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Kitty, 41

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About Me

The above statement sums up the large majority of everyone I have had contact with over the last 6 months. Does anyone still value honesty???Posting pics of yourself when you were 30 lbs lighter equals a lie.....saying you don't do drama when you are messing with 5 girls equals a lie....saying you are a stock broker when you answer phones at Comcast equals a lie...saying you have been divorced for years when you are still currently battling it out in court equals a lie. OK I will stop there but please if you choose to contact me know I value greatly honesty and putting the truth on the table. If that is not the way you work then you don't want to talk to me and we can agree to disagree. I am very laid back and love to laugh and enjoy life. I'm very easy to get along with unless you want to be dishonest. I value fitness and nutrition and appreciate men who also value it. If this doesn't sound crazy to you and you want to chat let's do it. If it does.....no hard feelings.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Allyson

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I think we need a handbook for this site.....I'm not sure why this is a game to most ppl.. if you are only gonna talk to me once..don't tell me i'm your perfect woman and then never speak to me again.. women need closure.. all you're doing in making alot of bitter man haters.. i understand if you just don't click but if you do and you tell her you want to meet her and then never speak again, we really don't know how to react...it really sucks.. and those of you who have done that very thing know who you are and should be ashamed...I am open, honest to a fault and straight forward.. and i expect everyone else to be the same..I have values and morals..I have played the game and don't really like it.. I guess friends is what I'm after.. I'm not possessive or jealous and can only hope to find one as such..I'm happy with my life and very secure in myself.. I'm not a desperate 40 something... I love the water, i find it soothing .. I have learned a different variety of music strengthens the soul..This whole dating thing has been a real disappointment.. I have met some true friends, but the dating part is just wrong we'll figure that out later

  • Yesenia

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    So I'm a sexy, independent mama looking for people to connect with, have fun with...Love to explore the near and far landscapes....having a great conversation, laughing til it hurts, live music...just a few things I love to share Hmmm....a nice place to start is with a conversation, An intimate coffee shop and a walk in the redwoods....

  • Dee

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I cannot describe my personality in one word, at least a dozen of those words describe me (artsy, hippie, hedonist, geek, sapiophile, etc. etc.). Yup, human beings are dynamic, go figure.I love my life, my kids, my dogs... even my son's cat. At this point I would describe my life as nearly perfect. I'm happy with all I have, all I've done, all I've let go, and all that I hold dear. I have a descent job (career)... Let's leave it at that.I do not drink, as a personal choice, I don't have an issue with it, just don't enjoy it.I have tattoos. I love my tattoos. I love people with tattoos and the stories behind them.I'm an artist, I guess you'd say semi-professional as I've sold paintings here and there for a long time. It's one of the greatest loves of my life... creative expression.I'm a very handy person. I enjoy doing home renos and I love to learn new things.I enjoy staying active. I hike and bike and exercise rigorously 4 to 6 times a week, depending on the week. I love music of all genres (more so with rock, less so with country and rap). I'm a concert junkie, it's how I plan my holidays/road trips. Music is life!!Something that totally sets me apart from other women... I absolutely loathe shopping, I'm not into makeup and fashion is just something that happens... So, yeah, I'm not a "high maintenance girly girl". I do, however, love to cook. I'm a chronic quitter... with smoking that is. I've done this on again/off again thing for years, quitting for 2 years at a time. One day it will stick, just hasn't yet. I've been on my own for a long time. I preferred to raise my kids without a "step-parent" in the picture. I guess I'm a little old-school in that regard. But now they are nearly grown, it's time to change pace. What I seek is another completely dynamic person with positive and negative qualities that mesh well with my own positive and negative qualities (yes, we all have them both). I would prefer someone relatively close to my age who is a music and art lover. Someone who likes to hike, bike and stay active. Someone who is secure in who they are on their own and as a "couple". By no means do I "need" anyone to the point that I'll settle again, that never works. All that I have is too important to let just anyone in. Compatibility, communication, commrodary... Those are all top priorities. And, of course, the standard, honest, sincere, intelligent, kind... yadda yadda... I think those things go without saying. :) Thanks for your time and best of luck to all in the search.

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