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Chandra, 53

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About Me

I like to road cycle, the pedal kind, and hike, dancing to 80s music and finding places with live bands. I enjoy relaxing on a patio, cooking together,( tho I love being cooked for), finding byob places, small towns, music festivals and nightime adventures. I enjoy outside activities and nature. Like help with home projects, day trips and overnight stays. Fireplaces and football on sundays, love hockey. I do go to the gym....but no longer a rat.I really can blend into lots of activities. I am not really obsessive about any one passion. I will get into something for awhile and then change things up.I guess you may say I don't do things that women my age are supposed to do. I have a young out look on life and would love a person who can challenge me to be my best but also someone who can lean into my world and relax. Or mine into yours. I am pretty laid back. I do have standards as we all should but I am more into hanging out with real and interesting people, than trying to impress someone. I am nice person...a bit ditzy ( not stupid tho...) and forgetful but very loyal to those who are in my world. I have a 23 year old son who just got back from his service in the Army and he is my roommate now. We co exist in a very cool way. No parent child issues. He is an amazing young man and we always got along fine before he left. Now its better because he returned a mature man with all the wild seeds worked out care of US Army. He has strong morals and is a very loyal person. I know some women have told me that men don't like women who have sons at home. Sorry if that is a deal breaker but I cant see how it would be in my case. You would probably like him more than me...LOL...Still holding onto the goal that there will be a man that will prefer me above all others. I like that comfort zone. I can usually catch on pretty quick on intents...nothing is bad per se...but may not be what I am wanting now. Can you make me laugh? Comfortable in your own skin? Want a trophy? ( delete and move on...not me!!). Just be honest about who you are and what you are looking for. Just got a black lab mix this past week...awesome dog I got from the pound. Thought I would end up getting some kind of lap dog ...and I guess I did. He just doesn't realize that he is too big for my lap. Just because I would like to have a one on one relationship doesn't mean I will fall into it on one date. Not a serial dater either. I just don't date as a full time job. Not much happens overnight. The first connection can be pretty strong sometimes, but one of us will go running from that if its too intense....yes...it does happen. I am thinking that going slow at first and getting to know each other as friends would be a good thing. I don't know....Surprise me!!! I think the old fashioned idea of calling a few days ahead and not asking what I would like to do, but having something all planned out is nice. As we were discussing the other day though, the practice of a man actually calling and having an event planned and ASKING a woman to come out, has been replaced with a text saying..." what are you up to ?" NOTE!! One last thing. Please do not *** question my religious habits, churches, beliefs or whatever you want to call it, to see if I belong to the same club as you do. . I mean it can be an important thing to you but not in the first contact *** really bad form and about as impolite as asking how much money you make And ..asking if I am a Christian?? I can believe in a higher power...but if I call it something other than what you call it.....there is no way to respond that is going to have a positive reaction. I am very spiritual. Save it for a later discussion. I can understand why to some that is important. I wish the best. Just I feel my beliefs are personal. And scammers ...please note that I will report you and I know what a fake profile is....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Classy

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    Woman. 60 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-72

    Hi! My name is Classy. I am divorced other caucasian woman with kids from Crowley, Texas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Paulette

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I'm looking for an old fashioned, honest and romantic gentleman. Tough on the outside, sensitive on the inside. These dating sites are exhausting! So many of my friends have found nice men, I thought I would try it. I just want to be a woman, romanced by a man. What do I value in a man? I value strength, chivalry, a sense of humor and a strong faith. Someone I can trust with my heart. I'm not skinny and I'm not 20, but I am happy and healthy and loving and spunky! Be honest. If I'm not your type, it's ok, just tell me. I promise I will do the same.Life should be simple, not a chore. Smiles should come easy. I still believe in love and romance and marriage. Let's put our pasts behind us and just enjoy each others company and go out and enjoy this beautiful city and all it has to offer? I'm a simple girl who hates drama, looking for a simple guy that understands and enjoys a woman's company... I love going to the movies, out to dinner, to all of the festivals, and theaters. I love Alternative Rock, old school rock, and Crooners and classical too. I love surprises and romance.Don't exhaust me with games... I'm not desperate. ***, try to win me with romance and respect. If you are on this site just looking for sex, please pass me by. I'm not your girl. Thanks for reading this. Are you him? A perfect first date for me would be to meet for a glass of wine or a drink and then have a casual dinner. After that, a movie or live music or a walk by the lakefront (If we still like each other) :)

  • Thelma

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Deal breaker for me is alcohol, even social, sorry but my life is lived on being alcohol and drug free. I don't do sex texting, first sign you lose contact with me. I love being a grandma (aka: momo). I think people who know me would say I have a big heart and that I have a great sence of humor. I don't allow drama and stress in my life. I live and let live (well I try real hard anyway) try to live in today yet have a goal for tomorrow. My family is very impotant to me and I to them. Favorite tv is hgtv which I am not one to watch tv for more than an hour a day and somedays not at all. Maybe coffee in a public area and chit chat, fall is coming on and I love the colors so maybe meet at a park. No drinks of alcohol.

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