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Lela, 50

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About Me

I love being outside getting some sun or hanging by the pool or beach. Having dinner with friends and listening to good music. Love to laugh and have nice conversations with someone that listens and communicates as well. Looking for a guy that likes to kid around, not be so serious. If you love music and like hanging out, having a few beers being outside and just all around having a good time It could be interesting and fun. I am divorced after an 18 year marriage.I have 2 children 22 and 20 I am ready to get on with my life and hopefully find a few friends along the way that I would enjoy meeting and having a good time with. I have a very quiet life and cannot deal with head games or drama, I had enough of that with my past marriage and no longer intersted in men that cannot be honest. Walking on the beach and talking so we can get to know eachother or great conversation over dinner.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Celia

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Am looking for some intellectual intimacy, someone to touch my mind, light a spark, or bonfire. A kinship of being on the same page at some same level whatever that may be…I’m looking for that. Also am very sensual, like intertwined holds, being taken by the hand if you know how, lazy Sunday mornings, touching. Just want to find someone that likes me for me..no bs..don't want to have to pretend..want a place in life where we can be true to ourselves.The rest…yes, I like nice hands and strong arms capable of holding someone long and secure, a killer smile that melts icy moods and turns frowns upside down, a great butt in jeans or dress pants, a gaze a girl can lose herself in and the confidence to hold it long enough for her to feel safe there. Ahh, yes, chemistry. Am a good kisser, would appreciate same. HE would be kind, thoughtful, know when to send a text to make me smile, gather me tight in his arms for no reason, and sit and listen when I haven't spoken for awhile. Be strong inside and out, and can talk about anything and will. Will be able to take it slow or hard, whatever the day calls for, 'cuz that's just how we roll...But cart before the horse... Makes me smile? Stopping to smell the roses, new snow in the moonlight, kids laughing, pretty trucks cars boats and bikes, a hidden treasure at a flea market, an old couple holding hands, a stranger’s contagious smile, a long-forgotten song, the cat or dog or kids being bad to get my attention - works every time; the list is actually endless. Comes easily when reminded, otherwise tend to be too pensive. Love music, most anything, have it on all the time. Most kinds..no rap, opera, big band, '***s be bop, death metal, sorry...Blues is favorite, and adult alternative. Maggot Brain is my favorite song ever, truth be told. Guitar is my favorite, and a good sexy voice.Just want someone to have fun with, see what goes...Like to sit by the fire, play cards, laugh, tease, tickle - you NOT me; walk in the woods - beach - city; sit quiet, or talk for hours. I smile a lot if given reason, don't like to be mad, don't WANT reasons. I am a dealer so am up for any sales, auctions, flea markets, etc. DON'T have to do stuffy, overpriced antique shops, unless you like to, then I love to look at the beautiful things they also have. I have a great eye and appreciate the finer things, but not so shallow I can't enjoy the simple things too. I am comfortable with who I am, and can also be who the occasion calls for, dress up or down, in or out. I can do anything I feel like doing or what is asked of me. Like to be treated like a lady, all girls do. The better you treat, the better you'll receive in return...that's just a given... I do yoga and Pilates religiously. Eat well. Not a 10-mile cycler or mountain climber or skier; but willing to try new things if not too painful...can take it. Tomboy to an extent. Sorry, body shots were a smarta** retort to a smarta** remark...guess am bit of a smarta** too when provoked.. ;)I am honest, say what you mean and mean what you say, I will do the same. I don't believe in bs, I don't have the time or patience for it. Life’s too short for stupid I've recently decided, ergo the divorce. I respect others as taught, and I deserve and expect the same in return. I actually am here because I don’t get the chance to get out and about to meet people. Want to chat and see if we'd like to meet up. I'd like conversation with drinks, play pool, see live bands or concerts, do the wineries, museums, art venues, rides. Traditional weekends is when I'm looking to go out, but I own my own business, so lunches and happy hours are doable. I often take a day to go treasure hunting downtown, so day trips are also in. I'm very flexible...depends how inventive you are.

  • Lolita

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I want my next relationship to be full of laughs, passion, and devotion. I am not looking for a hook-up. I have enjoyed dating just for fun, but now I am looking for something longterm, and maybe even permanent--and still fun!The qualities that I find especially attractive in a man are a witty sense of humor, intelligence, thoughtfulness, honesty, and kindness. Things that turn me off in a man: shirtless profile pictures, arrogance, adjusting yourself in public, and spitting. I hope that isn't too much to ask;)I'll treat you with respect and always let you know where you stand. I know people often claim in their profiles that they don't play games, but I really don't. I'm not a good liar and break a sweat when I'm expected to pretend to be something I'm not. I'm mentally stable--I promise--and pretty perceptive. I'm trusting by nature, but skeptical by way of experience. I know guys often look at the pictures and skip the reading, but if you've gotten this far, you already must like what you see.I take good care of myself and am pretty low maintenance in the beauty treatment department. Occasional manicures, but no fake nails. Just enough color in my hair to keep it the shade I'm used to. No fake body parts. I like to think I look good for my age, but don't pretend to be a hardbody. I'm at a point in my life where I feel good about my appearance and work to keep it up, but won't pass up a good dessert or bowl of cheese dip.Life's too short. Thanks for being curious enough to read this far. If you're interested, message me. Expect at least one real phone conversation before an actual face-to-face. I learned that one the hard way. Best of luck, and hope we both find what we are looking for out there.

  • John

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I like the smell of lilacs, Merlots, ginger, mint, and reading the paper in bed on a Sunday morning. I know that I am a lucky woman, even if sometimes I forget. I like strong coffee and old black and white movies, especially on rainy afternoons. I like the feeling of wet sand between my toes, starry skies, fullmoons, and mint chocolate chip ice cream. There's nothing like a good steak and charming conversation. I can be shy. I can be, well, a little impulsive. I sing in the shower and constantly lose my car keys, my glasses, or both. I know the difference between a slider and a fastball. I like a good read. I have been decribed as a cynical optimist. I've been known to speak my mind. And I would like to meet someone who can make me laugh and who I can make laugh in return.I wouldn't even begin to know how to describe someone who would be my match. Being a baseball fan wouldn't hurt either...

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