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Lakisha, 48
United States, New York, Lindenhurst

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About Me

Hello Fisherman (only want one :) in Cyberworld! Yep...I have been here before, tossing that line just one more time. Then I may have to go to deeper waters.Are your kilobytes destined to align with my ***little bytes…or nibbles perhaps ? ;) Let’s seeeeee…..what’s your bait?Do you know what you’re looking for? You may know what you don’t want, but do you know what you do want? How far are you willing to toss that line? Is it a strong line that can withstand some stormy waters or a weak one that will it break with the first wave?; not have to settle. I believe that any relationship built to last starts out as a great friendship. I’m looking to date, and if there's a connection & more, we can see what the stars have in line for us! Are you someone who can look at the positive even if pessimism looms? Listen & ‘hear’ others’ opinions & take them into consideration before voicing yours and making a decision? Bite your tongue when needed, cool that anger before it fuses and still have good communication?Can you be strong, hold your own but yet be respectful & caring & not afraid or too proud to admit when you’re wrong? Are you someone who is comfortable in a pair of jeans & t-shirt as they are in a suit? (to an extent of course!) Are you okay with sitting at home snuggled on the couch watching a movie or sharing a glass of wine, talking; listening to some tunes or going for a fun night out?I’m not here to play mind games & will toss you back if you flip flop! If you are hooked on an ex, have an ex who's hooked on you, or just looking for a good time and want to just catch and release – it be best for you to go to..... the shallow waters! Friends, family, a sense of humour and laughter, love, respect, common sense, optimism, a kind heart, healthy communication, healthy lifestyle, are things very important to me and I need them in my life. Being in the mountains, hiking, long walks, being by the water, sitting on a patio (in the sun preferably) with friends, roadies, weekend getaways, are a few of my pastimes & "Love to Do Things". I love most music - takes you wherever you want to go, except rap, vibe, & country – enjoy anything from Enya to Ozzie, he was amazing when he was here a few years ago! I also enjoy doing random acts of kindness or ….silliness…. hehe.. Let's live life the best we can and have fun doing it along the way. With life's ups &..agree?!You may have looked awesome 5 or 10 years ago, and you probably still look awesome! but, I'm really more interested in what you look like now within the last couple of years and if you still look the same....what's your secret?!! I know we'd like to think we do but we don't unfortunately :) So hopefully you're not putting up a profile pic from ***yrs ago, while the rest of your pix are your actual age...is that supposed to show us your before & after pix? ;) I would like someone who lives & works in Calgary, and not one who has a job that takes them to all parts of the world. Some women prefer bald men and yes, some men look very attractive & suit it, however, I like men with hair and who are somewhat physically fit. Please take no offence, these are just my preferences, nothing else and if you send me a hello sorry but I won’t respond back. :-/Short one-liner hellos, or short responses to an ***, and no questions in return, shows no interest...and I will lose interest...very quickly. I'm not looking for a pen pal for endless chitchat but that’s not saying I want to meet after one or two *** & a few pictures, I'd like to get to know you a little first. If you can relate to where I'm coming from & you 'get it', I'd like to meet you! If I have piqued your interest and you'd like to meet someone who is classy (when need be :) but down-to-earth, fun, with her head on her shoulders, quick-witted, and loves to shoot the s**t but enjoys a thought-provoking conversation, send me a hello! A walk down a path with fallen leaves, talking, getting to know each other while sipping on a glass of wine?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    PLEASE READ PROFILE IN IT'S ENTIRETY ...Update: read no further if your " idea of "entertainment is going to Night Clubs EVERY WEEKEND and or getting drunk every weekend. ...not to say I do not enjoy a good Craft Beer on a hot summer day or a Tropical drink or glass of Champagne with a nice meal~ I like to get up early on the weekends and spend the day doing "outdoor stuff" I LOVE hiking and exploring, not afraid to get dirty or sweaty and I can keep up with the boys; ) with that said...I also have a "Girly girl " side and can be a little Prissy~ yep...Hello to all of you out there looking for Love,Interesting just how challenging this can be !! This is my third time around on meetville not good !! I have decided to give finding a Loving, devoted, honest man with a huge spirit for both Love and Laughter one final chance on this site....I know your out there, I just know it...I am a fun-Loving person with an adventurous spirit and a huge Love for Life and Laughter. I am upbeat and positive and don't let life's inevitable challenges get me down. I keep a smile on my face and tend to live in a Pollyanna world focusing on all the good around me, and in the faces of people... With all the pain and suffering on our planet people tend to get caught up in "Negativity" thrown at us daily by the media and forget about the Beauty all around us...it's true...Before you read on I want to be upfront, I have been separated since June ***,not yet divorced, I have no plans on reconciliation at all! Just getting my ducks in a row before he is served. Once he is served, the divorce will be short, maybe not sweet? I completely understand the reasons a man would not want to date a woman until her divorce is final, and I respect that. I thought it to be very important that I did add this very crucial aspect of where I am currently in my Life... I am at a time in my life where I have been seeking to find the happiness within myself, by myself without feeling that I need to be in a relationship to feel "Okay" with me~~ I can say that for the first time in my life I have learned to be my own best friend and the feeling I have discovered that comes in really trusting yourself and in not needing others opinions is quite liberating indeed... I have found that I really don't need anyone to make me whole. I am whole all on my own, We are all whole and it's an amazing feeling once you attain that discovery in your Life...So to sum up me, I would say that I am a loyal, devoted, passionate, kind lady who is looking for the same. I don't want Mr. tough guy, I don't want a Gym Rat, I don't want a man who is loud and brags about himself or his accomplishments...~~~Have a wonderful day : )PS. If your not a dog Lover and don't have dogs of your own then we may not be a good match and it would be pointless to message me as I am a dog Lover...they do consume my time, and they are a big part of my life...and I have 3 ~~~yepPSS. Also, very important that I add how very important it is to me to find and be with a man who is not shallow. I almost get sick to my stomach when I read ALL the profiles of men my age and older looking for women who are "perfectly fit and toned" Come on guys...really? I understand if your not attracted to females who resemble Shammoo!!! However...If your a man who only dates Perfect Body types, well that is your preference and it is your prerogative but please do not message me. I am 47 years old for Christ Sake, I want a man who makes me feel okay about myself even though I am getting older. I want to share my life with a person who wants to grow old gracefully and who is interested in me for my heart and my smile...not my 6 pack abs. (which I do not have b.t.w.) I do not have the body of a 20 year old. I have the body of a 47 year old who has had 2 children...So if your looking for Barbie..your knocking on the wrong door...she is across the street with Ken and all his buddies ; ) and she may date you for awhile, but when the money is gone...so is sheTruth... Meeting somewhere on the beach just before sunset and looking into each others eyes to see if our souls connect...It's *** me, it has to be ...I have tried "making" that feeling happen...NEVER works ...awwwhether we connect or not, I would always follow through with watching a peaceful sunset and heading out for a refreshing tropical drink ~winkand pleasant conversation...and if there is a spark YES !!! YES!!!YES!!!Smiles~~~Big, Big, Smiles~~~

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