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Gilda, 42

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About Me

Really not trying to waste anyones time but, no picture, no response.....Dont bother. I am trying to find a "real" relationship. With that said...I live each day with kindness and compassion. I am happy, positive, and I have a great sense of humor. I love to laugh and play. I am open minded and will try most anything at least once. I tend to be somewhat shy at first but, I warm up quickly. I love movies, music, and art. My family and friends are very important to me. I spend most of my free time with them but, I would be open to making time for the right person. I am looking for someone to be a friend first. A man that is secure with himself. Has a sense of purpose, is positive, and loves life. I am looking for a man that can challenge my intellect and inspire me to be a better person. A man who thinks I am the most beautiful woman in the world and can appreciate my goofiness. Although I think physical attraction is important, I am not as concerned with how you look as I am with how you make me feel.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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