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Aurelia, 41
United States, Ohio, Troy

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About Me

I am looking for Mr Perfect For Me. I am NOT looking for Mr Perfect. We all have flaws- okay admit it- you have some flaws!!! I have many- yes- I am publicly admitting that I have LOTS of flaws. Some I am more than willing to change- some flaws I know about and just don't care;-)My philosophy is if you have a flaw, you should own that flaw. I mean really - why do something half hearted. I have several really obvious flaws...I like to eat. There I said- I am not a salad grazing girl!!! There won't be any dainty "oh I can't possibly eat that" coming from me! Rather-stay out of my way or you may lose a finger;-) That said, I am not some huge fat lady- I like my time at the gym too! I prefer to call myself "fluffy and happy". If you are looking for a stick thin person- keep looking;-)I am ****. I mean it. No joking aside- I am a real ****. I don't see this as a bad thing. I stand up for myself and those around me. If you are looking for a pushover- you are looking in the wrong place. I love the signs that say "you say **** like it is a bad thing". I will not psychotic or anything- I just know my own worth and I am vocal about it. I am the first person my friends and family come to when they are having a problem. I will stand my ground (or their ground) until the right thing is done. I expect the same out of my spouse. I like holiday decorations. Oh who are we kidding - I LOVE holiday decorations. I spend hours- maybe even days putting them out throughout the year. I particularly like Halloween and Christmas. I think you can probably see my house from space at Christmas;-)I have an 8 yr old daughter that is my world. I have ***custody with my ex-husband. When I have her I do NOT hire babysitters. If I can't give her my full attention 50% of the time - then something is wrong. I work full-time, own my house, share time with my daughter and have 2 VERY bad dogs- this all makes for a very busy life. I want someone who can actively share this with me. I am not looking to date someone for years(really??? It just doesn't take years to figure out if it will work), nor am I looking for a once a week good time. It is a deal-breaker for me to have one more child. I won't be talked out of it- really I won't. Well if you are still reading this and want to go out GREAT!!!How about dinner-somewhere quiet where we can actually talk. Or shopping/window shopping- you can learn ALOT about a person this way;-)If the weather is nice -;-)Anything but a noisy bar would be a great time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reggae
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