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James, 37
United States, Ohio, Columbus Grove

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About Me

I've learned a lot in the last couple of years... A lot about me, my wants, my needs, my desires, my dreams.. I'm looking for someone who I can share that with. I'm a very goal determined person.. I know what I want and I have such confidence in myself and believe that I can truly achieve anything. I have many goals I have set for myself, some that are quite easy, and some that kick my ass some days.. lol. I am one of the most determined people you will every meet and I'll never give up!!I try to be a very positive, optimistic type of girl. I live for today.. tomorrow hasn't happened yet, and well, yesterday is over.. But I'm left with memories, and many lessons learned. The events in my past have made me the person I am today.. and I really like me ;) I believe in positive energy, positive reinforcement. The times that I have felt low, I always look up to the sky and say the sky is still blue and the sun is still shining.. everything is as it should be.I have daughters that are so smart and so beautiful (wonder where they get that from.. ;***Every day I learn so much from them, just as much as I try to teach them. And I've got from them a few times.. 'yeah, mom, you are smart..' as if they're totally amazed.. haha! These days they're too cool to hang out with their lame mom.. lol But I guess that leaves a little more time for me and you ;)One of my favorite hobbies, and I've gotten my girls into it too, is photography.. not just taking the picture, but the fun we have altering it with a photo editor.. you may be able to notice that from a few of my photos.. but it's fun and I really enjoy doing it :) I've also started re-purposing old furniture, giving it that vintage look.. maybe one day I'll be able to sell my creations lol. I have a few other causes that I'm devoting some time to these days.. maybe talk to you about that over some sort of beverage ;)I'm not a vain person, so it's not all about looks. But there has to be some chemistry. I don't need to be with someone, but I would like to be.. I put my effort into it, and so should you. I've never really been an outdoor person, unless you count laying on the beach at Echodale, but I'd like to be. I want to camp and go hiking. I have a bit of an adventurist side of me.. I hear Elkwater has a great adventure program there!So, this is a bit about me. Feel free to ask any questions :)Talk to you soon - VenusOne of my favorite Quotes :True love isn't something that is forced; it is something that just happens. Many people are so hungry for love that they choose to bite the first type of love that they may see, even if it's toxic. Don't be a fool for love; choose your love wisely. A good woman deserves the best and refuses to settle. This is why so many good women are single but ready to love. Remember it's not about being what everyone wants you to be, it's about being yourself and finding someone who truly loves you for what you are... Let's decide that together, but drinks on a patio sounds nice :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Cycling Chinese Indian Irish Mexican
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