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Suzanne, 51
United States, Connecticut, Glastonbury

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About Me

Time to move on- enough of this site! I'm very picky, not neccessarily a good thing though. I hate being on here-I don't WANT to be on here- and I havent yet found what Im looking for. I DO tell it like it is! I'd like to meet an honest man, there are so many players out there. I know what kind of man I am looking for and the look I want.havent yet found it....people can be shallow and judge from the outside. I just ask for someone to be open, honest from the start and no game playing. I also know what I want, Im not perfect, don't expect you to be either and I don't claim to be perfect but want to be perfect in the right person's eyes. I am sincere and looking for a long term relationship.I am hoping to find someone of my age or a slight variance of alittle younger or older. I have to be cautious in putting this out there as I am trying not offend just state my preference of attractions to a man. I prefer a man with hair, I dont mind short and I love longer haired men if worn neatly. I am not really attracted to the "bald" style or date out of my race. I also love goatee's but I can do without it as well. I am tired of the guys who live with EX wives for convenience and make promises, those who want their cake and eat it too, or lazy men who take women for granted to do everything, the losers who can't get a job and play you.(Don't bother me with that crap).- I dont think of myself any better than anyone else, but if you don't have the manners than please, pass me by. Im a bit old fashioned to where I beleive the man looks out for his woman and feels complimented by being with his woman and vice versa. Not jealous just because someone speaks to you and then you speak back. I will not tolerate verbal abuse and or a controlling nature. Being IN CONTROL is alittle different. I have my sh*t together and whether anyone cares to admit, we all have drama- just some are expressed alittle more in detail. I am a very sentimental, sensual lady and have a generous heart, but I am also a woman, a passionate, well rounded sensual typical woman but I DO HAVE CLASS! It's going to take a good down to earth man, ONE that cares enough to stick it out when things are rough, and a take charge kind of guy thats going to win my heart. I've given up for quite awhile. I have dreams and want to share them with a man who believes in being happy in life and willing to work for it! Being happy together takes committment to accomplish things and working togther and listening. When things aren't right or you get angry with each other, you care enough to listen and understand not assume the other is a psycho and has issues. It's easier to turn things around on someone else to make yourself look good. I promise as well to put myself into the relationship 100% percent and would like for the same care, consideration and communication to be the same in return. I like a handsome man, both strong mentally and physically, willing to stand up for what they think to be right. I don't need a man to make me happy, I choose to want a man to enjoy life with and share the world we live in together. I'm dedicated to the one Im with and enjoy lots of different activities. I expect respect as well as give it in return also, I enjoy cooking, and some sports, animals, children and living slightly on the edge at times, but within reason. I don't do drugs and prefer someone who doesn't also. I am very self sufficient and independent and extrememly sincere. I am told I am attractive, and easy to talk to. I have alot of friends, both male and female. My hope is to find the love of my life whether it be here or somewhere out there- I know there is someone for me just waiting for me to find him- I hope he is looking for me!!!! I feel its best to wait to see by personality and talking whether or not we are interested-there is so much more to the attraction than pure looks- I am told I am a beautiful person on the inside and out. My first date would be some place quiet and the ambiance just right so that we can concentrate on each other without many distractions elsewhere. That will tell us after the first date if we are into each other and worth pursuing another date soon! The element of surprise is always nice, and thrill of suspense-to know we can't wait to see each other again and the sooner the better for both of us.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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