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Nita, 31

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About Me

I am soooo tired of meeting people and having this whole "I'm going to play it cool" thing. I'm not going to list the bands that I like so that we can think, 'Oh! Match made in heaven (or hell)'. Half of the guys that I find truly intriguing, are my polar opposites. With that being said, you don't necessarily have to be. But a person's interests aren't always the draw. In fact, it's my experience that when you like someone, your interests start to mesh and evolve. In other words, if we like each other, then we'll start to, over time, open up more and more. That's the best way to get to know someone, in my opinion. Not because I listed A, B, and C (after stalking ***pages of people who looked good in a picture that was taken 10 years ago). AHHHHHH!!!! I hope your laughing, intrigued, or even just curious. Because I really do have a big heart with good intentions. Even if you just want a new friend.....here's to us!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Josie

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    Love adventure, exploring new places, been all over the United States n have many life changing experiences, I continue to grow as a mother, student, teacher, friend, partner.. Looking to find a guy that can keep up the paste with me, that will cherish my girls n I, and keep me on my toes... I love knowledge, and trying new things!!! Oh the places we will go..

  • Kristie

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am going to grad school to become a therapist because people amaze me! Right now, I have been doing more yoga and become more aware of the things that actually speak to me. My uniqueness comes with my ability to be authentic to what is true for me and my experience. This is how I have developed my own values and how I see the world. I also believe that I am widening those beliefs and it is a unique time to get to know me because I am more open to ways of thinking and living life. I would prefer to have someone that is interested in developing a spiritual side to them or is already in the process of doing that. I find it makes for better conversation and more depth to the relationship than going over what each other does everyday and the little things in life that come and go. Also, I need to be emotionally connected to a person for me to feel invested in spending time with them. I have tried getting people to understand what I have to offer, but I won't spend me time convincing someone that I am a great package. Just so we are clear. I also don't jump into relationships right away. I take my time to get to know someone, so please don't expect that after 2 weeks of dating that I am going to drop everything and be committed. Seems a bit of an odd request, but I have gotten it and it tells me about where the person I am dating is at in their rush to have a commitment. Also, if I meet you and you think I am just in the friend category, tell me. Please don't go back and forth and waiver or be indecisive...it is really not attractive. I am unique in that I take risks in life. My goals don't just consist of having babies and having a family. While that is important to me, it is vital to who I am that I have my own aspirations! Oh and I prefer someone that has their own 2 feet in the ground and can make their own decisions. If you are a momma's boy, please don't respond. I have dated and allmost married one of them and I want someone that has a good relationship with their parents and their is a positive influence, but they are not looking to their parents for answers on every day tasks all the time. Apparently, this seems to be a hard request to fill, but I am looking for a level of independence that shows me you are mature.Just to put this out there, I am not close with my family. If you are looking for someone that is very tight with their family, look elsewhere. In my life, I have found that I am more concerned with healthy relationships and whatever form that comes in is ok with me. I am looking to create my own healthy family so I hope that I can find someone that appreciates what I offer and realizes that my resiliency and strength will be assets that will carry for a long term healthy relationship :) Coffee and ice cream...I like my first date to be sober. I like to see a person for who they really are, not in an altered state. If I like how that goes, then we can go for a drink after or dinner.

  • Kimberley

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Like my headline says, I am a bit old fashion.I like to enjoy myself on dates, and love doing things that put both people at ease.Dinner and a movie are alright...but miniature golf, a hike to Rattlesnake Ridge or bowling would be better.Add some twists of unique ideas like a scavenger hunt, kayaking with the whales or hackling a comedian at a club? Pure epicness! :)But, the first step is to start getting to know each other.So, my dust jacket preview...Family is really important to me and we spend a fair amount of time together. We like to play games together, joke and laugh and because there are quite a few of us...a mild dash of chaotic :)I value loyalty, keeping one's word and honest hard work to attain goals.I enjoy anything that makes me laugh, being active and remembering to take life's slow lanes as life already moves fast enough.Oh, and my life is crazy busy these days...so I need people that can keep upOther than that, if I share too much, what will we have left to talk about and learn through interaction?So...what would you like to know? Haha...I sorta already gave thatIn my book, the more unique the more memorable :-)

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