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Jolene, 55

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About Me

I am an energetic, active, sarcastic, loving-life girl. Summer is my favorite season, around water makes me happy. The only good thing about winter in KS is sitting with someone special in front of a roaring fire. I seldom have the TV on, but make exceptions for collegiate basketball and football and professional football. I am open to new activities, pushing the limit-except of course, jumping out of a completely operational airplane, or tied to a bungee cord and jumping off solid ground.I have a love/hate relationship with running. Often I dread getting started, but the sense of accomplishment when I am finished out-weighs the dread. At one time would only consider the treadmill when it was too cold/hot to run outside, but I admit, I have become a "treadmill whore" of late, pounding the darn thing ***times a week. A couch potato, I am not. The grass does not grow under my feet.I am very active would rather be at the park, at a festival, or just walking around the neighborhood after work, rather than sitting around getting old. They are my strength. My youngest one is following her calling to serve others. My oldest one, her mother's keeper: guiding me, scolding me, praising me, loving me. These girls make me proud.I have re-discovered myself since turning 50, and I LIKE it. This stage of our lives has so much to offer and the time and resources to do them.This is proving to be the best time of my life; the glass ALWAYS half-full, not half-empty. Age is about spirit and soul, not a number. If you are looking for a fixer upper, that's not me. I don't need fixed.If you like your women a little crazy, not me. If your heart is not free and open to share, I am not the one for you.I am in a good place, happy; just wanting to share it with someone. I am looking for a life-long partner. Someone to share life with: our joys , our sorrows, our accomplishments, our failures; to laugh with, to cry with, to work together and play together.;If I asked why me about my troubles, I would have to ask why me about my blessings".I am a blessed woman.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Justine

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Well, so here I go, first time trying on-line dating. This takes some courage I see. But I'm currently missing out on some of my favorite things: cooking dinner for someone I adore, cuddling on the couch with candles lit watching a movie, planning a trip with someone special, buying that perfect gift just as a nice surprise . . . maybe that's where you come in. About me, I have never had children, and am the "cool aunt" who hangs out plenty with her nieces and nephews. I have a wonderful family and great group of friends, both of which are very important to me. I also have a five-pound yorkie, Louie, who ranks right up there with family. Well, except when he misses the potty pad... ;-) I have an excellent, interesting job. I am kind, caring, warm and affectionate, love to laugh, an optimist, outgoing and social, easy to get along with and not a game player. I am enthusiastic about most everything. I am as dependable as a DeWalt drill or set of Craftsman tools (ha, my brother helped me out with that line.) I am a romantic, and love watching sunsets, cooking dinner together, sitting in front of the fireplace with a nice bottle of wine open, hand holding, receiving unexpected flowers, oh, and really really love when a man surprises me in my driveway with a shovel or huge snow blower after a big snow fall.... ;-) I'm as comfortable in tight jeans, as yoga pants, as formal attire, and enjoy wearing each. I love trying new things, and I don't always color inside the lines...And you? I'm looking for a man who is honest, genuine and trustworthy. I like a man who is confident, fun, honest, attractive, active, and outgoing. I like a man who has a passionate interest in life, knows himself, can express his feelings, and has a strong work ethic. A romantic is really a plus. Ultimately, I would love to meet someone who enjoys similar activities, is happy, and in the same good place in life. I'm looking for a long-term relationship with someone to share my life with, and ideally grow old with, spending winters walking the ocean beaches holding hands. Well, there you have it, it's just that simple. :-) Some of my favorite local spots... Enjoy! Would you like to meet for a glass of wine?

  • Christy

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Time for a change, after being on and off of this site for while, I have learned a few things: I need patience and not everyone that says they want a relationship, really does. . I find this time of year, bittersweet, it brings and end to the beautiful, warm weather most t of us can't wait for with the parties, picnics or just friends having a gatherings which I enjoy so much, It also brings the coming of fall and another year closer to the end. I love sweaters and turtlenecks and holding hands, crispy air, fresh picked apples and cooler nights on the deck with my favorite person maybe a glass of wine or some new beverage I have been introduced to. I believe I am easy to get along with, have a pretty good sense of humor...(my friends say I should do stand-up comedy) I enjoy a multitude of activities.. Concerts, outdoor fairs , antiques, walks, bowling, long rides, traveling, gardens, I am a sap for the State Fair.. l adore animals and have one cat, at the present time. I am not allergic to anything and don't mind having them around, I am not fussy, they can sit on the couch if they want to, and sleep on the bed too.. (unless its a snake, or reptile) I am willing to try and learn new things. I am versatile , but no bungee jumping., parachuting or eating strange bugs. I am sincere, and maybe overly sensitive at times, .. but. hey, I am a woman and I admit it. I have no children, and possibly a small amount of baggage, as anyone our age does. I would hope the person I meet has some of the same things in common as me, but not all, I feel that couples need space, but also need good communication and time together. I would like to be able to laugh, cry, yell if I need to and just be myself, without judgment, control or controversy. My music preference .. hhmmm, it changes. Classic rock, 80's hair bands, R & B, top 40..; I like it all. . but not a fan of much rap or country, but it is not a deal breaker. thanks for reading my profile... a casual meeting, no expectations, a walk, coffee, whatever we both feel comfortable with.

  • Mabel

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Love to laugh! Love my job! Love my home! Love my friends! Love my family! That about sums it up!I have traveled extensively in and out of the country. It has really broadened my horizons, however I prefer a simple life at home with my partner, and "that" occassional vacation!I am on this site to meet a mature man. with a good humor, for a potential long-term or life-time relationship. I am attractive (people say I look 10 years younger than my actual age), funny, smart, honest and have a lot of great friends. If we meet and there is no chemistry then I feel like I have just made another friend. No harm done. But again, I'm hoping for a long-term relationship in the long run!Now, if you don't have a pic don't bother me please. And if you have a pic, make sure it is current! And if you are under age 40, keep looking for someone your own age! :-) That's not asking too much!Oh, one more thing, No cigarettes.....a cigar or pipe is OK! Have to be able to communicate! Must have physical attraction! I am not a big on-line chatter! Really prefer a message.Thought you might want to know my favorite quotation: "Life is short, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truly, laugh uncontrollably, and never regret anything that made you smile" Friendship first, if it happens, Exclusivity!

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