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Pansy, 43
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***Disclaimer: If I'm even a LITTLE bit convinced that I saw you on Investigation Discovery, I'm not going to respond if you message me. Please don't take offense that I find you creepy and won't answer. I mean that in the nicest possible way! :-) ***Single mom of two awesome teenagers. I've been divorced for a few years and own my own home in West Mobile. I love a good book, am a sucker for a good movie, and love just about any kind of music. =)I SCUBA dive every chance I get, play in every *pick-up* beach volleyball game I can find, camp, ride dirt bikes, seriously regret ever having sold my Jeep, windsurf, and have a HUGE goal in life to spend good, quality time bonding with as many waterparks as possible before I eventually die of all MY hobbies. At some point, I guess I'll have to come to grips with the fact that I'm not 14 anymore. But, the good news, I guess, is that the only bone I've ever broken is my nose. Three times. Lol. Once in high school by an old guy with a 2X***don't ask;- drowning people do NOT want to be saved, no matter what they think; and once 3 years ago, spotting a 6'4" male cheerleader on a standing tuck (back flip)... I'm sure I'll have to grow up someday, but it's not gonna be today!I do clean up and act like an adult pretty well, too, though. Love a nice dinner out and do know which fork to use where. (Basically, I made BOTH my parents proud! Lol.) In other words, I do know how to behave like a lady and actually enjoy doing it. =)I would like to meet a confident, stable person. Someone who is comfortable in a suit, as well as old, faded jeans. Intelligence matters to me. I'm not necessarily looking for a rocket scientist (that would be ok, though!), but I'm hoping that you know the difference between 'their', 'they're', and 'there'! Other than that, I'm pretty easy to please! As long as you're interested in me for who I am, I'll afford you the same respect. Honesty is the most important aspect of a friendship, in my opinion. I'm not looking for marriage today, or even tomorrow. However, I'm not opposed to marriage, either! ;-) But, I believe that the love required of lifelong commitments doesn't happen overnight, and is much more stable when built on a foundation of friendship. You'll like curling up in front of the fire and talking about your day. You won't be ashamed to show tenderness but you won't 'lay down' and avoid a stimulating discussion, either. You'll treat children, old people, and dogs with kindness. You'll be honest, fair, and fun. Everyone over the age of 3 has some kind of baggage. I get that. I've got my own because I'm not a two-year-old, either.-worthy production. ;-) Life will throw curveballs at us every single day, but I prefer that my drama come from Red Box or Netflix. :- Seriously? I'm supposed to describe a first date here? Before I even know who it might be with?!? Good grief! It could be anything and totally depends on what interests we share. Dinner. Lunch. Roller skating. Sky diving. Wind surfing. Bank robbing. (Ok. Maybe not bank robbing...) But, gee. Let's just play it by ear, ok? :- I apologize, but I'm not even remotely interested in anyone twice my age. It would also be fabulous if your profile did NOT start with "looking for a women..." You're either looking for "a" or you're looking for "women"; the two don't work together. Lol. "A" means one; "women" is plural.. ;-) If you've made it this far without getting totally offended OR confused, feel free to send me a message!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Play Musical Instrument German Portuguese South American Family & Kids Fantasy Music Shooting Sports
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