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Madelyn, 49
United States, New York, Lindenhurst

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UPDATE: First, please if you are looking for just a "booty call", keep going! If that is what I was looking for, I would go to a club! SECOND, IF YOU WANT TO MEET ME, please just send me an e-mail and if the feeling is mutual, I will send you one back. I am a woman that still wants to be pursued, just a little!!! LOL PLEASE engage in the pursuit, all a woman wants is to be contacted by YOU, if you "want to meet" just say it for the love of Pete....I will do the same!!! Also, it us not that difficult to determine whether our not you area in the same league, use you're brain as lil here guys!!!!!IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A PICTURE OR CANNOT PROVIDE ONE WITHIN 3 DAYS...DO NOT RESPOND!!!!! It is not vanity nor arrogance, just common courtesy. First, let me say thank you for stopping by and checking out my profile. Hopefully, after reading it, maybe it struck an interest and you would like to chat. Okay, now I would like to know where are all the GOOD men? Second, guys let's be real...WE ALL have baggage, it is a matter of how we handle those trials, tribulations and joys in our life. I would like to think that what I have been through in my life has made me a better and stronger person. Now mind you, I would not wish some of my life on satan himself, but there is a reason for it all. At this point in my life, I may just sit back and wait for a "sugardaddy"...lol. Seriously, I am at that point in my life where I am ready to live and love and to be loved, cherished and pursued again. I believe that I am a somewhat intelligent, (although I am sure it depends on who you ask..lol), charismatic, giving, compassionate, sympathetic, empathetic, strong-willed, open-minded, vivacious woman who wants to be treated with respect and as an equal. I want to be able to share my thoughts and feelings with someone special again and when I blurt something out, I don't want to hear "what is your point?" I may not have a point, I may just want you to know what I am thinking. Now on the flip side, my twin brother has told me that I can tell someone where to go and will pay for the trip so to speak.....now, is that bad? Maybe or maybe not? Depends if you are on the receiving end of that. With that in mind, I am also a woman who wants a man to stand up for her, beside me and if needed, defend me. Don't put me in a situation just to "test me". that is just trying to exploit a person and I won't stand for it. I also believe in honesty...sometimes brutal honesty is the best. And yes guys, I can be a "B"...what woman cannot???? Let's be real here. Do you want some fantasy woman that when we meet you are going to go Oh My God..she is nothing like she said. NO!! Because I don't want a man that is going to lead me on and make me think that he is someone that he is not!!! Again, I just want to live, love and be loved again. I know that there is someone out there waiting for me as I am for him. Now, it is on you whether or not you want to take the chance.....come on I dare you!!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic Funk British Italian Japanese Adult Horror War
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  • Lakisha from Lindenhurst | Woman | 48 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hello Fisherman (only want one :) in Cyberworld! Yep...I have been here before, tossing that line just one more time. Then I may have to go to deeper waters.Are your kilobytes destined to align with my ***little bytes…or nibbles perhaps ? ;) Let’s seeeeee…..what’s your bait?Do you know what you’re looking for? You may know what you don’t want, but do you know what you do want? How far are you willing to toss that line? Is it a strong line that can withstand some stormy waters or a weak one that will it break with the first wave?; not have to settle. I believe that any relationship built to last starts out as a great friendship. I’m looking to date, and if there's a connection & more, we can see what the stars have in line for us! Are you someone who can look at the positive even if pessimism looms? Listen & ‘hear’ others’ opinions & take them into consideration before voicing yours and making a decision? Bite your tongue when needed, cool that anger before it fuses and still have good communication?Can you be strong, hold your own but yet be respectful & caring & not afraid or too proud to admit when you’re wrong? Are you someone who is comfortable in a pair of jeans & t-shirt as they are in a suit? (to an extent of course!) Are you okay with sitting at home snuggled on the couch watching a movie or sharing a glass of wine, talking; listening to some tunes or going for a fun night out?I’m not here to play mind games & will toss you back if you flip flop! If you are hooked on an ex, have an ex who's hooked on you, or just looking for a good time and want to just catch and release – it be best for you to go to..... the shallow waters! Friends, family, a sense of humour and laughter, love, respect, common sense, optimism, a kind heart, healthy communication, healthy lifestyle, are things very important to me and I need them in my life. Being in the mountains, hiking, long walks, being by the water, sitting on a patio (in the sun preferably) with friends, roadies, weekend getaways, are a few of my pastimes & "Love to Do Things". I love most music - takes you wherever you want to go, except rap, vibe, & country – enjoy anything from Enya to Ozzie, he was amazing when he was here a few years ago! I also enjoy doing random acts of kindness or ….silliness…. hehe.. Let's live life the best we can and have fun doing it along the way. With life's ups &..agree?!You may have looked awesome 5 or 10 years ago, and you probably still look awesome! but, I'm really more interested in what you look like now within the last couple of years and if you still look the same....what's your secret?!! I know we'd like to think we do but we don't unfortunately :) So hopefully you're not putting up a profile pic from ***yrs ago, while the rest of your pix are your actual age...is that supposed to show us your before & after pix? ;) I would like someone who lives & works in Calgary, and not one who has a job that takes them to all parts of the world. Some women prefer bald men and yes, some men look very attractive & suit it, however, I like men with hair and who are somewhat physically fit. Please take no offence, these are just my preferences, nothing else and if you send me a hello sorry but I won’t respond back. :-/Short one-liner hellos, or short responses to an ***, and no questions in return, shows no interest...and I will lose interest...very quickly. I'm not looking for a pen pal for endless chitchat but that’s not saying I want to meet after one or two *** & a few pictures, I'd like to get to know you a little first. If you can relate to where I'm coming from & you 'get it', I'd like to meet you! If I have piqued your interest and you'd like to meet someone who is classy (when need be :) but down-to-earth, fun, with her head on her shoulders, quick-witted, and loves to shoot the s**t but enjoys a thought-provoking conversation, send me a hello! A walk down a path with fallen leaves, talking, getting to know each other while sipping on a glass of wine?

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  • Adele from Lindenhurst | Woman | 50 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am fun, social and honest.I love lunches out, wine tours, movies/popcorn, dinners, and watching ball. I have a very busy schedule between work and kids schedules but looking for someone and see where it goes. My kids are pretty independent they are getting older so just need me to taxi them around.music...I enjoy country music, live bands and good old rock and roll!I enjoy staying home but do like to go out once in a while. I am not really into night clubs - I prefer neighbourhood pubs *** vacations but there is no place like home. Enjoy watching my kids sports :)A bit of a neat freak (I am pretty organized).I enjoy occasional "lazy days" but am not much for couch potatoes!Heights and spiders are two things that I can honestly say are not my favorites.People say I look younger than my age.And I am not in any rush for a relationship, I am looking to spend time with that special person and see where it goes. Cheers,Blondie looking for dagwood Seems I am an old fashioned gal, I will leave that up to the guy :)

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  • Marla from Lindenhurst | Woman | 48 years old | Virgo
    Marla

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Trying to find an honest person is impossible! I am no longer looking for a relationship on here but I have met a few people that I really enjoy chatting with.I watch the Yankees every chance I get although they are not doing so great this year! (I'm not counting them out yet) Most of my free time is spent hanging out with my family and I enjoy that more than anything.

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