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Lakisha, 48
United States, New York, Lindenhurst

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About Me

Hello Fisherman (only want one :) in Cyberworld! Yep...I have been here before, tossing that line just one more time. Then I may have to go to deeper waters.Are your kilobytes destined to align with my ***little bytes…or nibbles perhaps ? ;) Let’s seeeeee…..what’s your bait?Do you know what you’re looking for? You may know what you don’t want, but do you know what you do want? How far are you willing to toss that line? Is it a strong line that can withstand some stormy waters or a weak one that will it break with the first wave?; not have to settle. I believe that any relationship built to last starts out as a great friendship. I’m looking to date, and if there's a connection & more, we can see what the stars have in line for us! Are you someone who can look at the positive even if pessimism looms? Listen & ‘hear’ others’ opinions & take them into consideration before voicing yours and making a decision? Bite your tongue when needed, cool that anger before it fuses and still have good communication?Can you be strong, hold your own but yet be respectful & caring & not afraid or too proud to admit when you’re wrong? Are you someone who is comfortable in a pair of jeans & t-shirt as they are in a suit? (to an extent of course!) Are you okay with sitting at home snuggled on the couch watching a movie or sharing a glass of wine, talking; listening to some tunes or going for a fun night out?I’m not here to play mind games & will toss you back if you flip flop! If you are hooked on an ex, have an ex who's hooked on you, or just looking for a good time and want to just catch and release – it be best for you to go to..... the shallow waters! Friends, family, a sense of humour and laughter, love, respect, common sense, optimism, a kind heart, healthy communication, healthy lifestyle, are things very important to me and I need them in my life. Being in the mountains, hiking, long walks, being by the water, sitting on a patio (in the sun preferably) with friends, roadies, weekend getaways, are a few of my pastimes & "Love to Do Things". I love most music - takes you wherever you want to go, except rap, vibe, & country – enjoy anything from Enya to Ozzie, he was amazing when he was here a few years ago! I also enjoy doing random acts of kindness or ….silliness…. hehe.. Let's live life the best we can and have fun doing it along the way. With life's ups &..agree?!You may have looked awesome 5 or 10 years ago, and you probably still look awesome! but, I'm really more interested in what you look like now within the last couple of years and if you still look the same....what's your secret?!! I know we'd like to think we do but we don't unfortunately :) So hopefully you're not putting up a profile pic from ***yrs ago, while the rest of your pix are your actual age...is that supposed to show us your before & after pix? ;) I would like someone who lives & works in Calgary, and not one who has a job that takes them to all parts of the world. Some women prefer bald men and yes, some men look very attractive & suit it, however, I like men with hair and who are somewhat physically fit. Please take no offence, these are just my preferences, nothing else and if you send me a hello sorry but I won’t respond back. :-/Short one-liner hellos, or short responses to an ***, and no questions in return, shows no interest...and I will lose interest...very quickly. I'm not looking for a pen pal for endless chitchat but that’s not saying I want to meet after one or two *** & a few pictures, I'd like to get to know you a little first. If you can relate to where I'm coming from & you 'get it', I'd like to meet you! If I have piqued your interest and you'd like to meet someone who is classy (when need be :) but down-to-earth, fun, with her head on her shoulders, quick-witted, and loves to shoot the s**t but enjoys a thought-provoking conversation, send me a hello! A walk down a path with fallen leaves, talking, getting to know each other while sipping on a glass of wine?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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