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Young, 55

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About Me

I am not 53. I just realized meetville had my age wrong and I can't change it. I don't know that I have a "perfect match." There have been so few so called "perfect" (don't you hate parenthetical people?) people in my life that turned out to be anything but and so many admittedly imperfect people who actually came much closer. I'm comfortable in my own skin and in my own company so if that is all that there is ever going to be for me, so be it. But if there is more, I don’t want to miss it. I can state it best this way: I would like a man in my life but I don't NEED a man in my life and if you don't understand the difference, we're probably not a good fit. There are so many ways I could describe myself and what I want in a relationship but I’ve selected these few. I want someone who gets the emotional shorthand when we look at each other from across the room. You know, it’s that look--the one that runs from “oh crap, did YOU shut the garage door?” all the way to “I’m feeling frisky, are you with me?” He will understand that I have to be outside when it’s storming and he will hear the same profound silence you hear after a deep snowfall, you know, the silence that makes you whisper? He’ll have the Kleenex ready when I watch “Love, Actually” because he knows that, even though this is the umpteenth time I’ve seen this movie, I’m going to bawl anyway. He should be comfortable with bruises because even though I have never successfully pounded a nail just exactly the way I have wanted to, I didn’t, and most likely won’t ever, stop trying. I want someone who thinks they could be attracted to an intelligent woman who also happens to sing off key and out loud at stoplights and someone who finds it cute that, despite the aforementioned intelligence, I push on the dang door handle when it clearly says pull. He should be someone who, when times get rough, as they inevitably do, will stick it out with me if he says he will, because if I tell him that I will stick, I will. I want someone who recognizes my bravado when it’s false as well as my courage when it’s real, knows the difference but treats both the same. He should want to be my friend because I will be his and I‘m a good one. I won’’ll be there when it’s over and I promise I will look on in awe. I’m fun. I'm intelligent, irreverent, philosophical, witty, and yes, at times profane, but above all else, I’m kind. I love children. Children to me are proof that yes, there is a God. I cannot pass up a stray. I never lie unless it is to spare someone's feelings or to comfort someone who might be scared. I have been known to hug complete strangers and at the same time have been told I look like a snob. I appreciate all forms of education and intellect. I have an pretty good command of the English language but sometimes only a well placed four letter word will do. I would prefer a man who lives alongside me, not stuck to me. There are so many other things I could say but in my day to day life, I don't ever find myself having to sell myself so this isn't going to sound as if I am at ease with it. First meeting I would prefer a daytime meeting in a coffee house or something like that. First date date? Dinner in a romantic setting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hi. I am on this dating site simply because I am looking for someone that is interested in "enjoying" the wide range of activities this state offers. They are too numerous to list and I love them all. I really just want to meet someone "around my age" that wants to have a great time. I am a "go with flow" person, very personable and down to earth. We'll have fun. I'm fun. Just want to hang out with a fun loving "guy" and not just my girlfriends. (Don't get wrong, they're fabulous). So take a chance, and let's meet up. :- A HUGE Vikings fan. Love sports. Two daughters, one teen and one grown. That's it for now. You'll have to get to know more later. Something outdoors..... Rockies game perhaps? A festival? Something not one on one so neither feels awkward. Well, never say never. I just prefer something fun, meaning NOT A MOVIE.

  • Aurora

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Most people say that I\'m very funny and smart. I feel that I\'m very driven and dedicated to my goals and ambitions. I\'m looking for someone who knows what they want and is looking to build towards a serious relationship.

  • Jenna

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I guess its time for us all to be honest in what we are looking for, so here goes I have been on this site for a little over a month with no true success. I keep thinking its because men are shallow but Im beginning to think Im shallow too. I have had a lot of nice guys *** I dont answer back because they are too short too old or not the rough looking guy I like.well I have decided that if I get a message I will answer back and if it doesnt click for me Im going to be honest and tell you in a nice way of course, and in return if you are looking for someone based on the size of her behind your gonna miss out on a lot of beautiful trust worthy and intelligent women like myself,happy fishing

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