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Benita, 49

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About Me

I am one funny broad, who loves to live, love and laugh. Life has thrown me rough and tough curveballs that I try my best to handle with grace, style and strength. I am kind of like a Diva/Tom Boy who is really up for anything with the right person. My interests include but are not limited to: walking and hanging with my gorgeous dog, renting a movie and hanging at home, bowling, fishing, pool, ping pong, going to a sporting event (I like all sports..), relaxing with my family and friends, laughing, and sometimes just doing nothing at all (which I do very well btw..haha). I Oh, & I love to Dance,I also like long cosy Naps!!! I also want a ";,who is also in touch with his Femine side as well! If your only texting& can't ever seem to talk via phone , well thats too Suspect.,, I don't date Married Men!! So don't try to date me!!!! Total Deal Breaker.... I am an incredibly real person & somewhat old school, with an edge.I like to be courted.PLEASE BE A GENTLEMAN!!! I don't need a sex buddy from this site! I want a RELATIONSHIP !!! Thank u !!! Meet for coffee or Drinks..... Hopefully we have some Chemistry...... Then fantasize about the next time we meet!!!! How's that????

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Therese

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    Woman. 56 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-52

    If you are here to play games join a circus - at this point I'm looking for those that have their mind, body and heart in a good place. Local to New York Metro area preferred. My son is 12 and his dad and I get along well - drama is on the down low. The gym keeps me sane and in shape - it would be a good match if you felt the same about trying to stay in shape and eat somewhat healthy. If you are recently separated or looking for just a hook up I'm not for you.

  • Silvia

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-34

    Hi! My name is Silvia. I am never married atheist caucasian woman without kids from Lindenhurst, New York, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Tammy

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    WARNING: I make no apologies for who I am and where I am in life. Drama and alcohol ahead.If you're perfect, lived a perfect life, a perfectionist, or expect perfection..... Want to call me 'Hun' , 'Honey', 'Sweetie', or 'Dear'.....I'm not the girl for you.The past 18 months have been a roller coaster for me. Divorce from hell this past year. Trying to start over after 18 years of marriage. Spent a year drinking myself goofy, (thank God I never tried drugs ha!), spent 76 days in jail ( yes...real jail!) pondering life , meditating, praying, talking to God, wondering wether to take anti-depressants or not (decided 'no'), running a business on one brain cell and a single fragile emotional thread. Oh ... and watching a lot of documentaries, dark drama and historical fiction on NetFlix cuddled up with my dog. How the hell does one 'start over' at our age?I worked in the medical field for 12 years, radiation physics and dosimetry. In my second life, I owned and operated a CrossFit gym from ***until last month. Getting ready for my third life... currently preparing for law school....studying for the LSAT. Hope to obtain a dual degree in law and social work. I'm not going to lie...physical attraction is very important to me. I want to feel crazy about the person I am with. I'm not looking for a serious relationship right now. I'm not marriage minded...looking for a friend that can also stimulate me intellectually, who doesn't mind a girl a tad on the eccentric side. I'm an optimist and a huge fan of humor. If you can't laugh at yourself, we probably won't get along.It is my perspective that "things" and "events" in life are neither 'good' nor 'bad'...they just 'are' and that is the fiber that makes up the fabric we call 'life'. Everything happens for a reason and every situation can be an opportunity to learn something new about ourselves.How's that for honesty? Now if you still want to chat... We'll talk about all the 'fluffy' stuff....and you're one brave man. Anything that doesn't involve alcohol. Surprise me, I'm game!

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