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Bernadine, 51

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About Me

I am a person with much positive energy! Do you have a great recipe for lemonade when life gives you lemons? There has got to be something better than the past has proven! Not that my life is perfect.... actually far from it, but looking for that 2nd chance have someone "in my corner" to enjoy the smalls things in Life as well as the really bigs things! Love to really be in someone's Life! for all the right reasons. even texting is fun way to stay in touch throughout the day.... positive connections.I am a very active person I like to do many things, even try new things. I do enjoy times alone as well, I am able to go and do as well as just enjoy time alone to recharge my batteries. I enjoy the outdoors, culture and music, quiet times and crazy family times and extended family activites,and travel - whether across town or across the world.... so if that's you then keep moving.I am know to most for my positive, out-spoken and fun-loving attitude about life, I am not a woman for the weak constitution but I am a great partner. If you are Tall with a great pair of arms and a smile to die for! someone who is happy with himself..... and everyone can feel it when he is around! ....Doesn't know a stranger.... and can make anything enjoyable..... even the routine stuff in Life then I would love to get to know you!I have a small "fixer-upper" cabin/house somewhat close to a Lake, enjoy time there with family and friends. Always a time to refresh and recharge when there. Hope to retire there and update this structure into a nice home. So if you have a boat then we may have something to build on. LOLLove to Read, Love fiction, with a history plot. Not much into TV, occassionally watch light hearted shows, and news.Music: Live is always fun no matter what genre, enjoy listening to the oldies, new, even new rap, rock, 70's and 80's, jazz, blues, country, polka.Love older movies; Love old musicals and new musicals too! Most comfortable doing something so there is something to talk about and get to see how each other interacts with the world around. Car show, bike show, gun show, camper show, horse show... antiques show, town festival, wine tasting....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Estelle

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Why is it so hard to write about yourself......I've been divorced for 3 years, I'm ready to settle into a meaningful relationship, so once again I'm giving this site another chance, hoping this time will be the last time. I have 4 beautiful children, who are my world, family is very important to me, 3 of my 4 are on there own making there way in life, my youngest will be a senior this fall. I'm still young at heart and love to be on the go, I'm hoping to find the same, I'd like to share some new memories with someone special.......... Lets decide together!

  • Ava

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Its Fall a great time to be outside lets enjoy what great weather we have left before the snow flys.Not so much into baggage ,unless its the kind waiting in the car so we can get away for the weekend.NO players, been there, wont do that again. Coffee shops ,Reading the paper in bed on sunday morning , sitting on the deck with a glass of wine (white) great Novel Spending time with my awesome family , these are the things that are important to me . .u might say i like the time we spend togethet to be quality .dont have to be together every nite .i like my me time ..if that sounds like u *** a ton of love to give to the right man .but he must give back. No one sided relationship going on here....really am wondering if HE is out there.....ive found on meetville men want to talk text and send a few pics some not practical and never get to the meeting part. No one wants to commit .just play the game .im not into ..games.... Looking for the someone that's knows how to treat a woman like a woman, Im old fashioned, u open the door at least at the restaurant , I can get my car door..I like men that take care of their bodies at least no more than 10 lbs over weight, I like eating healthy , but once in a while I will eat a burger if its a great one. Not looking for a couch potato , its summer lets get out there and see the sights that's KC has to offer...i promise u wont be disapointed...

  • Chandra

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I like to road cycle, the pedal kind, and hike, dancing to 80s music and finding places with live bands. I enjoy relaxing on a patio, cooking together,( tho I love being cooked for), finding byob places, small towns, music festivals and nightime adventures. I enjoy outside activities and nature. Like help with home projects, day trips and overnight stays. Fireplaces and football on sundays, love hockey. I do go to the gym....but no longer a rat.I really can blend into lots of activities. I am not really obsessive about any one passion. I will get into something for awhile and then change things up.I guess you may say I don't do things that women my age are supposed to do. I have a young out look on life and would love a person who can challenge me to be my best but also someone who can lean into my world and relax. Or mine into yours. I am pretty laid back. I do have standards as we all should but I am more into hanging out with real and interesting people, than trying to impress someone. I am nice person...a bit ditzy ( not stupid tho...) and forgetful but very loyal to those who are in my world. I have a 23 year old son who just got back from his service in the Army and he is my roommate now. We co exist in a very cool way. No parent child issues. He is an amazing young man and we always got along fine before he left. Now its better because he returned a mature man with all the wild seeds worked out care of US Army. He has strong morals and is a very loyal person. I know some women have told me that men don't like women who have sons at home. Sorry if that is a deal breaker but I cant see how it would be in my case. You would probably like him more than me...LOL...Still holding onto the goal that there will be a man that will prefer me above all others. I like that comfort zone. I can usually catch on pretty quick on intents...nothing is bad per se...but may not be what I am wanting now. Can you make me laugh? Comfortable in your own skin? Want a trophy? ( delete and move on...not me!!). Just be honest about who you are and what you are looking for. Just got a black lab mix this past week...awesome dog I got from the pound. Thought I would end up getting some kind of lap dog ...and I guess I did. He just doesn't realize that he is too big for my lap. Just because I would like to have a one on one relationship doesn't mean I will fall into it on one date. Not a serial dater either. I just don't date as a full time job. Not much happens overnight. The first connection can be pretty strong sometimes, but one of us will go running from that if its too intense....yes...it does happen. I am thinking that going slow at first and getting to know each other as friends would be a good thing. I don't know....Surprise me!!! I think the old fashioned idea of calling a few days ahead and not asking what I would like to do, but having something all planned out is nice. As we were discussing the other day though, the practice of a man actually calling and having an event planned and ASKING a woman to come out, has been replaced with a text saying..." what are you up to ?" NOTE!! One last thing. Please do not *** question my religious habits, churches, beliefs or whatever you want to call it, to see if I belong to the same club as you do. . I mean it can be an important thing to you but not in the first contact *** really bad form and about as impolite as asking how much money you make And ..asking if I am a Christian?? I can believe in a higher power...but if I call it something other than what you call it.....there is no way to respond that is going to have a positive reaction. I am very spiritual. Save it for a later discussion. I can understand why to some that is important. I wish the best. Just I feel my beliefs are personal. And scammers ...please note that I will report you and I know what a fake profile is....

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