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I miss the smell of a man, his muddy boots by the door. I miss someone to cuddle up with at night and have coffee with at 5am, discussing nothing or everything. I like to talk, I love to listen. I have been married my entire adult life and I do not like being single. I can change my own tire, but would rather call you. Your hands are bigger and stronger for a reason. I wrote the rest of this on a whim one day in 10 minutes. Today is the day after Christmas. The winter can be so hard on a person. Too much time...to think. Some things need no words...Unless it's MAD, PASSIONATE, EXTRAORDINARY LOVE, It is a waste of time. There are too many MEDIOCRE things in life. LOVE SHOULD NOT BE ONE OF THEM.I want to paint the town red with you, make magic between the sheets all day, occasionally and be able to tell you absolutely anything. I'm a late nighter and an early riser, nap taker sometimes. I am a good cook and fairly neat. Quite passionate about everything I do. I don't mince words or waste much time. Not that I don't like to relax, or even shoot the shit. I most certainly do, when I can or I'm exhausted. It only takes a moment to ask someone about their day. Plus, as you may have guessed I like to communicate. Love reading people's body language and comparing it to what they are saying. People interest me. I usually am on the go for days then take a day to recharge. I'd prefer two. Most of my time is spent working and helping those that I love in one way or another. Watching babies, lending an ear or giving a lift. Whatever is needed and somewhat reasonable. I do what I can.I'm a very dedicated and loyal woman. I am not judgmental and do not like people who are. We all have our own opinions, but that's an entirely different matter, I think. I'm far from perfect. I make mistakes all the time. I'm human. I can be quite the handful for the wrong person, no doubt. I don't care what people think for the most part but I'm not a fool out to offend others or be abrasive. But, I will stand up for myself as politely as I can be with a person. And, i'll always step up for someone being mistreated and cannot do it themselves. I love old folks and babies. Kids do say the darnedest things, too. I think a partner should inspire you. Make you feel happy and lucky to have them. Be there for you no matter what. Listen to what you say and care about how you feel. It goes both ways, of course. I know you can't force something to be there if it just isn't and I won't settle. That'd be selling myself short. Nah, I'll pass.Your partner should be someone you are attracted to mentally, physically and emotionally. If you've never had that real connection with someone, I suggest you keep looking until you do. I have a vivid imagination, positive attitude on most things. I can find the irony and make sarcastic remarks all day long. But, I also find the good in everyone and everything. I look very deep. I like it when people are brutally honest. I like leaders. People who like themselves but aren't overzealous.I love it when a man is smart but doesn't talk down to people, funny but not a joke, well written and can express himself but not boring like a text book, curious but confident in what he knows. A man who has pride and stands tall but not the least bit arrogant, well unless we're goofing around, I guess. I like a loyal man, who doesn't let his eye wander when I'm around. Who doesn't have to brag and keeps intimate things well, intimate. I hate arguing but like a good debate. Yelling and controlling people disgust me. There really should never be yelling in your house unless it's on fire or in celebration. I LOVE IT WHEN A MAN CAN GRAB MY ATTENTION AND KEEP IT!Well enough about me. Tell me all about you...***And, just to clarify, yes, I do carry a few extra pounds. I am a curvy, size 10 woman and 5'6". I'd like to get in shape and drop a few pounds but you need to like me for who I am. ALSO, I tend to prefer bigger guys. But, nothing is set in stone. Nothing. So, hit me up! You never, ever know! Breakfast, lunch, even a cup of coffee would gives us time to see if we click without any pressure.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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