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Kris, 44

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About Me

I've been in a relationship for a little over 26 years and am tired of being treated like I don't even matter. I want to meet new people and see what's out there. Try to discover if I'm just being overly sensitive or if being treated like a doormat is normal. I'm a very sexual and confident person (most of the time) but my husband had a tendency to crush my spirit every chance he got. I want to find someone who likes to dance, drink a little socially, has a good sense of humor and is just fun to be around. I've had enough negative crap in my life to last me a lifetime, so now it's time to enjoy my life and see what the next 40 years are gonna hold for me.Update: I am still legally and physically married ( though hopefully not for much longer) so if it's an issue for you, I do understand. However, please do not pursue me in the hopes of a hookup so you can dump me later and use my status as an excuse!!!!!! I've had enough crap in my life and don't want anymore...... Depends on where we are and what we both want to do.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Chrystal

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a single mom of one child. He is everything to me. I am looking for someone that will fit into our life. I want to have someone that likes adventure. I like to go to different places. If doesn't have to be far away; just something new. I work 12 hours shifts that are on the weekend. My weeks are a little different than the norm. I tend to stay up most of the night on my days off. I like all kinds of music, most of the music I listen to is alternative and 80's bands. I am always open to listen to new things. I don't really like rap music. I am a serious/sarcastic person. I have a big heart but there has been a big wall around it for awhile now. I am hoping to meet someone that will know how to break through that. I dont mean counsel, just someone that I can trust with it. I read about men looking for certain women and men not liking what they find. I can't say I have someone specific in mind. If you would like to talk and learn more send a message.UPDATE: I don't need anyone to monitor my wellbeing or what I do. I have had a life before and it will not disappear just because I talk to someone else. I do not do well with anyone that is jealous or controlling. I have taken care of myself for many years and I know how to do it. If you would like to be a part of my life that is great. I can be funny, serious, compromise to a point. If you are more of a laid back person you are probably more compatible with me. If you want someone to control and fix, I am not the person to talk to. I want a partner. For the first date, somewhere open and quiet so we can talk.

  • Alisa

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a single mom of 3 wonderful children which is a full time job in itself and yes i have a full time job also. I am new at this and thought i give it a try. I hope to find someone to share my life with one day. I am a very laid back person no drama please . Dont deal with that crap. You must have a job, your own car,stable person. You must love kids will be a plus. I dont do the bar scene and prefer to find someone one in the same. Hoping to find someone to hang out with at first and see if theres any chemistry. I enjoy meeting new people hope to hear from you soon. Going to eat and talking just getting to know each other

  • Taylor

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'll keep this simple... I'm looking for someone to spend some time with on occasion and if we're lucky it will develop into something special for both of us over time. I'm in no rush, just want to get it right this time.I'm serious about making a effort towards something great... I really do want to knock it out of the ball park the next time. I don't think that is too much to ask and I'm willing to wait for the right person. My current life keeps me busy and I do like my independence. Great things don't happen overnight, so I expect you to be patient and honest as things move forward.I'm looking for someone whose life is settled and has little baggage(kids are completely acceptable). Ideally I think that the right man would bring to the table some of the same things that I have to offer... Good luck on your search! Please provide a pic if one is not on your profile.. no pic, no reply. Me - I'd have a hot tea... you - perhaps a coffee or another beverage... nice casual setting. Good conversation. The realization that conversation in person is nicer now that we've gotten to know one another on the phone/computer - but not looking for a pen pal. Meeting as soon as we know we have a connection is important to move forward. Laughter is a must. Hoping that all goes well - we'd share a warm hug and agree that seeing each other again would be something to look forward to!

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