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Pamela, 55

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About Me

I raise butterflies, enjoy all types of music and nature. I am independent and competent, enjoying decorating, gardening and home improvement. A late afternoon drink at a casual beach bar with time for a walk on the sand at sunset. Corny, but awesome.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Alisa

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    LET'S GET THIS STRAIGHT....I'm dressed like a friggin' NUN in my photos..no "cuddle time" before meeting and greeting. Just sayin'...I am just a nice girl looking for a nice guy. But not desperate. My time is limited and precious. I am a mom, 4 kids, all older, one still at home for one more year. She is my life. I work hard, I am a student, an artist and I have been on my own for 10 years now. I am baffled as to why the laundry and dishes keep piling up - only me and my girl at home. Mysterious. It is like the missing sock thing. One time I cleaned my dryer vent and found 4 single socks and 20 bucks. Awesome!“'But I don’ 'Oh, you can’t help that,' said the Cat. 'We’re all mad here. I’m mad. You’re mad.' 'How do you know I’m mad? 'You must be,” said the Cat. 'or you wouldn’t have come here.'” Meh. That about sums it up.I am a Librarian, tho' my training and education is mostly art and communications. I work all day with children and young people. I am a perpetual student, heading into my 4th year at BCC, slowly working on my second AA, eventually a BA or BS and maybe a Masters someday. I like my space. Raised 4 kids, and did a superb job. They are fabulous. I make great art. I don't much care about how much "stuff" you have. I am not into stuff. I love people and personalities.I love animals, music - mostly listen to country - books, reading, walking, talking, writing...extremely right - brained and mathematically challenged. Oh well. I tried to fish, literally, I mean. With an actual pole and bait. Turned out I was good at spotting bait, digging sand fleas, and snagging rocks. And guarding the cooler. I think that should count for SOMETHING> I like hiking - would prefer the mountains, but like the local nature preserves. Owned a horse in my youth, love to ride. Pretty basic stuff, I oame from a military family, so I am used to uprooting and traveling. I tend towards restlessness at times. I am fairly content with my life. I recently had a life-changing medical scare that put me in a new place of perspective.. Gratitude is key, as is forgiveness, love, faith, understanding and acceptance...rarely is it level. I am capable of drama but do not seek it. No longer so easily rattled. Everything is as it should be.I believe: The best time to plant a tree was 50 years ago...second best time? TODAY. (My Gumbo Limbo is flowering...whooo hooo!!!) I'm drawing a blank. I think of it as a meet and greet, not a date.

  • Gale

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Are you pretty much 'done cooking', but have a little 'bite' left in the middle? Then you are Al Dente! I am self sufficient but feminine, compassionate, playful and engaging. I am a progressive thinker and would love to find someone else who is intelligent, a good communicator, has a global view, is accepting of other cultures and wants to improve their little corner of the planet. Not saying that differences don't add interest, but relationships where two people share the same basic beliefs can allow for the most profound bond which I am so psyched about having with the right man. As one of 6 children and a government employee for 25 years, I have a necessary quick wit and a good sense of humor. I enjoy heading down there to visit him and see the sights on occasion. Love the arts and music. I love nature and animals, not a vegan but try to make healthy, sustainable food choices as well as the most humane ones. I always have some home improvement project going on. I have a great garden, and would love to find someone who also gets jazzed about seeing things grow. I'd love to learn to kayak and am just starting guitar lessons. I do play the piano just well enough to accompany my singing, which is just good self therapy sometimes. Travel is in my long term plan, but right now I volunteer for an animal rescue and I have pets of my own to care for.I recently changed my profile to 'dating' from 'long term', I hate these labels but I notice that many in the 'dating' arena do hope to eventually find a LTR, as do I. I am not looking to get married again, but look forward to a committed monogamous relationship.I am hoping to find a quietly confident, honest and loyal man my age or younger, who wants to deeply love and be loved. Someone who keeps a clean home, is socially aware and considers himself a lifetime learner. I am affectionate, friends first, of course, and love holding hands, caresses and kisses. No offense, but not interested in dating a hunter, or anyone who is addicted or recovering from addiction. And dudes, how about a picture? Preferably without a baseball cap on? D:) I'm not a mountain climber, or a secret ninja spy like Angelina, but I am still a great catch, an energetic person with new adventures ahead. I do hope for someone who stays reasonably fit and likes to keep busy rather than watching TV or sports a lot. If you're looking for an educated yet down to earth, loyal woman who can hold a conversation, make you laugh and appreciate your humor too, g'me a shout. If not, I wish you luck and hope you find everything you ever dreamed of.

  • Lupe

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    I am a kind hearted person looking for a good man that wants a lasting, affectionate, faithful relationship. I would like to get to know the person as friends and build on that. I love to laugh and have fun and my family is very important to me.. I enjoy doing many things such as listening to music, watching tv, going to the movies, walking, reading books, I like to travel, go to flea markets, concerts and many other things. I am a very laid back person for the most part and I wear my heart on my sleeve as well. I don't like drama so if you have it I don't want it.. If you would like to know more about me please feel free to write me anytime.Please if you don't know what you want or you are playing games please skip my profile I am the real deal and I don't play the game of hearts... Go to dinner and somewhere we can talk and get to know each other better.

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