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About Me

Im not still not sure about this but I'll give it a try... First and most importantly I am a single mother of 2 boys who are my whole world and will always come first in my life so if you dont like the idea of a package deal, move on. My kids are around about 80% of the time.So now that that's out in the open, here it goes... I work full time, so between that and my kids its not easy to go out and meet people. And where would I go anyway? I like going out for a drink once and a while but I dont expect to meet Mr. Right in the bar down the street. And most of my friends are settled down too so even if I did want to find you in a bar I wouldn't go in by myself anyway! :)In my spare time I like to do all kinds of things. I could go on and on about me and what I like to do but we need stuff to talk about if I haven't bored you away yet! Sorry, I dont think Im very good at this.Im not high maintenance, not into drama, and not looking for a sugar daddy. I work and pay my own bills. I want to meet someone who is fun and family oriented. If you have kids too, great! But you have to at least accept that mine will be around. (Probably not on the first few dates though! Lol) I like to be outside, but wouldn't say no to chilling on the couch with some ice cream and a movie. Or The Walking Dead. Its almost the season premier!!! So hopefully I haven't scared you away and you think Im cute, send me a line. You never know... Somewhere fun like a carnival or outdoor concert. Dinner is a nice first date but come on guys. Lets shake things up a bit!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Therese

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Hi! I am indeed what my headline says I am and I'm looking for someone who matches up. I am settled in myself and who I am as a woman, I prefer lady :) I have so many things to be grateful for in my life and am a very happy positive person. I am however missing that certain somebody. I will tell you right now, I am choosy. When the right one and I find each other, we will know it. In the mean time lets get to kissin frogs LOL I have an awesome little boy, great career, amazing family, and I am generally in love with my world. I love music, not so much movies and TV, but I do love football. Go Gators! I am a pretty sensual being and like lots of affection. I want to hold hands and sit on the same side of the table. I am very aware of the time and place, however, and am always the classiest of ladies...in public :D lol I am as confident as they come and that can be off putting to some, but it is what it is. Just comes with me. So, message me if you are interested. Let's see what happens :) Happy fishing!One last thing... It's just not happening. It's not you it's me. Best of luck!

  • Sasha

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    OK Ive deleted my novel, and in it's place ...the sequel. Maybe not, but I felt it was time to update a little...About me: I'm a single mom, 4 beautiful children. 2 boys and 2 girls. . I spend alot of my time with my kids,I love to read, I'll finish a novel in a day if I have the time. Love being outside, I love to camp, go fishing etc Into country music mainly.... I just cant bring myself to like it! We joke at my house that my kids will learn their inappropriateness at home from me and not some stranger, we are a strange bunch but I wouldnt have it any other way! I work ALOT of hours at the moment, managing a tax office will do that to ya this time of year, that doesnt mean I cant make time for dating just that some planning is needed.Who Im looking for: First and foremost, If you use any kind of drugs or feel the need to have a drink..all the time don't message me. I want a guy that I can actually trust, when you say you'll call at least make an effort, when you say you're gonna do something.. do it. I want someone that down the road when you come into the room my heart still skips a beat. I want a gentleman, someone with manners that still knows how to treat a woman like a lady. ( i know how to treat my guy well too for the record) I want that guy I can stay up all night talking to and even after 4 hours we never run out of things to talk about and it only feels like its been 20 mins on the phone. I want someone that can be my best friend, not just looking for a hookup cause thats not what Im after. someone who can make me want to be a better person. I am updating my pictures here also so that my more recent ones are there, my lack of full body shots is not intentional Im just normally the one taking the pictures so therefore I dont really have any to post everyone is into different things I suppose meeting for coffee ( or something else in my case) or meeting somewhere for lunch is a good option... time to sit and talk to get to know one another before actually going on a real date and spending the money involved in that... lets face it how rotten would it be to make a night of plans and go do something only to find out that there really isn't any real connection.. grabbing coffee or a burger is quick easy and if it doesn't feel right then no worries.

  • Pansy

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    Well I have long blond hair with blue eyes.I love to go out and meet new people at the bars.I love scary movies, but I can't watch them alone.I train horses for a living. Love animals. Don't like jealous people. I would like to go out for a nice quiet dinner and drinks.

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