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Aileen, 51
United States, Connecticut, Norwich

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About Me

Well here goes...I still go clubbing in the Goth scene, yes I like short skirts and big black boots, and until I have a reason not to .... well it's better than sitting home alone :) and I do enjoy dancing and seeing friends. ..Body type says average, but I like "curvy" better (not an option on here) I'm a good cook, have a great sense of humour, I'm honest and have integrity and am very genuine - I pretty much tell it like it is.. No sugar-coating - I won't participate in drama...and I don't tolerate head games - I have no patience for that..it's wasted energyI am honest and I do expect you to be as well, if not then what's the point....I do not support zoo's or aquariums or any place that has animals in captivity that should be free, especially sharks, whales & dolphins, so we're not going on a date to any of those places....everI do have 2 fishtanks, I'm not a hipocrite, they are fresh water and my fish were not taken from an ocean...big differenceI am open to a relationship - eventually, it has to start as dating though, they don't give the option "dating and hoping it turns into something" .....I do prefer younger men but am open-minded.....I don't look it but am kinda shy meeting new ppl, especially on dating sites.... so if you want to talk to me, don't you be shy too, make a move :)*no photo I probably will not talk with you... sorry if that's superficial but attraction has to be there... First date, coffee or a drink at a pub perhaps, a walk in a park or the waterfront, nothing too committed in case there's no connection, then we're both not trapped.. chemistry is a huge factor for me.... then take things from there...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indian Middle Eastern
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