that special person they seek. The pic in the black dress is 8 years old from a sorority reunion..others very recent.( know that pretending how u look is an issue for both genders)! Anything romantic, Sporting event, BBQ, Coffee and Conversation, truly, am easy to get along with and enjoy just about everything!

  • Luella

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I have blonde hair, blue eyes & a nice smile. I thrive outside. I am a pisces so I find the water especially energizing. I love the sun and can live without snow and cold temperatures. Especially like kayaking, forests, beaches &., Feb.I own my own home and enjoy gardening (flowers and vegetables) bonfires, the sound of the ocean and my favorite food is probably Bar~B~Que (Ribfests in the summertime) & fair food (once or twice a year)I have no favorite color~I like them all :) Family is a priority. Honesty a requirement as are current pics please.If your looking for a career pen pal..that's ok. But NOT for me. I mean messaging to "get to lknow" someone, I get that. But to message for months and never meet seems like a "pen~pal" & there's probably an app for that. No disrespect intended.You must have a job, transportation, license & purpose in life. ....after polygraph results, background check, psychiatric evaluation and references check out! (sarcastic? maybe)

  • Shari

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am outgoing and love having a good time. I am always laughing and singing. I like an active guy that doesn't like to sit around preferably sports minded. I play fastball and like to go on hikes/walks,etc. Friends and family are important to me. I try and go away somewhere tropical every year on an all inclusive vacation. Lastly I like to shop, but really what woman doesn't? I do have a bit of a shoe/boot collection too...LOL. Meet and see if there is chemistry!

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