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Sandy, 41

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About Me

I am a single, nearly-divorced, woman with meat on her bones, a smile in her heart, and laughter on her mind. I love exploring new places, restaurants, and stories. When my nose isn't stuck in a book, my eyes could be glued to a cheesy reality show or a moving documentary. I love to cook and entertain and turn regular spaces into beautiful places to relax, connect, and enjoy friends and family.I love to write, travel and share funny, embarrassing, frustrating, joyous moments with people I love. My goals in life are to see as much of the world as I can, make meaningful connections with people who bring joy to my life and to some day have a wonderful family that expands my patience, compassion and capacity for love. I have a soft spot for southern men. Southern is not a prerequisite, but respectful is. I love a man who can make me laugh, a man whose actions and words are the same, a man who is kind, and a man who has established a life of his own. If he likes to travel, try new restaurants, spend the day driving to a new place, sit on the couch and cuddle on a rainy night, and can kiss me until my toes curl--then he's right for me.If you like to be surprised, held and told how much you are appreciated and loved, and you can reciprocate, you are a prime target for my passion. If you only say "I love you" when you really mean it, are looking to date and see what happens from there, then we might be a good fit.PLEASE NOTE: Please do not contact me if you're looking for cyber sex, phone sex, a one night stand, or financial support of any kind. The place isn't as important as the conversation. While a setting can enhance a mood, if a man can make me laugh, help carry the conversation, show interest in me, and keep a positive attitude, then it's a great first date. I love to be outside in nice weather so anything by the beach or at an outdoor cafe would be ideal, but the most important thing is the conversation and the level of attraction and engagement.NOTE: It will not be at my house for "cuddling."

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Angelita

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Recently back in the dating scene. I'm sure it will be a learning experience but I'm game. I'll make this short and sweet by saying I'm a genuine, caring, thoughtful, lighthearted person. I don't take myself too seriously, somewhat of a free spirit, and tend to be pretty laid back. I am, however, a strong minded person with goals and a plan. I like to be social.. love going to restaurants, pubs, festivals, & movies but I also like hanging out at home with a bottle of good wine and good conversation. Having a good social network with friends and family is important. Because of my job I've done my time in the city so looking more for a person who enjoys the country and outdoors.So I'm into anything that's fun in the sun, drives in the country, boating on a lake, trying new foods and restaurants, Friday night fish frys are a must! My philosophy is appreciating the small things in life cause ultimately that's the path to true happiness. Slowing down to smell the roses is important to me. I want someone who is real, passionate, knows what they want, able to share their thoughts and feelings, has a sense of humor, loves having fun and loves kids. I have 2 boys who are my world and would need someone who respects that. Something simple... meet for lunch, dinner. Hang out and chit chat then decide from there.

  • Celia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Love the simple things in life...laughter, music, good food, good coffee, the beach... I'm not a materialistic girl. To me, the important things in life are family, laughter and simple pleasures, like looking at a starry sky and the moon on a clear night. I also love a good thunderstorm or like to watch a nice, gentle rain... love the sound of rain, wish I had a tin roof.I'm easy to get along with, go with the flow kinda person, don't get offended easily. Hate strife, like peace.Love the outdoors and nature, love being near any kind of water, but the beach is my favorite place on earth!! It's good for my soul!! Would love to share some adventures with someone like hiking, camping, deep sea fishing, taking a trip to the mountains to discover waterfalls,etc.) Going to festivals, farmers markets, etc.Would like to meet someone with similar interests, but different interest are good too, because it would expose both of us to new things. Food is my passion!! I absolutely love to cook!! I'm a chocolate girl and I love spicy food!! I'm a spicy sweet chic, lol. Would love to get in the kitchen and enjoy cooking a delicious meal with someone!!I can get dressed up or just hang out in jeans, sweatshirt and a ball cap by a fire barrel.Looking for compatibility. Honesty, integrity and values are important to me!! Believe in a good work ethic, can't stand laziness. I love my job!! Would like to spoil a man, but not in a way that produces laziness, just in a way that shows my love and desire to please. Would like to find my best friend. Love surprises - whether given or received.I have four children ***boys, two girls. The oldest two have already graduated high school. I love being with my children, we have a lot of fun, but they have their own social lives, I also have the energy and desire to carve out some one-on-one time getting to know someone.I'm a southern girl with southern values, believe in the man making the first move.That's basically me, if you're interested, would love to hear from you. :)

  • Robbie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I also like hockey and like to catch a Heat game too. Music, movies, concerts, plays or just hanging out at home watching a movie is great too. Sometimes it's fun just chillin and relaxing at home with a great meal, great company and a nice bottle of wine. I'm just as comfortable in a formal gown as I am wearing sweats and jeans. Exercising and living a healthy lifestyle are also important to me as well as doing anything on the water. I'm a very open, honest and have a great sense of humor. In search of a tall,fit, professional male who is honest, funny, not into games and has similar interests to mine. I look forward to hearing from you.Note: Please have a recent photo that I can see. I will not respond to profiles without a photo. Also looking to meet in person. I'm not looking for a *** pal. I'm looking for someone who is at least 5'10 because I'm 5'8 and like wearing heels. It's just my preference. Meet for a drink or coffee to talk and see if we have chemistry. Hopefully we'll both want to see each other again...

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