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Sandy, 41

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About Me

I am a single, nearly-divorced, woman with meat on her bones, a smile in her heart, and laughter on her mind. I love exploring new places, restaurants, and stories. When my nose isn't stuck in a book, my eyes could be glued to a cheesy reality show or a moving documentary. I love to cook and entertain and turn regular spaces into beautiful places to relax, connect, and enjoy friends and family.I love to write, travel and share funny, embarrassing, frustrating, joyous moments with people I love. My goals in life are to see as much of the world as I can, make meaningful connections with people who bring joy to my life and to some day have a wonderful family that expands my patience, compassion and capacity for love. I have a soft spot for southern men. Southern is not a prerequisite, but respectful is. I love a man who can make me laugh, a man whose actions and words are the same, a man who is kind, and a man who has established a life of his own. If he likes to travel, try new restaurants, spend the day driving to a new place, sit on the couch and cuddle on a rainy night, and can kiss me until my toes curl--then he's right for me.If you like to be surprised, held and told how much you are appreciated and loved, and you can reciprocate, you are a prime target for my passion. If you only say "I love you" when you really mean it, are looking to date and see what happens from there, then we might be a good fit.PLEASE NOTE: Please do not contact me if you're looking for cyber sex, phone sex, a one night stand, or financial support of any kind. The place isn't as important as the conversation. While a setting can enhance a mood, if a man can make me laugh, help carry the conversation, show interest in me, and keep a positive attitude, then it's a great first date. I love to be outside in nice weather so anything by the beach or at an outdoor cafe would be ideal, but the most important thing is the conversation and the level of attraction and engagement.NOTE: It will not be at my house for "cuddling."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alma

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I have one daughter that lives with me full time. I love raising her, but I have more to give! I have been single for 4 years. I have done some traveling in the US, up and down both coast lines. I am not a high maintenance woman. I am looking for a man that will treat me with respect, be honest, sincere, and make me laugh! I love to country dance, go for walks, camp, and even get myself muddy riding 4wheelers! I want to live life to the fullest by sharing my life with him as equals. I can pay my way and expect the same from him! Let's chat, meet, and get to know each other! For a first date, we should do something simple so we can talk without disturbances.

  • Lillian

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a compassionate, dependable and good person. I like to watch the Cardinals, the Rams, St. Louis Blues and college basketball. I enjoy walks, going to the gym and good conversations. I enjoy all different kinds of music such as country, pop rock, dance music, hip hop, rhythm and blues etc. Im usually the one singing in the car and bopping my head. He is great! I like to sit outside and look at the stars on a peaceful evening as well as cuddle inside on a stormy night. I am not materialistic as I like the simplier things in life. I am looking for a man to spend time with and who enjoys life. I want someone who makes me laugh. Someone with a good heart. On our first date I would take you to lunch somewhere. Maybe a little cafe to get to know each other better and then maybe a walk in the park to get some exercise and continue to talk to each other about our interests, dislikes and want we want out of life.

  • Wendy

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Just a note upfront just because I might not send someone a message when I view their profile does not mean I would not be interested just tired of the superficial words coming out of the individuals mouth who claims they want something special and real.. Nobody wants to feel rejected or their not eye candy enough for someone to give them a chance of seeing what qualities the woman has within herself .I'm a single mother who is kind, compassionate,affectionate and loves to laugh..I believe in love, faith , trust and loyalty and I want to be able to love someone again unconditionally , but I’m not jumping into anything quickly I would love for us to become sincere, loyal great friends and go from there if there happens to be no chemistry to move to the second level then I'm woman enough to understand this and would still like to have you as a friend..I believe in open, honest and genuine communication.. I’m very comfortable within my inner and outer self and I don’t care to deal with fake people . I’m seeking realness, honesty, and someone to share life with..If you seek a woman who will give her 100% to you as well as love you and show you an abundance of affection as well as other great things then I'm the one you are seeking...Don’t be shy, reach out and say Hello! A cup of coffee w/ a great conversation or whatever makes you feel comfortable ..

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