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Tammy, 49

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About Me

WARNING: I make no apologies for who I am and where I am in life. Drama and alcohol ahead.If you're perfect, lived a perfect life, a perfectionist, or expect perfection..... Want to call me 'Hun' , 'Honey', 'Sweetie', or 'Dear'.....I'm not the girl for you.The past 18 months have been a roller coaster for me. Divorce from hell this past year. Trying to start over after 18 years of marriage. Spent a year drinking myself goofy, (thank God I never tried drugs ha!), spent 76 days in jail ( yes...real jail!) pondering life , meditating, praying, talking to God, wondering wether to take anti-depressants or not (decided 'no'), running a business on one brain cell and a single fragile emotional thread. Oh ... and watching a lot of documentaries, dark drama and historical fiction on NetFlix cuddled up with my dog. How the hell does one 'start over' at our age?I worked in the medical field for 12 years, radiation physics and dosimetry. In my second life, I owned and operated a CrossFit gym from ***until last month. Getting ready for my third life... currently preparing for law school....studying for the LSAT. Hope to obtain a dual degree in law and social work. I'm not going to lie...physical attraction is very important to me. I want to feel crazy about the person I am with. I'm not looking for a serious relationship right now. I'm not marriage minded...looking for a friend that can also stimulate me intellectually, who doesn't mind a girl a tad on the eccentric side. I'm an optimist and a huge fan of humor. If you can't laugh at yourself, we probably won't get along.It is my perspective that "things" and "events" in life are neither 'good' nor 'bad'...they just 'are' and that is the fiber that makes up the fabric we call 'life'. Everything happens for a reason and every situation can be an opportunity to learn something new about ourselves.How's that for honesty? Now if you still want to chat... We'll talk about all the 'fluffy' stuff....and you're one brave man. Anything that doesn't involve alcohol. Surprise me, I'm game!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am coming back for a second try. I have met some wonderful men on here and it is not "all"bad...there are good fish out there but i have not found "my fish" yet :) Going to make is simple. I am on a search for my best friend; someone that wants to get to know me and will accept me for me, as I will them. Someone that will make me laugh until I cry..someone to hold my hand and never let go…someone to make memories with, filled with fun and happiness.I am very affectionate, romantic, genuine..I do not lie, I do not do drama, nor involve myself in it…I am family oriented, silly and fun. I am honest to a fault, lying gets you no where. I want to find the man that I cannot wait to see at the end of the day...wake up to each morning and start a new life with.I love the beach, movies, photography, cruises, flea markets and antiquing, bbqs, live bands on the water, baseball games, board games, anything friend and family oriented. I would like to find someone that leads a somewhat healthy active lifestyle, eats healthy, takes care of themselves...I AM NOT INTO BARS, CLUBS, PARTYING OR CAUSAL DATING!!..I am not into the "biker" scene either sorry.....So if you are an excessive drinker or bar goer, or "motorcycles are your life:, i am not the one for you.I am looking for a man that has his life together, is happy with himself, honest, romantic, genuine, stable, good communicator and fully free of drama (i understand everyone has some drama but lets go with carry-on and not huge suitcases)……looking for a long term relationship also. …must be a snuggler…I am very into family and strong values...old school i guess. looking for another hopeless romantic :) Someone that is old school and respects woman, is romantic and affecTionate.I wish everyone luck in finding what you are looking for.....Also if I dont message back , I am not trying to be mean but if it not going to work I don't want waste your time...PRIVACY NOTICEWarning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. First date/meeting sweet and simple..If we click then we plan that special date to make a memory with.....

  • Jill

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am looking for someone who can be my best friend. A person I can rely on. I would like someone who is smart and can carry on a conversation. Someone who is interesting and unique.I have a great sense of humor and try to understand the other person's point of view. I have been told I am a good listener. I like almost all kinds of music except maybe rap. I enjoy watching sports on TV although I will never understand football. I like theatre, movies or just hanging out with good friends. Well I guess a first date for meeting someone on line can be either a good or bad experience so I would think it should be something like just meeting somewhere and talking for a bit.

  • Rebecca

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am very quick witted. I love making people comfortable as quickly as possible, I cook, I sing, and I can grow tomatoes if necessary. I am in my 40's so my goals are pretty easy, take care of myself, have fun, respect others, and laugh as much as possible. I will be taking a stand up class this month, I have hang glided, parasailed, hiked up a mountain without water, "not intentional" I am not afraid of a challenge. I like fun motivating movement music, I also like country. Perhaps we could meet and go for a hike, or lunch at a local restaurant. I enjoy movies, however, not condusive to first dates usually. I am open to anything.

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