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Enid, 53

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About Me

I subscribe to a "Think deeply, speak gently, love much, laugh a lot, word hard, give freely and be kind" way of living, where integrity, honesty, trust, laughter and kindness frame my picture of love, life, levity, and everything that is boldly colored in between. I believe that "coloring outside the lines" promotes greater self-discovery and risk, both of which are extremely important and yes, attractive, sexy and desirable, to me as a writer, educator and most importantly, a parent. When we restrict ourselves to a neatly designed and prescribed, flawless template of how we're supposed to look and behave, we inevitably are not being our authentic selves. For me, to embark on a relationship not being who we are is inevitably destined to fail because in the end, it's based on pretense and falsehood***not the ideal foundation for a loving, lasting relationship.My mission as a special educator is to individualize *** broken and bitter high school kids who have been through serious and often, life threatening traumas in their lives, where school took a back burner to just making it through the day. Our mission as loving and caring educators is to restore their faith in "man/womankind," and convince them how much they matter~~ despite their belief to the contrary~~ to themselves, and the people in their lives who love them.When I'm not trying to make the lives of these kids better, I love to hike, power walk, play with my dogs for hours, blog, read, and sip ridiculously good coffee with ridiculously awesome people. I find intellect extremely attractive .I also believe that you can tell whether a relationship is going to work with one kiss. So much can be said in that one kiss..... I have no set script for a first date other than it happens after some thoughtful, meaningful, and yes, flirtatious conversations, via phone, text, etc., that creates a very welcome flurry of butterflies in my stomach that lets me know that we won't be checking our watches every four minutes once we take the plunge and meet. Outdoor cafes; out-of-the-way coffee shops that at least 'offers' Fair Trade coffee with their other selections; independent book stores; beautiful parks conducive for walking and talking; and if all of that feels right, an "evening" date at a candle-lit pub or wine bar that offers tasty crudites and atmosphere.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    It all starts with Friendship.Looking for someone to enjoy life with such as: dancing, boating, going to movies, dinner. Somebody active that likes to do things in life. Someone to do fun things with.When the right person comes along we will both know it. Meet for coffee see if there is any attraction. If there is a connection a second date could be possible. Whatever is meant to be will be.

  • Suzette

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    German born and raised woman looking for an honest, commited, fun loving man. Someone to spend quality time with that doesn't think life only consists of working, eating and sleeping. Lol.....just sayin Meet for a drink and talk

  • Marcie

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am a young at heart person who enjoys the outdoors, romantic walks, and cozy evening on the sofa, or get togethers with friends. I believe that honesty is very important in all aspects of life, I am a very independent person who is not afraid of hard work, I am the mother of 2 grown children,and 6 grandkids who are the best part of my life,I think that Family and friends are very important ,I am a Women who like to be a lady,but not afraid to be a girl also, I am comforable with myself,There are many different aspects to myself, from being a girly girl to being kool with helping to fixing a car, not that I know what I am doing,I am comfortable in a dress or a pair of jeans, I would like to meet someone to share time with, get to know and see where it goes from there. I am looking for someone who can be caring and warn but who knows how to have fun also, no drugs , no game players please. I would like to meet someone who is secure with himself ,and can accept someone who is happy and secure with herself . I am a very young 51 year old who still likes to act young at heart and likes to kid around some too, But who knows when to act my age, My ideal first date would be meeting somewhere in public, sitting having a good converstion, a few laughs, getting to know one another,

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