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Tammy, 49

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About Me

WARNING: I make no apologies for who I am and where I am in life. Drama and alcohol ahead.If you're perfect, lived a perfect life, a perfectionist, or expect perfection..... Want to call me 'Hun' , 'Honey', 'Sweetie', or 'Dear'.....I'm not the girl for you.The past 18 months have been a roller coaster for me. Divorce from hell this past year. Trying to start over after 18 years of marriage. Spent a year drinking myself goofy, (thank God I never tried drugs ha!), spent 76 days in jail ( yes...real jail!) pondering life , meditating, praying, talking to God, wondering wether to take anti-depressants or not (decided 'no'), running a business on one brain cell and a single fragile emotional thread. Oh ... and watching a lot of documentaries, dark drama and historical fiction on NetFlix cuddled up with my dog. How the hell does one 'start over' at our age?I worked in the medical field for 12 years, radiation physics and dosimetry. In my second life, I owned and operated a CrossFit gym from ***until last month. Getting ready for my third life... currently preparing for law school....studying for the LSAT. Hope to obtain a dual degree in law and social work. I'm not going to lie...physical attraction is very important to me. I want to feel crazy about the person I am with. I'm not looking for a serious relationship right now. I'm not marriage minded...looking for a friend that can also stimulate me intellectually, who doesn't mind a girl a tad on the eccentric side. I'm an optimist and a huge fan of humor. If you can't laugh at yourself, we probably won't get along.It is my perspective that "things" and "events" in life are neither 'good' nor 'bad'...they just 'are' and that is the fiber that makes up the fabric we call 'life'. Everything happens for a reason and every situation can be an opportunity to learn something new about ourselves.How's that for honesty? Now if you still want to chat... We'll talk about all the 'fluffy' stuff....and you're one brave man. Anything that doesn't involve alcohol. Surprise me, I'm game!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Casandra

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Hi and thanks for checking out my profile. Hmmm i guess my friends would call me a very down to earth person. I'm pretty straight forward and believe honesty is the best policy. Dating online has been an interesting experience and for the most part I have met some very nice people. I have a great family and friends. that extends all over the globe. I don't like to play games, oh and Im not looking for a tex buddy! I just got out of 10 years of finance and i am pursuing a new business with some old partners, I have a great house and my dog Louie....... so my life is pretty complete! But i would love to find someone special to spend some time with, especially since its summer and i live a block from the beach! LOLHuge animal Lover, very active, I'm a runner:-) big water person too, I've traveled around the globe dozens of times, mostly for work and have lots of conversation topics to discuss. I did 15 years as a fashion designer on 7th Ave then 10 years down on Wall str as a financial Advisor, So Both sides of my brain work!-) im having a blast now rebuilding homes..i 'm goal oriented, ambitious and enjoy challenges, work wise not relationship wise! I think things should happen naturally, and progress, nothing should ever be forced, if its ment to beit will happen....... Anything you would like to know please ask!good luckxoxoK Drinks, coffee, appetizers, then the second date we can get creative

  • Blanche

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    It's been a huge change, but we are adjusting slow but sure. I have two teens still home and two grown sons living close by. I've raised my kids alone for the past 13 years. I'm a very protective mom to say the least. Rarely dated at all, didn't want to bring any "mr wrongs" into our lives. Now tho, the kiddos are growing up and I'm beginning to realize, it would be nice to have a special someone in my life. I've never done any type of dating service before, but if meant to be, maybe I'll meet that someone I've been waiting for. Not sure how to make a connection on here, but open to try it out. Pray for my feet! Lol. ;) kind of proud of that accomplishment. My two teens are 3rd degree black belts, very talented with sparring skills and bo staff as well. Very proud of them. That's it in a nutshell. Lots more to my story, will reveal more in time. Well well well. It's been so long since I've even been on a date I really don't even know what to say here. As long as its not the typical dinner and movie, we should be ok... In other words, Something different. Something special and memorable. Then dinner after any of that would be nice. Lol. Lots of smiling, laughing and a little flirting would top off the date as well. Scared yet? Lol

  • Jill

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am looking for someone who can be my best friend. A person I can rely on. I would like someone who is smart and can carry on a conversation. Someone who is interesting and unique.I have a great sense of humor and try to understand the other person's point of view. I have been told I am a good listener. I like almost all kinds of music except maybe rap. I enjoy watching sports on TV although I will never understand football. I like theatre, movies or just hanging out with good friends. Well I guess a first date for meeting someone on line can be either a good or bad experience so I would think it should be something like just meeting somewhere and talking for a bit.

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