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Bettye, 41
United States, Maine, Lewiston

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About Me

.....Hmmm...this is where things seem to get complicated. It seems to be when you are up front and forward in telling someone exactly what you want, need, and desire they tend to run. But here goes...I would like to meet someone who knows what they want in a relationship, is ready for a real relationship, but not expecting to fall in love in a day or get married in a month. You know the first moment you meet someone if there is chemistry and during the first date if you are excited for a second. I like simple to extravagant from watching movies at home to champagne at a black tie event. I like the heat of the desert sun and playing in the snow, dressing cute or getting dirty. And there is nothing like an ice cold beer at a baseball game! When I really want something I go for it. I’m passionate about everything from the simple things in life to the most difficult. I don't take a back seat approach to anything. I try to love and appreciate life as much as possible and I would like to share that with a partner. I would love to find someone that is affectionate behind closed doors and in public (cuddler a big plus), enjoys spending quality time together (but also giving each other due space), isn't afraid to be silly, and likes to be adventurous romantically and personally. What I truly am in search of is someone that will be my best friend ,like/love me and whom I can give all my love to, someone who appreciates me for me and of course I will appreciate you for you, and someone I can't wait to see. I feel that confidence is very sexy but arrogance is not. Someone that will stand up for themselves and their partner is amorous but not someone who lets others walk all over them. I do not want someone that always agrees with me. I want someone to challenge me and someone I can learn from. I believe that respect, honesty and open communication are the largest parts of a relationship and I truly appreciate them. I am an open book and I want to be able to share and tell my partner everything....no matter what it may be may be and I hope for the same in return. Most people do not like confrontation but, I feel that it's all in how you go about it that makes the difference. If anything bothers you that I am doing please tell me!I don’t believe chivalry is dead. I love to spoil my partner and be spoiled. I like my door being opened, my chair pulled out at a restaurant, a rose for no reason, and breakfast in bed. I can't wait to spoil and adore an amazing man!Thanks for taking the time to read my profile! I'm excited to hear from you!P.S. Not to be rude or mean but if you are old enough to be my Dad or young enough to be my son please do not repond! If you are looking only to get L**d. If you call your vehicle "Baby". If you are more attracted to yourself than someone else......please do not respond! Anything that gives us a chance to get know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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