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Bernadine, 51

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About Me

I am a person with much positive energy! Do you have a great recipe for lemonade when life gives you lemons? There has got to be something better than the past has proven! Not that my life is perfect.... actually far from it, but looking for that 2nd chance have someone "in my corner" to enjoy the smalls things in Life as well as the really bigs things! Love to really be in someone's Life! for all the right reasons. even texting is fun way to stay in touch throughout the day.... positive connections.I am a very active person I like to do many things, even try new things. I do enjoy times alone as well, I am able to go and do as well as just enjoy time alone to recharge my batteries. I enjoy the outdoors, culture and music, quiet times and crazy family times and extended family activites,and travel - whether across town or across the world.... so if that's you then keep moving.I am know to most for my positive, out-spoken and fun-loving attitude about life, I am not a woman for the weak constitution but I am a great partner. If you are Tall with a great pair of arms and a smile to die for! someone who is happy with himself..... and everyone can feel it when he is around! ....Doesn't know a stranger.... and can make anything enjoyable..... even the routine stuff in Life then I would love to get to know you!I have a small "fixer-upper" cabin/house somewhat close to a Lake, enjoy time there with family and friends. Always a time to refresh and recharge when there. Hope to retire there and update this structure into a nice home. So if you have a boat then we may have something to build on. LOLLove to Read, Love fiction, with a history plot. Not much into TV, occassionally watch light hearted shows, and news.Music: Live is always fun no matter what genre, enjoy listening to the oldies, new, even new rap, rock, 70's and 80's, jazz, blues, country, polka.Love older movies; Love old musicals and new musicals too! Most comfortable doing something so there is something to talk about and get to see how each other interacts with the world around. Car show, bike show, gun show, camper show, horse show... antiques show, town festival, wine tasting....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gabriela

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'm petite and thin with long dark hair and told a great smile.Honest, loyal, caring ( almost too much), compassionate, listener, affectionate and loving. I do not toy with people as I take my interactions with others very serious. I am sensitive to others.I'm also a fan of music. Lyrics are poems set to a sound that can be made into beautiful music. I am not a fan of liars or say one thing and act and say another. To coin a phrase, "actions speak louder than words". Someone who actually knows what he wants and knows how to keep his word and go for it. In other words, not into meeting players. ( a real man, but can be a kid too at times) Someone who is a real romantic. (chivalry is very important to me and being a true gentleman) A great heart and soul is the key. Beautiful on the inside, as well as the handsome on the outside. If you are spritual, it is a plus. A sense of humor a must. ( Laughing until one's abs hurt) I can and want to laugh with someone. ( I have been known to be able to laugh at myself too) I have learned from the past. I trust my *** however, they are not 100%..."Just another lesson learned"I have the most amazing sons. My eldest is a Lawyer, and youngest is in his senior year of school. (When I grow up, LOL...I want to be like them!!!!)If you do not have recent photo's please don't contact me. If you are a nutcase, Stay away. but most don't really know they are crazy. "Sad but true" ...to coin Metallica.( I admit it is sometimes laughable) That said....I want a real relationship. So, if you are emotionally available, affectionate, loyal, honest, caring, loving, bright,with morals, and respect....I am the gal for you. I look forward to hearing from you. The connection and chemistry....Basically you just know. The venue is not as important. We are. :)

  • Winifred

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    First and foremost, I love to laugh. I have a sense of humor and very much enjoy people who do as well, or at least know how to laugh at themselves and life in general, otherwise it would all be overwhelming at times. I can take care of myself, but would enjoy sharing lots of my life with someone who got me. I am easy going and fun loving and enjoy meeting people, I work hard, and love my job, but I enjoy playing even more. While I love to be outdoors, especially near or in water, I am not a health/exercise nut, maybe someday, but not today. I love watching movies, reading a good book, which is often my escape from reality, going out, dancing, and getting together with friends old and new, playing games and just enjoying the company of others.I'd love to meet a guy that is secure in who he is, "know thyself" and not looking for a mother, but ***, a friend, a lover, a partner, to not just spend time with but who enhances the time spent together; a person that knows what they want, has goals, not a project himself, nor do I want be someone else's project to be changed, I'd rather grow together. A first date in my opinion, needs to have enough space to be able to actually talk and get to know each other, while at the same time doing something that can enhance conversation without hindering it. Maybe going for a picnic at a great place, or an evening that included a meal or a quaint pub where you could still talk without the music being overpowering.

  • Velma

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I am in search of a confident gentleman (without arrogance) who believes there are many happy memories yet to be made. The fine print:We've all suffered a broken heart but if you've not moved past the bitterness - I'm not who you're looking for. Likewise if you feel the need to be dishonest about your age, photos, or anything in general - you're not who I'm looking for. I'm interested in someone who I click well with as a friend and is relationship material should it progress to that point. My faith is important to me so if you break out in a sweat at the mention of church, we'd not fit.I do not have patience for those with 'hot and cold' tendencies - just do not understand them, seems by now we should all be a bit more aware of who we are and what we want *** playing head games. I am living the best years of my life, now - today. My head is more together than when I was younger and I've found the things I once believed to be of such importance, in reality are of no significance. .With that being said :-) I'm a happy person and truly love life. I'm a movie buff but spend a lot of time outside. I enjoy yard work and gardening and DIY projects. Not the best at it but enjoy it. I love to cook and been told I'm pretty good ***haven't sent anyone to the ER yet lol). I'm as comfortable in a dress and heels as I am in blue jeans and can have fun at a formal event or backyard BBQ with family and friends. It's really the people and personalities that make a good time. I love enjoying down time too just doing nothing but being lazy, so much more fun when you've got someone to be lazy with. :-)If you recognize yourself in what I've wrote, you might be the the one I've been waiting to hear from. How wonderful that would be. There's just something about two rocking chairs that look better on a front porch than one... Anything that does not involve calling 911

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