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Alexandra, 47
United States, New York, Lindenhurst

Offline, last seen Wed, 14 Jan 2026 22:35:25

About Me

I am coming back for a second try. I have met some wonderful men on here and it is not "all"bad...there are good fish out there but i have not found "my fish" yet :) Going to make is simple. I am on a search for my best friend; someone that wants to get to know me and will accept me for me, as I will them. Someone that will make me laugh until I cry..someone to hold my hand and never let go…someone to make memories with, filled with fun and happiness.I am very affectionate, romantic, genuine..I do not lie, I do not do drama, nor involve myself in it…I am family oriented, silly and fun. I am honest to a fault, lying gets you no where. I want to find the man that I cannot wait to see at the end of the day...wake up to each morning and start a new life with.I love the beach, movies, photography, cruises, flea markets and antiquing, bbqs, live bands on the water, baseball games, board games, anything friend and family oriented. I would like to find someone that leads a somewhat healthy active lifestyle, eats healthy, takes care of themselves...I AM NOT INTO BARS, CLUBS, PARTYING OR CAUSAL DATING!!..I am not into the "biker" scene either sorry.....So if you are an excessive drinker or bar goer, or "motorcycles are your life:, i am not the one for you.I am looking for a man that has his life together, is happy with himself, honest, romantic, genuine, stable, good communicator and fully free of drama (i understand everyone has some drama but lets go with carry-on and not huge suitcases)……looking for a long term relationship also. …must be a snuggler…I am very into family and strong values...old school i guess. looking for another hopeless romantic :) Someone that is old school and respects woman, is romantic and affecTionate.I wish everyone luck in finding what you are looking for.....Also if I dont message back , I am not trying to be mean but if it not going to work I don't want waste your time...PRIVACY NOTICEWarning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. First date/meeting sweet and simple..If we click then we plan that special date to make a memory with.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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