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Mercedes, 44
United States, Texas, Forney

Offline, last seen Sun, 26 Oct 2025 02:22:13

About Me

A guy on here wanted to know why I'd try this "waste of time website," when I could find a decent, honest guy more easily in the supermarket or walking the dog (I don't have a dog :/ ). I responded that it makes sense, and sometimes I do meet guys shopping, but not my guy, I guess. I can, however, see how people can become really cynical around here.I've been divorced almost 7 yrs and had a couple of on again, off again relationships. Nothing too dramatic. My sons are 16 & 18, so get around on their own, leaving me with some free time, so long as there's something to eat and everything's clean. It can't hurt, though, right? Funny thing is, I see MANY of the same photos today as I did years ago. This can't be a good sign. Seriously, though, if your pics are the same as 7 years ago, ummm, just ask your kid or neighbor to click a couple and update your profile. I'm definitely not a serial dater. Personally, I find dating exhausting. If I'm going on a date, I have thought about it and give it my all. I do know some men AND women who date whenever possible with whomever will have them, just to get out and get a meal and maybe get lucky. I suppose if that's the game plan and everyone knows the rules, then who am I to judge. I'd rather chill at home and make dinner and go for a walk or order a movie. We all have to like our own company if anyone else is going to. As much as I, like most, want someone (just one) special in life, I'm not so desperate to just settle. We're not going to hit it off with everyone we meet, hence us 'POF repeaters.'Wanted: T*A*L*L, loyal, refined, funny, not-stuffy, attractive guy who's kind to kids, animals and the elderly, outgoing, been-there-done-that, appreciates when his girlfriend happily goes out of her way to accommodate him and handle all those little details and he reciprocates every so often with kind, thoughtful gestures (pick up a gal of milk, send a random cute text) and knows that life is just too short to hold a grudge (always kiss/make up same day)...and honest - with himself and others. Like your recliner? Then share it with me. I appreciate a man who's equally committed to family, friends, career and significant other, not necessarily in that order ;). I can be a girly-girl, but mostly enjoy being one of the guys in cool shoes. I could easily watch football all day Sunday, but will probably be in the kitchen during commercials. I can be really sarcastic, so know when it's just 'a funny.' I love to be at home, but love to get out and people-watch. Being out watching a game & eating fat food allows us to randomly talk to strangers and gain a new perspective and oftentimes appreciate home lol. I'll try anything once, except camping.Prefer not to view your selfies, half naked, in the bathroom or of dogs/cats/sunsets/gardens/your vehicle/tattoos/house-condo-apt/cropped out exes/children. Have unobstructed RECENT pics of YOU with your handsome face....take off the glasses and baseball cap. "Hi, Sexy" or "You're hot" or "Let's do this" or "Ohhh, baby!" are not attractive. We're all adults here... We can meet at the park and read the bible for a bit over some chai tea.Or...an adult beverage at a local pub over perverse conversation...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues R&B Korean Vietnamese Comedy Music
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