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Sophia, 43
United States, Texas, Eastland

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Hi...I'm a single/ divorced 41 year old mom of two older great kids! They are the apples of my eye! I enjoy spending time with my kids, me and my daughter go walking, go to the park, love to go shopping, like to go and watch movies, swimming and hot tubs. I love music of all kinds, such as rock, 80's rock, pop, and country. I enjoy live music and listening to a good live band play. I love going to concerts. I would love to find someone that I'm compatible with and have similar interests with for a long term relationship. Life's to short to spend it alone. I'm so very lucky thou to have two wonderful kids that help fill that void of being totally alone... But both of them are getting up there in age that I'm worrying that they will be leaving me someday soon and moving out to be on their own, and I sure don't want to be left alone. I would describe myself as being quiet and shy at first. I'm very caring and considerate of others feelings. I'm very loyal and trustworthy...and I'm so hoping to find that quality in a man! I'm a romantic, I love to hold hands and kiss and I don't even mind public displays of affection as long as it's not in poor taste. I'm very affectionate and I do like to cuddle and kiss. I love the simple things in life and doing special things for that special someone, such as writing a note in his lunch for him to be surprised and read it later at work.I'm into body art, I do love tattoo's and I like some piercings... mostly the piercings that are covered up...not visable such as on your face. I think to each their own. I have 2 myself, I mean tattoo's and I don't think I'll ever get anymore because I'm happy with what I have. I think it's particular sexy on a man thou ;O)~ I'm looking for someone that isn't much older then 45. I'm looking for a partner in life, someone to fall in love with and to be my equal in life. I'm asked all the time if I would ever consider dating a younger man... to that I would say yes, but he would have to be mentally an emotionally mature. Some are and some aren't, but that's been an option that I will always consider. I'm a very layed back, down to earth person. I'm the kind of person that goes with the flow and I try not to let anything bug me to much and get up tight about things. I lead a drama free life to keep the stress level low. I'm a very nice and I feel I'm a unique person because I'm usually to nice of a person and I let people take advantage of that and I know I shouldn't. I just like to make others happy, usually before myself. I would like to find my soulmate... someone that we bring out the best of each other. That we complete each other and compliment each other. I very very rarely will drink and I don't smoke... so the bar scene is not for me. So if you're looking for the same things as I am ... take a chance and write and get to know me... :O)~ Let's see...first date. Then would be nice to go out to eat some where and talk more and to continue to get to know each other. After that maybe go out to the movies. That sounds like a nice first date!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

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    Easy going, no drama loves the outdoors, cooking for two or ten, love entertaining and enjoy family, schooled formally in Europe, love to travel Intl : Bali, Fiji, Thailand, Japan, India hoping to goto Africa next, seeking a gentlemen who is optmistic, healthy in all aspects, mindful, adventourous, kindhearted, intelligent and affectionate, i love picnics on the beach , bonfires, live music, art galleries, and soft, slow, warm kisses that last three days xxxAppreciate the simple pleasures in life; enjoy adventure travel, scuba diving, sailing, skiing, golf, cooking, movies and the arts, live music, fine dining.Nature is my medicine. Anything outdoors is calming and nurturing. A first rite of passage was living on a sailboat one summer in the islands, survivng mostly on the freshfish, lobster or conch we could catch each day. Second rite of passage; living with a Burmese hilltribe on the northern thailand border, another more recent was camping in a pup-tent with a Rajastani desert tribe in central India. I love to study and take photographs of indigenous cultures and share their story. I am a water baby at heart, have a love for the ocean and mother nature.I Respect a man who is mindful, healthy, passionate and devoted, with a working moral compass and sense of personal integrity. Must be a positive person with a passion for life, see the glass as half full not half empty. Someone who is affectionate, mentally and emotionally stable, (non drug user please). Ideally he would be athletic, striving to learn and grow in life, a spiritually centered individual who is intellectually curious and appreciates that in others.I love to learn with an open mind and try to maintain a hopeful heart in my daily life. Im spiritual and prayerful. I prefer a man who is kind, compassionate, strong, healthy, funny, and a non-smoker. Im easy like a sunday morning; love playdates for two, enjoy the water, nature, cooking for two or ten, wine by the bonfire, intellectual conversation, live music, hottub for two and long, slow, warm, soft kisses I treasure most: family, and true friends and long term life relationships. Enjoy growing tomatoes and tending to my little herb garden and cooking from the daily findsEnjoy the fishing!! Something casual, then lets see if it leads somewhere......perhaps a tiki bar atmosphere with music or a wine tasting or art gallery or beer and a burger at a sports pub is fun too, it dosnt really matter where its the company that counts

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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