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Phyllis, 47

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About Me

I no longer believe in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. I do believe that a very few times in life, if we are lucky, we might meet someone who is exactly right for us. Not because he is perfect, or because I am, but because our combined flaws are arranged in a way that allows two separate beings to hinge together.It's no good pretending that any relationship has a future if your record collections disagree violently or if your favorite films wouldn't even speak to each other if they met at a party.About myself - restless, analytical, and opinionated. I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. Sarcasm is a spice of life, so bring it on. Timeless books and movies that make you wonder for days about whose side you are on, put great flavour into many of my evenings.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

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  • Candy

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I have a quirky, sometimes dark, sense of humor and try to use it to find something funny in most situations. and zombies!I love surprises, unless I know that one is coming (like Christmas)and then I just can't stand the suspense! I am even known to give my gifts early because I can't wait; this doesn't make early shopping very useful for me because I then have to shop again so there is something for the actual day!Things I enjoy are singing, bowling (even though I am absolutely terrible!), fishing (as long as I don't have to take it too seriously), reading, watching the Jayhawks play basketball, walks in the woods, sitting at the lake or beach just watching the water, whale watching, dancing, the theater, camping (as long as it's not "roughing" it... lol), etc. I really do not enjoy cooking or extravagant foods; I'm a pretty simple fare kind of girl. Although I do enjoy going out with friends for drinks, I am not a real "party" person and enjoy spending time at home with friends playing board games or cards.Why am I unique? Hmmmm... In the words of Forest Gump I am "like a box of chocolates".... I am a very diverse person with an even more diverse personality.As for the next man in my life...Are you the man that I can laugh and be goofy with? That will get my stupid jokes and only roll your eyes when I can't see you do it? Can we have long, easy, comfortable conversations about everything from the silly, mundane "Why is there only one girl Smurf", to the philosophical, history changing 'If you could go back in time and kill Hitler before the Holocaust would you?". Can we say what's on our minds and have discussions without censorship (I sometimes say "bad" words oops) and still be respectful of one another (good old fashioned debates)? By now, if there isn't a physical chemistry between us, you have met your platonic best friend or your sister... DAMN! (This is the time to tell the other, with respect, that the connection just isn't there.) However, if there is a definite physical connection between us HALLELUIA! This is just the ice cream on top of our piece of pie and who can have pie without ice cream???? YUMMY!!!Tell me you get butterflies in your stomach too when you know we're going to see each other. Tell me you catch my eye from across the room and feel as much anticipation as I do for what is to come. Tell me that you get lost in my eyes, breathless from my kiss, and every touch sends thousands of shockwaves through every inch of your body; because that is what I am feeling too! I am searching for want what can only be when two people have the connection that we have!Am I asking too much? I would love your input and thoughts! :)

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