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Heidi, 51

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About Me

I'm newly separated - working out the details/laying the groundwork for a divorce after 16 years...I'm moving to Splitsville! I'm not looking for a saint or a savior. I'm also not looking for a 1-night stand or a lifelong partner. I'm ready to live it up, laugh it off and let it loose!I want someone fearless and upbeat to kick it with! If you're looking for a meek, mild-mannered, quiet type, for heaven's sake, keep scrolling. That's not ME! No stuffy, uptight sophisticated types need apply! Must have an outrageous sense of humor and a fairly robust wild side!~THINGS I LOVE~- MMA/Ultimate/Extreme Cage Fighting, Boxing, Baddest Man Street Fighting~THINGS I HATE~Ramen Noodles, Corn Dogs, Pretty Boys/Players, Fake Tan, Seaweed, Dirty Feet, Check Engine Lights, Racism, Homophobia, Addiction, Snobs/Gloating/Bragging, Dip/Snuff ...hmm...It's not WHAT you do, but WHO you do it with...I'm open to suggestions and willing to consider a multitude of ideas. Try me!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marion

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'm a serious career woman who has a goofy side that likes to have fun too. I'm outgoing and have a good sense of humor. Separated end of December and divorce was finalized July 10, ***. Just trying to meet new like minded people for fun socializing. I'm not looking to rush into anything and hope that those who are interested can be patient with me given I am recently out of a 20 year relationship and surely am out of practice.Other notable information:1. I am really 5 foot ***inches but meetville does not allow halfsies for height.2. I am not a cook. Sure I microwave, and cook a few things, but one should not expect great cooking from me.3.4. Typically friends and co-workers would say I'm an intelligent person, but they all know I am navigationally impaired despite that. Even when using the GPS I have been known to get lost (my friends and co-workers raze me about this often).5. I like people and their stories.6. I dislike traditional exercise and have only managed to be good at it when I can think of it as fun and not exercising. Examples for me are walking, bicycling, roller skating, tennis, and soccer (one year - but i might go back to it).. But I must admit I don't do any of them consistently enough except walking. Striving to do better.7. I have respect for a lot of religions. I was raised as a protestant, but admittedly I have not been active with a church in years.8. I love the way the beach looks and like walking there, but just not into sitting out in the sun out by the pool or the beach when it is ***degrees! I love doing it during the winter in S.9. I am disappointed when we assume the worst in another human without really knowing the real facts. We all do it and I strive to always assume the best, but perfect I am not.10. I have about a dozen pair of readers tucked away at home and the office because of the realization that my arms are no longer long enough.11. Some of my bad habits I should try to ditch are too much salt, diet cokes and chewing ice. 12. If your tall though, don't let the mini concern you. It's been successfully tested by 6 foot 5 inch individuals and confirmed as an okay fit for even a tall person. If you're over 6'5" we'll take your car. :***.14. I am not a fan of reality TV for the most part. Big Bang Theory, House or Person of Interest might get me to stop in front of the TV, but it would never be the end of the world if I missed any television show.15. I love staying busy doing fun and interesting things with other people. I prefer to be a participant in life verses just an observer.16. I love doing the unexpected to help someone or to make them smile. It makes them feel good but more importantly it helps me feel like a good person. ““Any venue where you can hear one another and have time to get to know one another a little better is good. First impressions are important, but it doesn't have to be anything over the top or expensive to be a lovely date.” ”

  • Nannie

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I enjoy spending time with my kids and watching them compete in their sports. Baseball is very big with my boys who are 16 and 18 yrs old, and it consumes most of my Spring and Summer. I follow them to as many of their local and away games as I can. I also enjoy hanging with my family and friends just to visit, laugh and/or goof around. I come from a family of 6 kids, so I am never without a place to visit, nor a sibling to laugh with. If you haven't already identified the theme here, it is that I whole heartedly appreciate a good laugh! I LOVE smart, witty banter between two people. I also enjoy being goofy when the time presents itself. Making people laugh is an art form I feel, and a true gift. I feel I have a good sense of humor. At least that is what I have been told, and I know I sure do laugh alot! Being a single mom, however, for the last 15 years has also given me the opportunity to express a more serious side. Knowing how to listen can gain you a wealth of knowledge as a parent. So, believe me, I try to listen just as much as I talk.I have found that it is important to say that my degree is in Psychology. I tend to think a bit differently than most. When I first meet someone, I tend to ask a lot of questions. I don't mean to be nosey or rude. It's just how my brain works. (It's like putting a puzzle together for some.) That's probably why I am good at my job, because I truly want to get to know a person, the real them. Please don't let this scare you off. After I do get to know someone, I will relax. I then tend to have a silly or sometimes naughty sense of humor. I probably should put on here what it is I'm attracted to. I love a beautiful smile, one that takes my breath away. I like an intelligent man who can hold an intelligent conversation and also make me laugh. As I said before, I LOVE smart, witty banter. It's a real turn on! Honesty and integrity are a must. As most on here have stated, we have a certain "type" that we are attracted to. Even though I am a curvy girl, I tend to be attracted to an average to athletic man. (It's just how my brain is wired.) I accept that I will not be every man's heart's desire. Once I have found that person, I will be very touchy-feely. I like showing affection. (This is the part my sons would put their hands over their ears. lol!) If you would like to know more, please message me. I'd be happy to share. Good luck in your search, and I hope that you find your "one true love". :) For a first date, I would rather it be less formal and go out for coffee or a soda on a Saturday morning or afternoon. Or we could meet at a sports bar for a glass of wine or a beer. :)

  • Brigitte

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    looking for real people not out to hurt or get even with the one they claim to care about. people who dont lie or twist things for there benifit.Is this you? .I know what im looking for and am very selective in finding it so if you think your gonna bs me think again. If you think there may be a connection then by all means contact me and lets see where it goes Ask for ex girlfriends or ex wifes phone numbers as a references lol

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