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Shirley, 44

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Hey- was definitely not thrilled at first to write the profile part……….(also have to say that it's hard to check the "select what you're looking for" . To me it seems you just have to see what happens.... anyway, I'm interested in meeting someone with a GREAT sense of humor, who loves to have fun, who deviates from the norm, who doesn't take things too seriously all the time, and is intellectual but can also appreciates wrongness. I admire someone who is confident, authentic, laid back, healthy and fit (but not fanatical), family oriented, and passionate (as I am) about what he does... Someone who can find humor in most situations is a big bonus.I love to be with my two children, good friends and family, to go out (for happy hour, ethnic food, dancing, etc.) as well as check out places I've never been. After college I had the chance to live there for many years. It was a great place to ski, mountain bike, kayak, hike, and all that crazy stuff. I still love to ski, and just got a pass for this season. So if you can keep up......ha!Love to read (fiction and non, historical fiction, biographies, etc.), dance, eat, go out to see music, and I love my work as an educator. With my job you have to have thick skin, to be able to roll with the punches, and laugh! I love people who are able to do the same.It would be fun to meet someone who likes to be active, to go out, but who also likes to relax. Life is pretty busy so I really value time to do that. There is much more but I find it weird to describe myself in words; I'd rather just be myself in person. up for most anything, but happy hour would be a good start!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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