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Enid, 53

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About Me

I subscribe to a "Think deeply, speak gently, love much, laugh a lot, word hard, give freely and be kind" way of living, where integrity, honesty, trust, laughter and kindness frame my picture of love, life, levity, and everything that is boldly colored in between. I believe that "coloring outside the lines" promotes greater self-discovery and risk, both of which are extremely important and yes, attractive, sexy and desirable, to me as a writer, educator and most importantly, a parent. When we restrict ourselves to a neatly designed and prescribed, flawless template of how we're supposed to look and behave, we inevitably are not being our authentic selves. For me, to embark on a relationship not being who we are is inevitably destined to fail because in the end, it's based on pretense and falsehood***not the ideal foundation for a loving, lasting relationship.My mission as a special educator is to individualize *** broken and bitter high school kids who have been through serious and often, life threatening traumas in their lives, where school took a back burner to just making it through the day. Our mission as loving and caring educators is to restore their faith in "man/womankind," and convince them how much they matter~~ despite their belief to the contrary~~ to themselves, and the people in their lives who love them.When I'm not trying to make the lives of these kids better, I love to hike, power walk, play with my dogs for hours, blog, read, and sip ridiculously good coffee with ridiculously awesome people. I find intellect extremely attractive .I also believe that you can tell whether a relationship is going to work with one kiss. So much can be said in that one kiss..... I have no set script for a first date other than it happens after some thoughtful, meaningful, and yes, flirtatious conversations, via phone, text, etc., that creates a very welcome flurry of butterflies in my stomach that lets me know that we won't be checking our watches every four minutes once we take the plunge and meet. Outdoor cafes; out-of-the-way coffee shops that at least 'offers' Fair Trade coffee with their other selections; independent book stores; beautiful parks conducive for walking and talking; and if all of that feels right, an "evening" date at a candle-lit pub or wine bar that offers tasty crudites and atmosphere.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sheree

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I'm a caring and compassionate person. Always willing to help others.I am very proud of my two children. They are my pride and joy. They have grown up to be great young adults. Sometimes a good joke cracks me up to the point I just have to laugh at myself.Looking to meet a genuine,kind hearted caring man with a sense of humor.First meet ,see how it goes then hopefully it will turn into a long-termrelationship. Meet for coffee of course. LOLMaybe a drink or dinner afterwards?

  • Emilia

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Southern lady. Looking for someone to spend quality time with and see what develops. Not looking for any one night stands or players. Must be over your ex and ready to have fun getting to know each other. Do not smoke or into drugs. Love anything fun with the right person. Walks or talks. lots more..Had a few questions from several of you regarding if all I am looking for is to date. First you have to date and see if you have any common interests or not to take it further. If I meet the man of my dreams and know we could live the rest of our lives being happy then I would by all means love to be married and live happily ever after. I am only looking for one good man.If you have any questions feel free to contact me and lets talk. we would meet in a public place maybe for lunch or dinner or a drink. Whatever we decide will be fun I am sure.

  • Betty

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Some of the principles I live by: Don\'t worry be happy Be true to thine own self, Put yourself in their shoes, Do not do unto others what you would not want them do unto you. I choose people of word, reasonable, loyal to selves first of all.

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