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Tammy, 49
United States, New York, Lindenhurst

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About Me

WARNING: I make no apologies for who I am and where I am in life. Drama and alcohol ahead.If you're perfect, lived a perfect life, a perfectionist, or expect perfection..... Want to call me 'Hun' , 'Honey', 'Sweetie', or 'Dear'.....I'm not the girl for you.The past 18 months have been a roller coaster for me. Divorce from hell this past year. Trying to start over after 18 years of marriage. Spent a year drinking myself goofy, (thank God I never tried drugs ha!), spent 76 days in jail ( yes...real jail!) pondering life , meditating, praying, talking to God, wondering wether to take anti-depressants or not (decided 'no'), running a business on one brain cell and a single fragile emotional thread. Oh ... and watching a lot of documentaries, dark drama and historical fiction on NetFlix cuddled up with my dog. How the hell does one 'start over' at our age?I worked in the medical field for 12 years, radiation physics and dosimetry. In my second life, I owned and operated a CrossFit gym from ***until last month. Getting ready for my third life... currently preparing for law school....studying for the LSAT. Hope to obtain a dual degree in law and social work. I'm not going to lie...physical attraction is very important to me. I want to feel crazy about the person I am with. I'm not looking for a serious relationship right now. I'm not marriage minded...looking for a friend that can also stimulate me intellectually, who doesn't mind a girl a tad on the eccentric side. I'm an optimist and a huge fan of humor. If you can't laugh at yourself, we probably won't get along.It is my perspective that "things" and "events" in life are neither 'good' nor 'bad'...they just 'are' and that is the fiber that makes up the fabric we call 'life'. Everything happens for a reason and every situation can be an opportunity to learn something new about ourselves.How's that for honesty? Now if you still want to chat... We'll talk about all the 'fluffy' stuff....and you're one brave man. Anything that doesn't involve alcohol. Surprise me, I'm game!

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  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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