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Enid, 53
United States, Texas, Crowley

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About Me

I subscribe to a "Think deeply, speak gently, love much, laugh a lot, word hard, give freely and be kind" way of living, where integrity, honesty, trust, laughter and kindness frame my picture of love, life, levity, and everything that is boldly colored in between. I believe that "coloring outside the lines" promotes greater self-discovery and risk, both of which are extremely important and yes, attractive, sexy and desirable, to me as a writer, educator and most importantly, a parent. When we restrict ourselves to a neatly designed and prescribed, flawless template of how we're supposed to look and behave, we inevitably are not being our authentic selves. For me, to embark on a relationship not being who we are is inevitably destined to fail because in the end, it's based on pretense and falsehood***not the ideal foundation for a loving, lasting relationship.My mission as a special educator is to individualize *** broken and bitter high school kids who have been through serious and often, life threatening traumas in their lives, where school took a back burner to just making it through the day. Our mission as loving and caring educators is to restore their faith in "man/womankind," and convince them how much they matter~~ despite their belief to the contrary~~ to themselves, and the people in their lives who love them.When I'm not trying to make the lives of these kids better, I love to hike, power walk, play with my dogs for hours, blog, read, and sip ridiculously good coffee with ridiculously awesome people. I find intellect extremely attractive .I also believe that you can tell whether a relationship is going to work with one kiss. So much can be said in that one kiss..... I have no set script for a first date other than it happens after some thoughtful, meaningful, and yes, flirtatious conversations, via phone, text, etc., that creates a very welcome flurry of butterflies in my stomach that lets me know that we won't be checking our watches every four minutes once we take the plunge and meet. Outdoor cafes; out-of-the-way coffee shops that at least 'offers' Fair Trade coffee with their other selections; independent book stores; beautiful parks conducive for walking and talking; and if all of that feels right, an "evening" date at a candle-lit pub or wine bar that offers tasty crudites and atmosphere.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indonesian Italian Mexican Thai Documentary Music Thriller Spirituality
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  • Bernadine from Crowley | Woman | 51 years old | Cancer
    Bernadine

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I am a person with much positive energy! Do you have a great recipe for lemonade when life gives you lemons? There has got to be something better than the past has proven! Not that my life is perfect.... actually far from it, but looking for that 2nd chance have someone "in my corner" to enjoy the smalls things in Life as well as the really bigs things! Love to really be in someone's Life! for all the right reasons. even texting is fun way to stay in touch throughout the day.... positive connections.I am a very active person I like to do many things, even try new things. I do enjoy times alone as well, I am able to go and do as well as just enjoy time alone to recharge my batteries. I enjoy the outdoors, culture and music, quiet times and crazy family times and extended family activites,and travel - whether across town or across the world.... so if that's you then keep moving.I am know to most for my positive, out-spoken and fun-loving attitude about life, I am not a woman for the weak constitution but I am a great partner. If you are Tall with a great pair of arms and a smile to die for! someone who is happy with himself..... and everyone can feel it when he is around! ....Doesn't know a stranger.... and can make anything enjoyable..... even the routine stuff in Life then I would love to get to know you!I have a small "fixer-upper" cabin/house somewhat close to a Lake, enjoy time there with family and friends. Always a time to refresh and recharge when there. Hope to retire there and update this structure into a nice home. So if you have a boat then we may have something to build on. LOLLove to Read, Love fiction, with a history plot. Not much into TV, occassionally watch light hearted shows, and news.Music: Live is always fun no matter what genre, enjoy listening to the oldies, new, even new rap, rock, 70's and 80's, jazz, blues, country, polka.Love older movies; Love old musicals and new musicals too! Most comfortable doing something so there is something to talk about and get to see how each other interacts with the world around. Car show, bike show, gun show, camper show, horse show... antiques show, town festival, wine tasting....

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  • Ashley from Crowley | Woman | 51 years old | Aquarius
    Ashley

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Looking for someone to enjoy life with. Someone to share conversation and adventure. Life is too short to go it alone. Would love to find my best friend. Empty nester. Kids are off to college. Love Aggie football and most outdoor activities. I am financially stable, and drama free. Not looking for someone to support me. Just looking for someone special to grow with. It disappoints me, that we pass up so many good people on here. But we all do it, including myself. This shouldn't be this hard. So if you would like to take a chance, and see if I'm the one, please reach out.

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  • Elizabeth from Crowley | Woman | 55 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I think I've let work have to much of my time, so I'm ready to put more of my time into the things that I have been missing in my life...Sharing my time with another person as a couple is something I have missed. I do spend time with family and friends, and that's something I do enjoy doing.I have many interests..and things I haven't tried yet..Music of all kinds...if it moves me...Dancing in the kitchen slow...Cooking and having a glass of wine and enjoying the company of you.....I do play well with others and don't mind getting in the dirt...I love watching the Rangers, Football and other sports...either live or otherwise. I'm not looking for someone to take care of me...I can do that...But I would like to share with someone...I am not a serial dater.....I would rather not date than date a bunch who mean nothing to me. Would like to start the normal way and let it go where it goes. Don't be shy.........say Hi *I have had some great moments in my life and am looking for more of those to share*Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. To talk about after we see if we want one:)

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