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Patti, 54

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About Me

I've thrown away my laundry list of “must haves" and "can't stands" and taken off my coat of expectations and replaced them with just "being" and being more open to meeting new people and letting things happen in their own way and time. I could go on and on about why I'd make an excellent partner but in reality, how I see myself may be quite different from how someone else sees me. If you're interested, let's meet and see what happens!I don’t know what my “perfect” man will look like or what he will do for a living for that matter. People have these long lists of attributes and requirements they must have in a partner and I wonder how it’s going for them trying to find everything in one person. For me, there has to be something about a person that *** spark but how to describe what that is is very difficult. It could be a certain look in his eyes or the way he smiles but whatever it is, it captures my attention and makes me want to get to know him more. A few traits that I do value, however, are honesty, integrity, kindness, openness, a good sense of humor, desire for partnership, non-judgmental, and being comfortable with who he is and where he is in his life. One note: Just because I don't have a long list of "must haves" does not mean I have no standards!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ofelia

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am a passionate person who believes in making a difference in the world in any way I can. I believe in love, peace,having fun, and happiness. I strive to be the best person I can be and make those around me happy. I am a devoted mother, friend and teacher.I am a good, kind, thoughtful person, but I also like being a bad girl every now and then (take that as you will). My glass is always half full and I have been told that I have everything it takes to make a man happy. I am young for my age and still look good ( I am told). My goal is to travel the world before I leave this place and I want someone to grow old with. I would love to join the Peace Core someday but my daughter won't let me! LOL- she is too scared of me dying of some crazy disease, but we'll see. I am not a " goodie two shoes" by any means, but I try real hard to do the right thing for both myself and others. I grew up in NY, so the "; life is something I lived with for many years. I am Italian and proud of it! You really want to taste my lasagna while we share a bottle of red wine a fire and the moonlight.Good luck in your search- Take Care OK, so this question is really over-rated in my opinion. A first date depends on the people who are going to meet and what they both enjoy. I would want my first date to be something we both enjoy doing. I would not want my first date to be at Starbucks ( also over- rated). LOLHaving said that, I think the first date should be decided by us ( together). If your idea of a first date is Starbucks, Wings and Things, or at your house, then count me out. A good first date for me would be going for a walk near the beach or in a park, then a happy hour somewhere, preferably a place outside with a band. Have you ever been to Monterrey Bay Cannery ( spelling ?Of course this is just one suggestion I have.- frame cottage, then cook some ravioli while drinking a glass of Merlot and have dinner in front of the fire. Now that's a date! My security guard would be in the next room of course!! JKLets just wait and see how we connect and then decide what we should do... OK?

  • Mabel

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I love the outdoors, i love to go camping, fishing, hanging out at the beach, (i love to motorcycle ride) watch football, go to baseball games etc Ive raised my kids and am ready to focus on a personal life for me, long ride hanging out together getting to know each other

  • Olga

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    The best things in life are free........; The best thing about finding a partner in crime is having someone to cuddle with on a rainy day.If you love to cook in the kitchen with me ..... fantastic. Better yet if you love to cook and kiss in the kitchen... with a glass of wine in your hand for me...Intelligent conversation is a major turn on. A sense of humor is priceless. I am really considering men outside of LA since men here seem to have too many issues. I am beginning to think LA men are too damaged to bother with. Please prove me wrong. I enjoy spiritual people but if you are into church on a regular basis, Temple, or secret religions where women can't participate.... I can then safely say we probably aren't a good fit. .What are your favorite movies?; ....and so many more.Music? Not interested in Jamaican music except on a beach in the Carribean, rap, heavy metal and not crazy about some country music. That leaves a whole lot of the music world wide open unless your favorite music was just listed here. Favorites... Well you will just have to find out for yourself. Just so you know... just in case it might still be a problem with your mom.... I'm not Jewish.I hope to be someone's bouquet of flowers... hold on to me just tight enough to keep me but not to crush me. If you are under 40 years old, please pick on someone your own age. Thanks.Also... I am thinking it would be best if we all take a look around us when we are shopping for groceries or any other time we are in public. Perhaps there is someone you feel appeals to you in one way or another. Take a chance and talk to them... don't be afraid of rejection... you never know!I not crazy about having to use one tiny phrase to describe myself. That one word can be interpreted so many ways. Keep an open mind. Something we will both enjoy.

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