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Pearlie, 51
United States, Connecticut, Groton

Offline, last seen Fri, 02 May 2025 06:00:50

About Me

I am strong, independent and passionate . Raising two children at home 15 and 14, boy and girl who I have sole custody since birth. Raised middle class and found myself on the bottom of the ladder climbing.....I am now a survivor of middle class status and holding. I have older kids that are out on their own for five years or better with no grandkids. I love to help people, a hands on kind of person. Appreciates the simple gestures ...... I appreciate classy sexy taste for myself. I want to be understood. I am honest, caring and loyal...not a game player at all so if you like to play games, I am not the girl for you. Please... I am not out to use anyone while I figure myself out. I am sincerely searching for a life partner not anything else. However, to get to that point, I don't want to waste too much free time texting. Would rather meet and see if there is a click. Chemistry is huge and i am sure that goes along with someone who takes care of their health. I like taller guys who have some education. Younger would be good but definitely not too much older. Middle class or better is a plus. I dont do well with addictions or recovery programs, liars, cheaters, or haters, or seperated, almost divorced, or newly divorced. I don't do well with anyone who needs a psych med or needs a script (you know who you are), have a anti social problem, or have been told numerous times you have a problem that has yet to be addressed. I like strength and clarity in a personality. I realize everyone has had a hiccup or two in their life but if you have CUSTODY of a child that is younger than 12, I am not the one for you. I cannot respond to every mail so I apologize for my rudeness in advance if I don't get back to you. In all sincerity, I would love to meet me just in the opposite sex. My life would be fulfilled. Positive, healthy, outgoing, caring, strong, independent, stable, loyal and loving. Lots of loving. Please don't tell me you have something to tell me....like your still married but its almost over....like you are older than your age (funny thing, never a time when the age was older). I realize you didn't tell the truth because you were thinking......she will never date me if I tell the truth...and you are right.....but PLEASE tell the truth. It makes you out to be a liar before I even know you. I suppose these things should be a great filter for me....oh the damn blonde in me right...... If your looking for someone younger, go there. Don't waste your time on me...I'm obviously not what you are looking for....I'm simply too old. I don't lie and honesty will get you everywhere and lying will get us nowhere. (sigh)....but besides that, I don't need a fancy dinner and roses if you don't even know me....keep it simple and friendly. I am always happy meeting new people.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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