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Casandra, 42

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About Me

Before you go any further in your reading, which most won't, I have two grand babies, yes that's correct, two grand babies. Ppl always ask me how does it feel to be so young and be a grand mother... well, let me enlighten you. I can get on the floor and play with them without breaking a hip and have the energy to keep up with them. They are 3 and 1 and yes, I have two kiddos ages 23 and 15. Yes they have the same father. I was married for 17 years, divorced for 6. First and foremost love my kids, they come first! I love my job, it's very gratifying... Ultimately, I want what all of us want, a loving, trusting relationship with great sex!! Lol (doesn't mean I'm easy) I'm just adult enough to say it out loud. Also please be employed and not looking for hook ups either.Lets face it, looks are important to me, I know thats shallow, but that is the first attraction. A beautiful smile is the first thing that I notice.... and humor is a must!!!I am into men with a sense of humor and don't take everything so personal. I like to cuddle, but not all of the time. I want my space and I think the person that I date need theirs as well. I'm realistic and don't care what others think of me. Yes, I'm opinionated to a fault.... I'll let you know when your clothes don't match... lol. Who knows....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Loverdare

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    Woman. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-28

    Hi! My name is Loverdare. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from New Albany, Ohio, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Esther

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I so hate this part... Trying to describe yourself and what you are looking for in a box is kinda hard... I guess the first thing is, I don't like playing mind games... Be grown up and keep it real.... Second, if your serious, then post a pic... Nothing worse than talking to a box with a question mark in it.. I am a outdoor lover... I love to camp, fish, travel, hiking, and gardening... My favorite thing to do is surf and fish... I take every opportunity I can to go surfing in Waikiki to fulfill my favorites... I have a 24ft pontoon that I love to fish on and relax and I like to keep her active lol lol. I am also an artist.. I love to paint what I see.. But my favorite things in life is music and to express my self... Even though I have lived thru such a bad life, I am full of positive views... I am a leader and I try to live a positive life... I try my best to lead others to a positive and happy life... So if all you have is drama.... Well I don't need it and please don't respond... .... I been there and done that.. I am done.. I am fighting for a positive life...I am a type of person that if i see something that needs to be done and no one is trying I will do it.. I am just that way, and hell that's part of my job as well.. Its got to be done so hell do it......So if you are looking to grow in happiness then contact me...Music to express my soul is: http://youtu.be/q9ayN39xmsI Wow.. First date... Hummmmm let me see...Unless your creative and imaginative in this area, there will never be another perfect date like I had 6 months ago... Remembering back..... It was a night like no other... It began with a cool wind sweeping past my face and as I walked closer I could hear whispers in the wind as it past my ears. The night was calm and had my attention.... When I arrived to my destination all I could see was waves as it played its songs so softly to me... As I stood there gazing over the beauty, the moon decided to join in and lit up the band.... I walked out in to the night, and as closer I got the more the band decided to play loudly for me... I then decided to approach the band leader with a soft sweep and felt a closeness like no other... I turned and walked back to where I need to be and to my surprise the band followed me and I sat for the rest of the night enjoying the true beauty of life.... A night never to forget....

  • Reva

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    If I say, "progressive feminist with a penchant for healthy eating" and you don't immediately think of a butch third baseman on an over 40 women's league, we could probably have drinks.I'm not going to tell you that I like sports and that I'm totally cool spending hours watching them because that would be disingenous. I do bike, ski, hike, and run, and probably could kick some serious ass playing dodgeball, but I'm going to be honest, I suck at laser tag. Apparently, my desire to eat clean doesn't appeal to their middle school sensibilities. That said, when they are in college, the FIRST thing they will miss is their mother's cooking. Plural. As in twins. I'm very efficient. And of course they are fantastic, brilliant, thoughtful, and killer athletes, but let's keep it real, they can also be complete ***holes (I did mention that they are 12, right?). Gratefully, I have one of those jobs that when people meet me at a dinner party and find out what I do, they never leave me alone. Ultimately, I live most days in a state of gratitude, I surround myself with people who make me laugh, think or both, and I accept that my life is a work in progress. As for you, if you could be a tad smarter than me, equally as funny, and show some signs of evolution in mind, body and soul, I think we might have something worth pursuing.

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