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Joan, 42

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About Me

I love to hang out with my friends in social settings, lay back and watch a red box movie, and travel. I am sick of the bar scene as a dating place. I would love to meet an honest, emotionally secure and hard working man.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Pam

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    My goals/aspirations are to complete my college degree. I'm pursuing a degree in pre law..I recently changed it In my spare time I hang with friends, go to the wineries, study, and enjoy children's company. I also savor my down time. I love exploring new places/things, open to traveling and attending music festivals, art openings/galleries/museums. I love outdoor concerts. Really, I love doing anything outdoors. I'm a summertime person, love to camp and be in nature. I like to lay in bed and watch movies on rainy days. I'm looking for someone who has a good sense of humor, enjoys life, enjoys getting out and doing things. I'd prefer to meet for coffee or****ails and get to know each other.

  • Marisa

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I have the most amazing 2 boys ages 9 and 11…I’ve been divorced about 2 ½ years. ! My friends are my rock…They all have special meaning in my life and they are the best!! I am a very sincere person and try to give 100% at everything i do! I have a job that I love and work with people that I love spending my day with! I'm looking for a man that is funny, kind, great heart...I want long kisses and passion... I don't believe a relationship can survive without it! I think affection is a MUST... I’ve realized that life is very short. I live life to the fullest each and every day. My life experiences have led me to want to be a better person, treat people with kindness and compassion, not jump to conclusions or judge others. I treat people the way I would like to be treated. I'm very HONEST... I expect the same. We can all make ourselves sound perfect, but lets be real. ... We all have a past, we've all made mistakes. Just be honest about who you are and what you want.Communication is a big one too….just say what you’re thinking. I hate mind games and stupid shit…I’m old enough to speak my mind…. I don’t have the time or patience to sit and try to figure it out! Speak!I'm looking for 1 long term monogamous fun passion filled relationship! I still believe in marriage, and someday Hope to get a 2nd chance at happily ever after. I have 2 kids and they are part of me....so if you don't like kids or really don't care to have them be a part of your life...well....keep looking!I can't wait for the day for someone to walk into my life and make me see why it never worked with anyone else!! I want to be his favorite hello and his hardest goodbye!!You gotta take the good with the bad, smile when your sad... love what you get and remember what you had... always forgive, but never forget... and live your life with no regrets!!

  • Mercedes

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    A guy on here wanted to know why I'd try this "waste of time website," when I could find a decent, honest guy more easily in the supermarket or walking the dog (I don't have a dog :/ ). I responded that it makes sense, and sometimes I do meet guys shopping, but not my guy, I guess. I can, however, see how people can become really cynical around here.I've been divorced almost 7 yrs and had a couple of on again, off again relationships. Nothing too dramatic. My sons are 16 & 18, so get around on their own, leaving me with some free time, so long as there's something to eat and everything's clean. It can't hurt, though, right? Funny thing is, I see MANY of the same photos today as I did years ago. This can't be a good sign. Seriously, though, if your pics are the same as 7 years ago, ummm, just ask your kid or neighbor to click a couple and update your profile. I'm definitely not a serial dater. Personally, I find dating exhausting. If I'm going on a date, I have thought about it and give it my all. I do know some men AND women who date whenever possible with whomever will have them, just to get out and get a meal and maybe get lucky. I suppose if that's the game plan and everyone knows the rules, then who am I to judge. I'd rather chill at home and make dinner and go for a walk or order a movie. We all have to like our own company if anyone else is going to. As much as I, like most, want someone (just one) special in life, I'm not so desperate to just settle. We're not going to hit it off with everyone we meet, hence us 'POF repeaters.'Wanted: T*A*L*L, loyal, refined, funny, not-stuffy, attractive guy who's kind to kids, animals and the elderly, outgoing, been-there-done-that, appreciates when his girlfriend happily goes out of her way to accommodate him and handle all those little details and he reciprocates every so often with kind, thoughtful gestures (pick up a gal of milk, send a random cute text) and knows that life is just too short to hold a grudge (always kiss/make up same day)...and honest - with himself and others. Like your recliner? Then share it with me. I appreciate a man who's equally committed to family, friends, career and significant other, not necessarily in that order ;). I can be a girly-girl, but mostly enjoy being one of the guys in cool shoes. I could easily watch football all day Sunday, but will probably be in the kitchen during commercials. I can be really sarcastic, so know when it's just 'a funny.' I love to be at home, but love to get out and people-watch. Being out watching a game & eating fat food allows us to randomly talk to strangers and gain a new perspective and oftentimes appreciate home lol. I'll try anything once, except camping.Prefer not to view your selfies, half naked, in the bathroom or of dogs/cats/sunsets/gardens/your vehicle/tattoos/house-condo-apt/cropped out exes/children. Have unobstructed RECENT pics of YOU with your handsome face....take off the glasses and baseball cap. "Hi, Sexy" or "You're hot" or "Let's do this" or "Ohhh, baby!" are not attractive. We're all adults here... We can meet at the park and read the bible for a bit over some chai tea.Or...an adult beverage at a local pub over perverse conversation...

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