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I am looking for someone serous about a relationship, not someone says he is, then turns around every chance they get, to come on this site!!! If you continue to log in after several dates, I will assume that you are still looking and that I am waisting my time. I have said this before, and will say it again..."!!" If you are fortunate to meet with me, I believe that I should come to your house and bring a friend with me, maybe have coffee and chat, to get to know one another a little better. Ok Update!!! I went out with a guy from this site, we saw each other several time, then no phone call no text, nothing.... What is that about, I only sent one text to him saying haven't heard from you....I am not going to beg or chase anyone, I just do not understand why guys are acting so weired!!!Have you ever felt that you weren't good enough, or that someone wants to change the person you are???? Well im looking for someone who is happy with just me!!!!OK, here is what NOT to say if you wanna go out on a date... (but probably correct in his statement) "the biggest ***hole that you could ever go on a date with,i would make you pay for everything and i would treat you like sh*tany takers?" I was sent this!I am tired of these guys who are married who message me wanting me to go out with them. Look Im single, why would I want to go out with you!!! I dont care if you are telling me the truth! I am not interested in you!I want to be the one and only, I dont want to share, and if your married and want to go out with me, then you would do it to me, Im not stupid!!!! So please come on... give me a break, just let me find someone who wants me not two ...........I am a 40 year old , i work a full time job, and have one kid. I like to hang out, play pool,and get to know people. I am not on here looking for a hook up!I am a big girl and know when the games are being played,If all you want is the hunt or just a quick fix, find someone else. Hm....... well i have had many first dates all different, every person is unique and different i would not like to compare any of them...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Pansy

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    ***Disclaimer: If I'm even a LITTLE bit convinced that I saw you on Investigation Discovery, I'm not going to respond if you message me. Please don't take offense that I find you creepy and won't answer. I mean that in the nicest possible way! :-) ***Single mom of two awesome teenagers. I've been divorced for a few years and own my own home in West Mobile. I love a good book, am a sucker for a good movie, and love just about any kind of music. =)I SCUBA dive every chance I get, play in every *pick-up* beach volleyball game I can find, camp, ride dirt bikes, seriously regret ever having sold my Jeep, windsurf, and have a HUGE goal in life to spend good, quality time bonding with as many waterparks as possible before I eventually die of all MY hobbies. At some point, I guess I'll have to come to grips with the fact that I'm not 14 anymore. But, the good news, I guess, is that the only bone I've ever broken is my nose. Three times. Lol. Once in high school by an old guy with a 2X***don't ask;- drowning people do NOT want to be saved, no matter what they think; and once 3 years ago, spotting a 6'4" male cheerleader on a standing tuck (back flip)... I'm sure I'll have to grow up someday, but it's not gonna be today!I do clean up and act like an adult pretty well, too, though. Love a nice dinner out and do know which fork to use where. (Basically, I made BOTH my parents proud! Lol.) In other words, I do know how to behave like a lady and actually enjoy doing it. =)I would like to meet a confident, stable person. Someone who is comfortable in a suit, as well as old, faded jeans. Intelligence matters to me. I'm not necessarily looking for a rocket scientist (that would be ok, though!), but I'm hoping that you know the difference between 'their', 'they're', and 'there'! Other than that, I'm pretty easy to please! As long as you're interested in me for who I am, I'll afford you the same respect. Honesty is the most important aspect of a friendship, in my opinion. I'm not looking for marriage today, or even tomorrow. However, I'm not opposed to marriage, either! ;-) But, I believe that the love required of lifelong commitments doesn't happen overnight, and is much more stable when built on a foundation of friendship. You'll like curling up in front of the fire and talking about your day. You won't be ashamed to show tenderness but you won't 'lay down' and avoid a stimulating discussion, either. You'll treat children, old people, and dogs with kindness. You'll be honest, fair, and fun. Everyone over the age of 3 has some kind of baggage. I get that. I've got my own because I'm not a two-year-old, either.-worthy production. ;-) Life will throw curveballs at us every single day, but I prefer that my drama come from Red Box or Netflix. :- Seriously? I'm supposed to describe a first date here? Before I even know who it might be with?!? Good grief! It could be anything and totally depends on what interests we share. Dinner. Lunch. Roller skating. Sky diving. Wind surfing. Bank robbing. (Ok. Maybe not bank robbing...) But, gee. Let's just play it by ear, ok? :- I apologize, but I'm not even remotely interested in anyone twice my age. It would also be fabulous if your profile did NOT start with "looking for a women..." You're either looking for "a" or you're looking for "women"; the two don't work together. Lol. "A" means one; "women" is plural.. ;-) If you've made it this far without getting totally offended OR confused, feel free to send me a message!

  • Cassie

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm sitting here feeding my friends my homemade (yes, I bake and I'm good) cream puffs, while they create my profile. I'm also planning on torturing them with Rock Band in a few moments. Know this, I own all the ***, but find I only play when friends are over. You don't have to love it or like it, but tolerance may be helpful. By all means...join in!I keep myself busy with friends and family. I'm not putting my life on hold waiting for a man, but I'm willing and able to open space for you. I'm looking for sincere friendships, dating, and ultimately a long term relationship. As far as marriage, this isn't a goal, but again, I'm open to the idea if someone truly special were to join my life.I'm discovering my love for all things baking. I'm taking classes and dipping my toes into the world of self-employment. My goal is to have my own bakery one day. Right now, finding a commercial kitchen would be a great start. Know of any?PS - I am not looking for a pen pal. I am looking to meet someone to see if we can develope into a long term relationship. We need to meet to do that. If you don't intend to meet, then don't waste both of our times. Thanks.PPS - Ask questions. It shows you're interested. Something we both agree to so we can get to know each other and see if there is a connection.

  • Latasha

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I feel like it’s been a long time since I have taken time for me, and I want a social life again. I have been really busy for several years, raising my kids and completing my education, which left me little time for a adult relationships. Now that, that is completed (well sorta, adult children hmmm…. got to love them) I am looking for an educated man who has a career and is interested in building solid relationship along with a good time. I enjoy listening to live music, going to different types of social activities, festivals.I would be open to trying new things as well. So if you have a hobby or interest that isn’t death defying I might be willing to try once, twice if I like it. I am also rediscovering I enjoy traveling, Either weekend getaways or day trips just as much as spending the day at home cooking dinner, watching movies and spending time with my family and friends. First dates are always nerve wrecking, and I can be shy in the beginning. I sure we can work out something that we are both agreeable to.

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