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I subscribe to a "Think deeply, speak gently, love much, laugh a lot, word hard, give freely and be kind" way of living, where integrity, honesty, trust, laughter and kindness frame my picture of love, life, levity, and everything that is boldly colored in between. I believe that "coloring outside the lines" promotes greater self-discovery and risk, both of which are extremely important and yes, attractive, sexy and desirable, to me as a writer, educator and most importantly, a parent. When we restrict ourselves to a neatly designed and prescribed, flawless template of how we're supposed to look and behave, we inevitably are not being our authentic selves. For me, to embark on a relationship not being who we are is inevitably destined to fail because in the end, it's based on pretense and falsehood***not the ideal foundation for a loving, lasting relationship.My mission as a special educator is to individualize *** broken and bitter high school kids who have been through serious and often, life threatening traumas in their lives, where school took a back burner to just making it through the day. Our mission as loving and caring educators is to restore their faith in "man/womankind," and convince them how much they matter~~ despite their belief to the contrary~~ to themselves, and the people in their lives who love them.When I'm not trying to make the lives of these kids better, I love to hike, power walk, play with my dogs for hours, blog, read, and sip ridiculously good coffee with ridiculously awesome people. I find intellect extremely attractive .I also believe that you can tell whether a relationship is going to work with one kiss. So much can be said in that one kiss..... I have no set script for a first date other than it happens after some thoughtful, meaningful, and yes, flirtatious conversations, via phone, text, etc., that creates a very welcome flurry of butterflies in my stomach that lets me know that we won't be checking our watches every four minutes once we take the plunge and meet. Outdoor cafes; out-of-the-way coffee shops that at least 'offers' Fair Trade coffee with their other selections; independent book stores; beautiful parks conducive for walking and talking; and if all of that feels right, an "evening" date at a candle-lit pub or wine bar that offers tasty crudites and atmosphere.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indonesian Italian Mexican Thai Documentary Music Thriller Spirituality
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  • Sequoia from Crowley | Woman | 33 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 24-36

    Hi! My name is Sequoia. I am never married spiritual but not religious african woman with kids from Crowley, Texas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Tara from Crowley | Woman | 55 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    A nice girl looking for a nice guy. I enjoy getting out and doing things with others. I enjoy skiing, Hiking, Snow mobile riding, Dancing, Quilting and crafts. Spontaneous adventures. etc etc.. What I am looking for is an independent male that has made peace with his past and is ready to begin his future. Are you ready to write a new story book about us? Looking forward to my next dating adventure... Could it be with you?Dating/ friendship and then see where it goes from there. Let me tell you a little about myself. I'm a kind, caring, honest, & open person with a big heart. I'm an outgoing person but a little shy at first. I like so many things & I'm open to new things. I like all kinds of music, I like everything to do with the outdoors. Although I can't say I have gone camping a lot but I would love to. I'm not big on going to the bars or clubs but I do like to shoot darts & try to play pool lol. I'm not that good of a pool player but I'm still learning & trying. I'm willing to try new things and like to learn. I like doing work around the house & not just stuff like gardening or hanging curtains. I know how to do a lot of different things. I like to have fun & enjoy the person I am with. I can be sarcastic at times but in a joking manner, not a mean or cruel way. I don't lie nor do I like liars. I'm a very straight forward person & I can be very blunt at times. Trust is VERY important in any relationship & once you lie & break that trust it is very hard to get back, if you can ever get it back. WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR IN A MAN••••• I'm looking for a man who wants to meet that special lady to spend his life with. I'm not interested in any players! Been there done that. I'm looking for a man who is kind, caring, open, someone who is honest & genuine as am I, Someone who has goals & dreams, Someone who can be partner but my best friend to. I really believe the best relationship you can have is with someone who is not only your partner but you friend, your best friend. Someone who you are comfortable with in every way possible, someone you can talk to about everything & anything, someone you can share your hopes, your dreams, your deepest secrets, someone you can share everything with. To me there are four things that everyone needs in a relationship for it to be a healthy, happy & lasting relationship & those four things are- love, trust, honesty & communication. If your missing one of those four things it is very hard to keep your relationship together & for it to last. Without love what's the reason to be or stay in the relationship. If you can't communicate with your partner there already is a problem & your only gonna have more & if you don't have honesty in your relationship there is no way you will have trust. This is just the way I feel but if you think about it, it makes a lot of sense. Thank you for taking the time to read this. If you have any questions please feel free to ask.Also:I am not your ExIf you want your Ex, go get her back. Walk, Ice skate, hike. Something we can both enjoy while getting more about each other.

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  • Elizabeth from Crowley | Woman | 55 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I think I've let work have to much of my time, so I'm ready to put more of my time into the things that I have been missing in my life...Sharing my time with another person as a couple is something I have missed. I do spend time with family and friends, and that's something I do enjoy doing.I have many interests..and things I haven't tried yet..Music of all kinds...if it moves me...Dancing in the kitchen slow...Cooking and having a glass of wine and enjoying the company of you.....I do play well with others and don't mind getting in the dirt...I love watching the Rangers, Football and other sports...either live or otherwise. I'm not looking for someone to take care of me...I can do that...But I would like to share with someone...I am not a serial dater.....I would rather not date than date a bunch who mean nothing to me. Would like to start the normal way and let it go where it goes. Don't be shy.........say Hi *I have had some great moments in my life and am looking for more of those to share*Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. To talk about after we see if we want one:)

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