SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Kimberley
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
HMMMMM, Trying to describe oneself isn't as easy as one might think. So according to Family & close friends & of course a few words from me this is what you get. I'm a very honest woman, I wear my heart on my sleeve(that one is Mom).I give 110% in a relationship, I speak my mind.I don't play games & I'm not into all the drama.I'm not a high maintanance girl. I enjoy the simple things in life. I enjoy walks in the park or around the block. I like to hold hands or show PDA(respectfully), I only date one man at a time, not into serial dating.I'm a bit sarcastic but in a fun way,I can be serious when I need to be but also have a fun side.I like to try new adventures, not always sure about it once I'm there but I give it an honest effort. I like to think I'm a little funny. I'm a hard worker & my schedule is a little backwards from everyone else, so it's hard for me to meet people. I've learned from past relationships( & I keep those in the past) that it's best to be honest & upfront right away. I talk things out, find a solution or comprimise & move on. I don't want the white knight in shining armor, I want you to be you when you are with me. .We may not like all the same things or may not agree on several issues, but we don't have to. I'm not looking to change you, just looking for someone who is serious about dating again & getting those butterflies once again. I'm not looking for perfect, because I'm not & that's okay.I'm looking to start a new chapter in my life & hoping I meet that person who is willing to take that crazy leap of faith again. They say there is someone for everyone, soooooooooooooo, hello Mr. Someone. PS.. I'm a little quiet & shy at first until I get to know you a little better, please don't take that as being reserved or not interested.Like you & most people on here, my wall is up from being burnt one to many times, but am looking to put it back down again.P.S.S. To the NOT so serious about this....NO, I don't want a friend w/benefits, NO I don't want a one night stand, & I also don't want a long distance relationship, so if you are a 1hr drive from me, its a no go.... I'm thinking coffee or tea somewhere so we can just talk & see if there is a connection..If there is, great lets make a real date & see where it could lead.. If no connection, no worries, this is where we all have to start . Good luck to all......
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Opal
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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I miss the smell of a man, his muddy boots by the door. I miss someone to cuddle up with at night and have coffee with at 5am, discussing nothing or everything. I like to talk, I love to listen. I have been married my entire adult life and I do not like being single. I can change my own tire, but would rather call you. Your hands are bigger and stronger for a reason. I wrote the rest of this on a whim one day in 10 minutes. Today is the day after Christmas. The winter can be so hard on a person. Too much time...to think. Some things need no words...Unless it's MAD, PASSIONATE, EXTRAORDINARY LOVE, It is a waste of time. There are too many MEDIOCRE things in life. LOVE SHOULD NOT BE ONE OF THEM.I want to paint the town red with you, make magic between the sheets all day, occasionally and be able to tell you absolutely anything. I'm a late nighter and an early riser, nap taker sometimes. I am a good cook and fairly neat. Quite passionate about everything I do. I don't mince words or waste much time. Not that I don't like to relax, or even shoot the shit. I most certainly do, when I can or I'm exhausted. It only takes a moment to ask someone about their day. Plus, as you may have guessed I like to communicate. Love reading people's body language and comparing it to what they are saying. People interest me. I usually am on the go for days then take a day to recharge. I'd prefer two. Most of my time is spent working and helping those that I love in one way or another. Watching babies, lending an ear or giving a lift. Whatever is needed and somewhat reasonable. I do what I can.I'm a very dedicated and loyal woman. I am not judgmental and do not like people who are. We all have our own opinions, but that's an entirely different matter, I think. I'm far from perfect. I make mistakes all the time. I'm human. I can be quite the handful for the wrong person, no doubt. I don't care what people think for the most part but I'm not a fool out to offend others or be abrasive. But, I will stand up for myself as politely as I can be with a person. And, i'll always step up for someone being mistreated and cannot do it themselves. I love old folks and babies. Kids do say the darnedest things, too. I think a partner should inspire you. Make you feel happy and lucky to have them. Be there for you no matter what. Listen to what you say and care about how you feel. It goes both ways, of course. I know you can't force something to be there if it just isn't and I won't settle. That'd be selling myself short. Nah, I'll pass.Your partner should be someone you are attracted to mentally, physically and emotionally. If you've never had that real connection with someone, I suggest you keep looking until you do. I have a vivid imagination, positive attitude on most things. I can find the irony and make sarcastic remarks all day long. But, I also find the good in everyone and everything. I look very deep. I like it when people are brutally honest. I like leaders. People who like themselves but aren't overzealous.I love it when a man is smart but doesn't talk down to people, funny but not a joke, well written and can express himself but not boring like a text book, curious but confident in what he knows. A man who has pride and stands tall but not the least bit arrogant, well unless we're goofing around, I guess. I like a loyal man, who doesn't let his eye wander when I'm around. Who doesn't have to brag and keeps intimate things well, intimate. I hate arguing but like a good debate. Yelling and controlling people disgust me. There really should never be yelling in your house unless it's on fire or in celebration. I LOVE IT WHEN A MAN CAN GRAB MY ATTENTION AND KEEP IT!Well enough about me. Tell me all about you...***And, just to clarify, yes, I do carry a few extra pounds. I am a curvy, size 10 woman and 5'6". I'd like to get in shape and drop a few pounds but you need to like me for who I am. ALSO, I tend to prefer bigger guys. But, nothing is set in stone. Nothing. So, hit me up! You never, ever know! Breakfast, lunch, even a cup of coffee would gives us time to see if we click without any pressure.
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Zelma
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
A HOPEFUL ROMANTIC WHO HASN'T GIVEN UP ON LOVE AND RESPECT AND I WANT THE CLASSIC DYNAMIC COUPLE OF YESTERYEARS, THE NATURAL MAGNESTISM OF TWO THAT EVERYTHING STOPS IN A CROWDED ROOM AND WE GAZE FROM ACROSS THE ROOM AS IF THE ONLY TWO...TRUE ROMANCE AND IT STILL EXISTS~A little about me..I am all woman from my feminine core to my loving heart and very comfortable embracing that goddessness and yet finely balanced with strong opinions and stubbornness when necessary ;)...Fun,Witty, High Positive Energy, Easy to get along with... I DO NOT desire empty praise from men but rather crave authentic presence on every level from a man in the reality not the fantasy or illusion..... A writer at heart, music lover, spiritual, classy,honest,trustworthy,independent,strong,genuine, compassionate,spontaneous, adventurer, sensual, affectionate,voluptuous, delightful cook (and together with someone, total sensual experience), thirst for knowledge, love of life, conversationalist about anything and everything...Love anything Italian, enjoy outdoor venues, spontaneous trips local and otherwise, a delicious espresso and a good book,old cars and car shows, night out dancing or walking under the stars, movie night nestled with the beautiful man in my life as well as getting lost in an amazing sunset with an amazing breeze and the contentment of perfect company to share it with, an adventurous day on the water or anything new and outdoors~A little about you..First and foremost, you are not intimidated by a very balanced woman and the congruency of your intention/actions is clearly present. When I see you, I melt. When you speak to me in your commanding voice, all my usual arrogance goes out the window. You understand who I am. I understand who you are. You understand my strength, but subtly let me know that you are in charge now and that I no longer need to be in charge. A gentleman of course and you speak your mind and truth while appreciating all individuals path on life regardless. You are cultured, refined and passionate man, spiritual and a Godly man, sensual and love to cook, possess a beautiful mouth and know the power of a kiss, the power of touch and there are no time constraints intimately, ideally of european mindset, the desire and ability to communicate on every level A MUST...You have an amazing sense of humor and make me smile effortlessly, honest, no games and truly wants and is fully ready to find a good woman. Our alignment is timely and it flows beautifully!! You will have your own life as I do and we connect on a very special level when we come together.,have many passions and interests to occupy my time! Intimacy in all forms is sacred to me, a special connection that I don't take lightly and it's natural~I have been divorced 9 years, I have 2 amazing, handsome teenage boys that recently are living with their father locally...I look forward to the day a man that appreciates that will be included during my time with them and they can meet the amazing man that steals my heart~ I want that one and last first date where the magnetism is immediately present, the conversation is open, clear and mutually stimulating where we decide by the end of our time we are deleting our profiles and this is it!! Optimal of course...let's connect and see if this paints our picture ;))