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Selma, 44

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About Me

I'm authentic and real some say a passionate individual. I enjoy a healthy lifestyle and taking care of myself. I enjoy being active. I enjoy being playful and having fun. I also have a strong character. I try not to take myself or life so seriously all the time, but serious when need be. I'm not serial dater. Very selective with who I date. Looking for something and someone with substance. I'm a honest person. More importantly I'm a loyal and geniune person to those I care for. (Not big on late bar nights... Not my thing). What I'm looking for that's hard to describe it's more a feeling you get with someone. It's not easy to find so when you do it should be valued. I'll try to describe as best as possible.. manners, good conversation, a sense of humor, a good sense of character overall "good" person. Certain elements must be available for that to happen. Active and healthy lifestyle also important.Just a connection!Note: Not much interest in tatoos or motorcycles. Not my thing. Or those with pictures of there shirtless upper bodies or flexing muscles this speaks volumes to me. Meet for coffee, or drink a short time to allow if there is a connection or some kind or not. Most of all be yourself.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jeri

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Me: I'm an outgoing, confident, caring, fun-loving, glass half-full woman. If it's a glass of good wine, even better! My two boys (7 and ***are the apples of my eye and keep me on my toes! I truly believe that I have gotten better with age. I love to travel and explore. But it can also be nice to cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie together by the fire. I am a girly-girl who doesn't mind getting her hands dirty. I LOVE to be outside whether it is sitting on the patio by the fire with steaks on the grill and a****ail in my hand or camping (RV please!) at the lake. I'm a floater! I am fiercely loyal and nurturing. And I want a man in my life who is the same. I'm drawn to kind, considerate, funny, smart, masculine men who are confident without being****....and who know how to treat a woman. I appreciate a man who holds the door open, etc.If you don't have time for a relationship and don't want a true partner, then I am not your girl. But if you want a partner to share life experiences with and aren't scared of the fact that I have two (amazing) kiddos, then I might be the one for you. If you are a commitment phobe, I'm not for you. I give 100% to a relationship, and I am looking for someone who can and wants to do the same. I believe a successful relationship includes equal parts of couple time, family time and me time. I'm old fashioned and think that the man should pursue the woman, so if you genuinely think we are a match please send me a message. You: You are masculine but kind; attentive; have your own opinion but are open minded; have some things in common with me but can also bring something new to the relationship; open doors for women; like a woman who is nurturing; look forward to eating my cooking. When I have a bad day, you meet me at the door with a warm embrace. You like going for walks, taking Sunday drives in the country, visiting the City Market and visiting wineries and breweries. Spending a day on the lake and an evening by the campfire sounds like heaven to you. I also do not date married men, so if you are currently separated please do not message me. Loves - my children; coffee;****ails with friends; travel; warm weather; autumn; campfires; working in the yard or on my house; time at the lake; time with friends; grilling outside; good music; good books; exploring, going for drives; wineries and breweries; Dislikes - smoking; onions; cold weather; mean, negative, close minded people; people who rush on to the elevator before you get off and who pass you on the shoulder in construction zones. Dealbreakers - smoking, drugs, players, drama, DUIs, married men, dirty teeth If you are interested, please send me an *** know what in my profile made you think that we might be a match. I look forward to hearing from you. We meet for a mini date (one hour) to see if there is chemistry.

  • Mayra

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hmmmmm.....Where to start ?? I guess by saying, I am a free spirited kind of girl. Not much bothers me really ? I love being spotanious, thats usually when you have the most fun :) I am a true believer in always being yourself, no matter who it is u r trying to impress ! You never get a 2nd chance 2 make a 1st impression, so DO IT RIGHT !! lol. Family is very important to me. My children are my everything, as yours should be too. I like a great variety of music, I love to dance ! love to laugh as well ! alot !! Love a man with a good sense of humor :) wonderful medicine !! You will almost always see me with a smile on my face :) I love the country ! Although an evening in the city with that certain sexy someone is always fun as well. I enjoy the great outdoors ! fishing, camping,swimming. I like baseball, billiards, motorcycles,thunderstorms and animals.Dislikes.......miserable people,lineups,bugs,winter hmmm....dating sites ?? lol. Didn't want to come back here.....but here I am :)So....If we share some of the same interests, and u like what u see, feel free to send me a line.......don't be shy ;) A first date.......anything from a camp fire and beer, to wine and candles !! Although I likely prefer the fire and beer ;) maybe a little dancing ?? Something we both enjoy :)

  • Beulah

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a single mom of four boys, only two of who are home. I'm a pretty basic laid back person just trying to get through this thing called life. Family and friends are the most important things to me. If I'm not at home you can usually find me with some of them hanging out doing whatever. I don't need a man to buy me things- I have a job. I'm not high maintenance. I do not need any drama- if I want that I can watch tv. I also do not play games- I 'd rather play games with my boys.I'm not a snob but can be a **** when needed. I'm basically a down home girl who just likes to enjoy life and not let the little stuff get in the way.I have a variety of interests and love to learn about new things. Take a walk, depends on the weather and situation.

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