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LessieOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
** I'm getting some very nasty messages, in regards to messages I don't reply back. I've been called stuck-up, told I think I'm too good for this site, and a couple of not nice things.. 1. I don't log on here every single day. Give me time. 2. I have found that it's best to not reply at all, if not interested. I did reply to every single message with a polite reply.. and many men took that as encouragement, and not as "Thanks.. but, no thanks." 3. Vulgar messages will get you blocked.. immediately. Be a gentleman. 4. I don't date outside my race. Just my preference of attraction.. no other reason.**Ok.. This is my third time here, but I've never really given this site a fair chance. I usually delete after a couple of weeks. Not sure I'm comfortable being here or if I'll stay this time. We'll see. I didn't have a great experience here last time, but that was something really weird. But, what the hell? Life's about chances. I've just turned 45 and I'm divorced with three kids.. all over 18. They do their own thing. Being single for the last four years, has definitely been a time of self reflection, self awareness, self discovery.. It's been a slap in the face at times and wonderful at times. I went thru the kinda really sad stage- thinking I'd been dealt a raw deal in life and how unfair it was, how I'd be alone forever.. thinking I was the only one to ever be in that position. Of course, that was bullshit. I went thru the panic stage of thinking I had to have a date.. every weekend. Wrong. I went thru the I'm not gonna date again.. I don't need a man. Kinda true. I don't "need" one, but I want and desire one. I want him to be my best friend, as well as my lover. I desire someone to share things with.. for them to introduce me to their world and things they enjoy and are passionate about and them mine. Most of all, I've became comfortable and confident in my own skin.. with me. I like me, although I can always use some improvements. I love to travel, go out and do things.. especially dive bars and live bands. But, I also enjoy museums, movies, hiking. I love reading and can lose myself in a book for hours. I think rainy days are romantic and rainy nights are sexy. I try to exercise daily, but I don't love it. I fight weight and have lost over 50 lbs. I fight it daily. I love to cook, and I'm pretty good at it. I love to be barefoot and just hang out. But, I love dressing up and going out, too. I appreciate all genres of music. I love rock concerts, folk, and blues. I like a lot of musical artists that aren't really the norm. I try to be nice and tolerant to everyone. I don't care for anger and yelling. But, I do realize everyone is human. I'm not really interested in your bank account.. but, in your mind.. heart.. soul. The things that matter. I believe if you take time to find out about those things.. you'll have a true understanding of who each other are. From there.. respect, friendship, lots of fun and maybe even love grows stronger. I believe in giving as much as receiving, and having a mutual respect for one another as well as a true interest.Oh.. men seem to ask if women have went out with anyone from here. I have. I only agreed to meet two. I'm great friends and hang out with one, i just didn't feel attracted to him. The other I liked a lot, and was very attracted to, but a series of strange things happened. Long story. Neither, are on meetville now. Surprises are great.
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RobbieOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
I also like hockey and like to catch a Heat game too. Music, movies, concerts, plays or just hanging out at home watching a movie is great too. Sometimes it's fun just chillin and relaxing at home with a great meal, great company and a nice bottle of wine. I'm just as comfortable in a formal gown as I am wearing sweats and jeans. Exercising and living a healthy lifestyle are also important to me as well as doing anything on the water. I'm a very open, honest and have a great sense of humor. In search of a tall,fit, professional male who is honest, funny, not into games and has similar interests to mine. I look forward to hearing from you.Note: Please have a recent photo that I can see. I will not respond to profiles without a photo. Also looking to meet in person. I'm not looking for a *** pal. I'm looking for someone who is at least 5'10 because I'm 5'8 and like wearing heels. It's just my preference. Meet for a drink or coffee to talk and see if we have chemistry. Hopefully we'll both want to see each other again...
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SandyOffline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I am a single, nearly-divorced, woman with meat on her bones, a smile in her heart, and laughter on her mind. I love exploring new places, restaurants, and stories. When my nose isn't stuck in a book, my eyes could be glued to a cheesy reality show or a moving documentary. I love to cook and entertain and turn regular spaces into beautiful places to relax, connect, and enjoy friends and family.I love to write, travel and share funny, embarrassing, frustrating, joyous moments with people I love. My goals in life are to see as much of the world as I can, make meaningful connections with people who bring joy to my life and to some day have a wonderful family that expands my patience, compassion and capacity for love. I have a soft spot for southern men. Southern is not a prerequisite, but respectful is. I love a man who can make me laugh, a man whose actions and words are the same, a man who is kind, and a man who has established a life of his own. If he likes to travel, try new restaurants, spend the day driving to a new place, sit on the couch and cuddle on a rainy night, and can kiss me until my toes curl--then he's right for me.If you like to be surprised, held and told how much you are appreciated and loved, and you can reciprocate, you are a prime target for my passion. If you only say "I love you" when you really mean it, are looking to date and see what happens from there, then we might be a good fit.PLEASE NOTE: Please do not contact me if you're looking for cyber sex, phone sex, a one night stand, or financial support of any kind. The place isn't as important as the conversation. While a setting can enhance a mood, if a man can make me laugh, help carry the conversation, show interest in me, and keep a positive attitude, then it's a great first date. I love to be outside in nice weather so anything by the beach or at an outdoor cafe would be ideal, but the most important thing is the conversation and the level of attraction and engagement.NOTE: It will not be at my house for "cuddling."