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Lela, 50

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About Me

I love being outside getting some sun or hanging by the pool or beach. Having dinner with friends and listening to good music. Love to laugh and have nice conversations with someone that listens and communicates as well. Looking for a guy that likes to kid around, not be so serious. If you love music and like hanging out, having a few beers being outside and just all around having a good time It could be interesting and fun. I am divorced after an 18 year marriage.I have 2 children 22 and 20 I am ready to get on with my life and hopefully find a few friends along the way that I would enjoy meeting and having a good time with. I have a very quiet life and cannot deal with head games or drama, I had enough of that with my past marriage and no longer intersted in men that cannot be honest. Walking on the beach and talking so we can get to know eachother or great conversation over dinner.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Clarice

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I love all sports!!! I love to go to the city just to explore. Can spend the day in a museum then go to races. Many different likes. I try to find the good in all situations. Always something there just have to be open to find it:) First dates should be spent getting to know one another. So movies are usually not a great first date. Sitting at a picnic table drinking iced tea or coffee just sharing. No distractions.

  • Celia

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Am looking for some intellectual intimacy, someone to touch my mind, light a spark, or bonfire. A kinship of being on the same page at some same level whatever that may be…I’m looking for that. Also am very sensual, like intertwined holds, being taken by the hand if you know how, lazy Sunday mornings, touching. Just want to find someone that likes me for me..no bs..don't want to have to pretend..want a place in life where we can be true to ourselves.The rest…yes, I like nice hands and strong arms capable of holding someone long and secure, a killer smile that melts icy moods and turns frowns upside down, a great butt in jeans or dress pants, a gaze a girl can lose herself in and the confidence to hold it long enough for her to feel safe there. Ahh, yes, chemistry. Am a good kisser, would appreciate same. HE would be kind, thoughtful, know when to send a text to make me smile, gather me tight in his arms for no reason, and sit and listen when I haven't spoken for awhile. Be strong inside and out, and can talk about anything and will. Will be able to take it slow or hard, whatever the day calls for, 'cuz that's just how we roll...But cart before the horse... Makes me smile? Stopping to smell the roses, new snow in the moonlight, kids laughing, pretty trucks cars boats and bikes, a hidden treasure at a flea market, an old couple holding hands, a stranger’s contagious smile, a long-forgotten song, the cat or dog or kids being bad to get my attention - works every time; the list is actually endless. Comes easily when reminded, otherwise tend to be too pensive. Love music, most anything, have it on all the time. Most kinds..no rap, opera, big band, '***s be bop, death metal, sorry...Blues is favorite, and adult alternative. Maggot Brain is my favorite song ever, truth be told. Guitar is my favorite, and a good sexy voice.Just want someone to have fun with, see what goes...Like to sit by the fire, play cards, laugh, tease, tickle - you NOT me; walk in the woods - beach - city; sit quiet, or talk for hours. I smile a lot if given reason, don't like to be mad, don't WANT reasons. I am a dealer so am up for any sales, auctions, flea markets, etc. DON'T have to do stuffy, overpriced antique shops, unless you like to, then I love to look at the beautiful things they also have. I have a great eye and appreciate the finer things, but not so shallow I can't enjoy the simple things too. I am comfortable with who I am, and can also be who the occasion calls for, dress up or down, in or out. I can do anything I feel like doing or what is asked of me. Like to be treated like a lady, all girls do. The better you treat, the better you'll receive in return...that's just a given... I do yoga and Pilates religiously. Eat well. Not a 10-mile cycler or mountain climber or skier; but willing to try new things if not too painful...can take it. Tomboy to an extent. Sorry, body shots were a smarta** retort to a smarta** remark...guess am bit of a smarta** too when provoked.. ;)I am honest, say what you mean and mean what you say, I will do the same. I don't believe in bs, I don't have the time or patience for it. Life’s too short for stupid I've recently decided, ergo the divorce. I respect others as taught, and I deserve and expect the same in return. I actually am here because I don’t get the chance to get out and about to meet people. Want to chat and see if we'd like to meet up. I'd like conversation with drinks, play pool, see live bands or concerts, do the wineries, museums, art venues, rides. Traditional weekends is when I'm looking to go out, but I own my own business, so lunches and happy hours are doable. I often take a day to go treasure hunting downtown, so day trips are also in. I'm very flexible...depends how inventive you are.

  • Fay

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm 50 years old have 2 grown daughters and have been divorced for almost 5 years now. I love to do anything outdoors. I love yard work, hunting, fishing, building things, boating, just being on the water. I love RV camping, gun shows, shooting, flea markets etc. I want to find someone to share these things with. I like country music and classic rock. I also love animals of all kinds and have had, raised, or rescued just about everything. I do not have drama in my life and I do not want any either. My girls are grown and gone and I dont want to raise any more. I'm at the time of my life that I am ready to have fun, travel, and enjoy getting out and doing things with someone special. I am trying to get healthy and have lost 30 lbs since the beginning of the year and am only ***way there. I used to be an avid weight lifter and and runner and would love one day to get back into fitness. I prefer non smokers and to date within my own race. I'm also looking for someone local that I can go out and do things with, I am not interested in a long distance relationship. I will only respond to profiles with pictures. Meet somewhere at a restaurant where we can talk and maybe have a few drinks, or have a cook out. I prefer not to go to a movie because you can't talk.I'd love to just go fishing and relax, I'm easy to please and a date doesn't have to cost anything

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