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Brandy, 51
United States, Connecticut, Groton

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About Me

"Once you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change"“Others see me as an agreeable, smooth, harmonious, and "nice" person. Though there may be much more of me, this is the sort of face I show to the world. MY motto could be "I catch more flies with honey than with vinegar" I usually take a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a strong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude.I seem to be always in control, capable, efficient, and strong. I have a deep belief in my own power and ability to survive any change and to emerge victoriously from any difficulty. I have tremendous inner resources and strength. I am often the person in the family or group who is given more responsibility (and more work) than the others. I am highly conscientious and possessed great maturity, soberness, and worldly wisdom.I need to create harmony extends to my physical environment and personal appearance as well. I appreciate beauty and have a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. I do everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. From my home furnishings to my choice of clothing, everything must be aesthetically appealing, not simply functional or utilitarian.I also feel that relationships are an art, one that especially interests me and one that I am usually quite skilled at, I possess tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to me and finding the right person to share my life with is extremely important.Being part of a close couple seems natural to me – I am not an independent loner,however will not settle just to be with someone.I like to escape from the demands of everyday life, and reach out to something bigger, more exotic, and more exciting. I love traveling and discovering new things. I hope to hear from you soon

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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