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Esperanza, 42

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About Me

I am a energetic, a good listener, romantic women...I enjoy movies, gardening, tv, nature and many other activities. I am open to learning about many things .......I am looking for a long term relationship. However, nice friendships are welcome...I like men with a good sense of humor, responsible, active, light, kind personalty.I like taking things slow........ Casual date

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Lessie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    ** I'm getting some very nasty messages, in regards to messages I don't reply back. I've been called stuck-up, told I think I'm too good for this site, and a couple of not nice things.. 1. I don't log on here every single day. Give me time. 2. I have found that it's best to not reply at all, if not interested. I did reply to every single message with a polite reply.. and many men took that as encouragement, and not as "Thanks.. but, no thanks." 3. Vulgar messages will get you blocked.. immediately. Be a gentleman. 4. I don't date outside my race. Just my preference of attraction.. no other reason.**Ok.. This is my third time here, but I've never really given this site a fair chance. I usually delete after a couple of weeks. Not sure I'm comfortable being here or if I'll stay this time. We'll see. I didn't have a great experience here last time, but that was something really weird. But, what the hell? Life's about chances. I've just turned 45 and I'm divorced with three kids.. all over 18. They do their own thing. Being single for the last four years, has definitely been a time of self reflection, self awareness, self discovery.. It's been a slap in the face at times and wonderful at times. I went thru the kinda really sad stage- thinking I'd been dealt a raw deal in life and how unfair it was, how I'd be alone forever.. thinking I was the only one to ever be in that position. Of course, that was bullshit. I went thru the panic stage of thinking I had to have a date.. every weekend. Wrong. I went thru the I'm not gonna date again.. I don't need a man. Kinda true. I don't "need" one, but I want and desire one. I want him to be my best friend, as well as my lover. I desire someone to share things with.. for them to introduce me to their world and things they enjoy and are passionate about and them mine. Most of all, I've became comfortable and confident in my own skin.. with me. I like me, although I can always use some improvements. I love to travel, go out and do things.. especially dive bars and live bands. But, I also enjoy museums, movies, hiking. I love reading and can lose myself in a book for hours. I think rainy days are romantic and rainy nights are sexy. I try to exercise daily, but I don't love it. I fight weight and have lost over 50 lbs. I fight it daily. I love to cook, and I'm pretty good at it. I love to be barefoot and just hang out. But, I love dressing up and going out, too. I appreciate all genres of music. I love rock concerts, folk, and blues. I like a lot of musical artists that aren't really the norm. I try to be nice and tolerant to everyone. I don't care for anger and yelling. But, I do realize everyone is human. I'm not really interested in your bank account.. but, in your mind.. heart.. soul. The things that matter. I believe if you take time to find out about those things.. you'll have a true understanding of who each other are. From there.. respect, friendship, lots of fun and maybe even love grows stronger. I believe in giving as much as receiving, and having a mutual respect for one another as well as a true interest.Oh.. men seem to ask if women have went out with anyone from here. I have. I only agreed to meet two. I'm great friends and hang out with one, i just didn't feel attracted to him. The other I liked a lot, and was very attracted to, but a series of strange things happened. Long story. Neither, are on meetville now. Surprises are great.

  • Celia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Love the simple things in life...laughter, music, good food, good coffee, the beach... I'm not a materialistic girl. To me, the important things in life are family, laughter and simple pleasures, like looking at a starry sky and the moon on a clear night. I also love a good thunderstorm or like to watch a nice, gentle rain... love the sound of rain, wish I had a tin roof.I'm easy to get along with, go with the flow kinda person, don't get offended easily. Hate strife, like peace.Love the outdoors and nature, love being near any kind of water, but the beach is my favorite place on earth!! It's good for my soul!! Would love to share some adventures with someone like hiking, camping, deep sea fishing, taking a trip to the mountains to discover waterfalls,etc.) Going to festivals, farmers markets, etc.Would like to meet someone with similar interests, but different interest are good too, because it would expose both of us to new things. Food is my passion!! I absolutely love to cook!! I'm a chocolate girl and I love spicy food!! I'm a spicy sweet chic, lol. Would love to get in the kitchen and enjoy cooking a delicious meal with someone!!I can get dressed up or just hang out in jeans, sweatshirt and a ball cap by a fire barrel.Looking for compatibility. Honesty, integrity and values are important to me!! Believe in a good work ethic, can't stand laziness. I love my job!! Would like to spoil a man, but not in a way that produces laziness, just in a way that shows my love and desire to please. Would like to find my best friend. Love surprises - whether given or received.I have four children ***boys, two girls. The oldest two have already graduated high school. I love being with my children, we have a lot of fun, but they have their own social lives, I also have the energy and desire to carve out some one-on-one time getting to know someone.I'm a southern girl with southern values, believe in the man making the first move.That's basically me, if you're interested, would love to hear from you. :)

  • Alma

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I have one daughter that lives with me full time. I love raising her, but I have more to give! I have been single for 4 years. I have done some traveling in the US, up and down both coast lines. I am not a high maintenance woman. I am looking for a man that will treat me with respect, be honest, sincere, and make me laugh! I love to country dance, go for walks, camp, and even get myself muddy riding 4wheelers! I want to live life to the fullest by sharing my life with him as equals. I can pay my way and expect the same from him! Let's chat, meet, and get to know each other! For a first date, we should do something simple so we can talk without disturbances.

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