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Tammy, 49
United States, New York, Lindenhurst

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About Me

WARNING: I make no apologies for who I am and where I am in life. Drama and alcohol ahead.If you're perfect, lived a perfect life, a perfectionist, or expect perfection..... Want to call me 'Hun' , 'Honey', 'Sweetie', or 'Dear'.....I'm not the girl for you.The past 18 months have been a roller coaster for me. Divorce from hell this past year. Trying to start over after 18 years of marriage. Spent a year drinking myself goofy, (thank God I never tried drugs ha!), spent 76 days in jail ( yes...real jail!) pondering life , meditating, praying, talking to God, wondering wether to take anti-depressants or not (decided 'no'), running a business on one brain cell and a single fragile emotional thread. Oh ... and watching a lot of documentaries, dark drama and historical fiction on NetFlix cuddled up with my dog. How the hell does one 'start over' at our age?I worked in the medical field for 12 years, radiation physics and dosimetry. In my second life, I owned and operated a CrossFit gym from ***until last month. Getting ready for my third life... currently preparing for law school....studying for the LSAT. Hope to obtain a dual degree in law and social work. I'm not going to lie...physical attraction is very important to me. I want to feel crazy about the person I am with. I'm not looking for a serious relationship right now. I'm not marriage minded...looking for a friend that can also stimulate me intellectually, who doesn't mind a girl a tad on the eccentric side. I'm an optimist and a huge fan of humor. If you can't laugh at yourself, we probably won't get along.It is my perspective that "things" and "events" in life are neither 'good' nor 'bad'...they just 'are' and that is the fiber that makes up the fabric we call 'life'. Everything happens for a reason and every situation can be an opportunity to learn something new about ourselves.How's that for honesty? Now if you still want to chat... We'll talk about all the 'fluffy' stuff....and you're one brave man. Anything that doesn't involve alcohol. Surprise me, I'm game!

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    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Meagan

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT I AM ATTRACTED TO...I AM ATTRACTED TO MEN THAT ARE 6'1" TO 6'6"...YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE A GYM RAT, BUT I DO ENJOY THAT MEN ARE IN SHAPE AND THEY TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES. I HAVE NEVER SMOKED BEFORE IN MY LIFE AND REALLY HAVE A HARD TIME DATING ANYONE THAT SMOKES....I AM ONLY ATTRACTED TO WHITE, HISPANIC, ARABIC OR MIXED RACE. SO, PLEASE DO NOT GET OFFENDED!!!!...IF YOU MAIL ME AND I DO NOT RESPOND...MY SINCERE APOLOGIES...BUT I KNOW WHAT I WANT...IF YOU MAY CHOOSE ME...THE FOLLOWING DESCRIPTION IS WHO I AM:All my friends would describe me as funny, outgoing, loyal, dependable, compassionate, positive, confident, and always smiling. My family would describe me as reliable, responsible, very loving, care giver, fair, always optimistic, and driven. In addition, I would describe me as in the moment, life is too short, experience life to the fullest, chemistry is very important to me, honesty is golden, believer in love at first sight, and when I love, I truly love. Physical fitness and staying healthy is priority to me. I enjoy yoga, weight training, running, biking, dancing, almost anything that requires physical activity. I love to dress up to go out and have a glass of red wine, little dinner and dessert (my favorite). I can be very natural and wear my favorite jeans and boots. I have been told numerous times I am prettier in person than in my pictures!!! I just think it is my outgoing personality in person that may make me more attractive..LOL!!!I love to watch college and Sunday football. I will go to any live game or sport known to man. My most desired passion is to travel. I have traveled all over the world and would love to return to most locations and try new ones. The last days of my life, along with the man of my dreams, will be traveling all over the world!!! PLEASE DO NOT GET OFFENDED THAT I WILL NOT RESPOND BACK....NOTHING AGAINST ANYONE PERSONALLY, I JUST KNOW WHAT I AM ATTRACTED TO AND WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR....As you can see I am tall...5'9" and love to wear high (3 to 4 inches)!!! Makes a girl very tall..so I do prefer taller men from 6'1" to 6'6". Age Preference: ***MUST HAVE PICS attached to ***!!!! NO PICS EQUALS NO RESPONSE!!!!I WILL NOT DATE ANYONE WHO SMOKES!!! My Apologies!!!If this fits...I am a pretty laid back kinda girl..coffee, a glass of wine, light snack, lunch or dinner would be fine with me!!!

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  • Earlene from Lindenhurst | Woman | 49 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi just a nice girl looking for a nice guy. I think there is someone for everyone. Not into games. Had my heart broken, but willing to try again. Honest and polite. Pretty and kind. Likes many things.I believe in chemistry but, think sometimes love just happens. Don't understand falling out of love. and was taught to accept people for who they are not who we think they should be. Come from a great family. Mom to the two most beautiful children. Love my family,friends and job! I don't want to hear from any married men. Sorry that's just not right. I only have one picture up because almost all my pictures have my children in them and I don't think they should be viewed by strangers. That is just the mommy in me I guess. If you don't like children that may be a problem,Thanks for understanding. I enjoy so many things and work out at least three times a week. I try to attend mass every weekend and I'm really just a nice normal lady. I can be serious and grown up, but I have a silly side too! Lots of things can be fun a cup of coffee, a walk, a drink I think a first meeting should short and there should be some kind of spark. You should also be polite and honest.Good luck everyone.

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  • Rena from Lindenhurst | Woman | 49 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hello! Wish you are having fun in your search, and otherwise not getting into those horror stories we heard all the time.- Someone asked me if there was difficult to date when traveling so much. I will love your help in that sector :-)Please send me a line if you wish, and we get into the details of how we would like to enjoy our free time, and spend our lives in a meaningful way becoming friends, companions, lovers and soul mates.PS: if you plan to hit the message button, please have a good credit report and valid passport. Thanks! There will be in a beautiful environment, with good music, or just anywhere God wants us to find love.

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