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Bernadine, 51

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About Me

I am a person with much positive energy! Do you have a great recipe for lemonade when life gives you lemons? There has got to be something better than the past has proven! Not that my life is perfect.... actually far from it, but looking for that 2nd chance have someone "in my corner" to enjoy the smalls things in Life as well as the really bigs things! Love to really be in someone's Life! for all the right reasons. even texting is fun way to stay in touch throughout the day.... positive connections.I am a very active person I like to do many things, even try new things. I do enjoy times alone as well, I am able to go and do as well as just enjoy time alone to recharge my batteries. I enjoy the outdoors, culture and music, quiet times and crazy family times and extended family activites,and travel - whether across town or across the world.... so if that's you then keep moving.I am know to most for my positive, out-spoken and fun-loving attitude about life, I am not a woman for the weak constitution but I am a great partner. If you are Tall with a great pair of arms and a smile to die for! someone who is happy with himself..... and everyone can feel it when he is around! ....Doesn't know a stranger.... and can make anything enjoyable..... even the routine stuff in Life then I would love to get to know you!I have a small "fixer-upper" cabin/house somewhat close to a Lake, enjoy time there with family and friends. Always a time to refresh and recharge when there. Hope to retire there and update this structure into a nice home. So if you have a boat then we may have something to build on. LOLLove to Read, Love fiction, with a history plot. Not much into TV, occassionally watch light hearted shows, and news.Music: Live is always fun no matter what genre, enjoy listening to the oldies, new, even new rap, rock, 70's and 80's, jazz, blues, country, polka.Love older movies; Love old musicals and new musicals too! Most comfortable doing something so there is something to talk about and get to see how each other interacts with the world around. Car show, bike show, gun show, camper show, horse show... antiques show, town festival, wine tasting....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

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    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

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  • Marie

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    A little about me...Friends first, possibly more. I am curious, creative and resilient. I have many interests including gourmet cooking (and not so gourmet cooking, as a good southern style meal is still good eating), fine dining, wine tastings, technology geek (I built my own home theater including the PC that runs it) and I find pleasure in doing and thinking about all sorts of things.I am forever the optimistic, in fact if I am not being optimistic; you can surely bet that something is wrong and I need some consoling. I want first-hand experiences. I don't treat my personal life much different than my professional life, I like to be organized, thorough, responsible, ethical and respectful and above all I must enjoy it.I work in Information Technology and have worked at most of the major Healthcare corporations in Lake county. I have deep roots in my community and my career is important to me.About the one I'm looking for...If you are in line with my profile 100%, then we can have a beautiful life together with our combined friends and family. Maybe I could even borrow and plant kisses on any grandbabies you might have while I wait for those of my own, which I hope you will be as excited about too!Please note that the man I'm looking for should have non vanilla dominant characteristics. My business life has me being very dominant; I need that not to be the case in my personal life, ying and yang ;***I'd just like to add...I really am interested in folks within my same ethnic background, please I don't do interracial, nothing personal, just my preference. In addition I wish someone at my same profession level too.My Top Interests:Food, Wine & EntertainmentJust LOVE to cook. I am going to say that this includes entertaining and the enjoyment of good wine. To me this is the entire package. I love to make my friends, family and love happy and this is one of my favorite ways to get there :)Family and FriendsFamily and Friends are the most important element of my life. I am extremely social and Love to Live. If you do not 100% feel the same, and would not join me in this interest, we would not be a good connection.ArtsI love art. Once upon a time this was going to be the field I was going to pursue. That changed for financial reasons back when I was very young. This is a talent that runs rampant in my family, and impacts all facets of my life. Ideally I would have an art studio when I retire so I can finally realize this long gone dream of mine where I create art. LOVE LOVE LOVE Please if you are in a committed relationship or married I respectfully ask you not even bother. Thanks for understanding :) I think a fabulous first date might start with attending a fine food cooking class followed by wine at a piano bar, not too loud because we want to get to know each other :)Please note, I don't consider the first meeting and first date to be the same thing. First meeting, well that's coffee or lunch or breakfast or a****ail (LOL okay apparently this site has a bad word filter, that is another word for adult beverage LOL) and its Dutch. First meeting is to see if there are sparks. Then you decide if there's a first date

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